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Just wanted to quickly share something I noticed yesterday. To some it might seem obvious but maybe not to others.
In the last 4-5 months I have seen very often a guy who's less experienced than me in pick-up and seduction (although he manages to compensate that with the fact that he's very good-looking, at least in the first part of the interaction, after I am the one opening). I've often found myself having to do most of the effort, not only to open girls but also to incentive him to do the same. Basically I had to be the source of motivation both for myself and for him, which is cool because you develop independence and leadership, but sometimes you wish for somebody to look up to as well.
Yesterday I went out with a buddy I hadn't seen in almost a year. This guy is much more experienced than me, both in terms of fundamentals and game (even though is not as good-looking than the other guy). I have to say: the sole presence of this guy around me made me pick up around three times more girls I do normally. Also on average the interactions went better than usual.
For example: when I go out at night, I pick up primarily in bars and clubs. Sometimes I do open on the streets, but I always need some very original line and I have to think about it. This guy wasn't really caring. He spotted a girl in the metro station, in the train, in a fast food, or walking on the street and said: ok, let's open this one. Most of the time was something very simple like "hey girls, what's up". Simply watching him made me do in one night improvements that I normally do in months.
Even the less experienced guy, who was with us too, and who almost never opens, couldn't help opening some girls at one point.
Experienced wingmen emanate some sort of aura that motivates you and naturally gets out of your comfort zone. I know some guys who are intimidated (and also jealous if not resentful) and don't go out with more experienced guys even if they know them. I can say now that's a huge mistake.
In the last 4-5 months I have seen very often a guy who's less experienced than me in pick-up and seduction (although he manages to compensate that with the fact that he's very good-looking, at least in the first part of the interaction, after I am the one opening). I've often found myself having to do most of the effort, not only to open girls but also to incentive him to do the same. Basically I had to be the source of motivation both for myself and for him, which is cool because you develop independence and leadership, but sometimes you wish for somebody to look up to as well.
Yesterday I went out with a buddy I hadn't seen in almost a year. This guy is much more experienced than me, both in terms of fundamentals and game (even though is not as good-looking than the other guy). I have to say: the sole presence of this guy around me made me pick up around three times more girls I do normally. Also on average the interactions went better than usual.
For example: when I go out at night, I pick up primarily in bars and clubs. Sometimes I do open on the streets, but I always need some very original line and I have to think about it. This guy wasn't really caring. He spotted a girl in the metro station, in the train, in a fast food, or walking on the street and said: ok, let's open this one. Most of the time was something very simple like "hey girls, what's up". Simply watching him made me do in one night improvements that I normally do in months.
Even the less experienced guy, who was with us too, and who almost never opens, couldn't help opening some girls at one point.
Experienced wingmen emanate some sort of aura that motivates you and naturally gets out of your comfort zone. I know some guys who are intimidated (and also jealous if not resentful) and don't go out with more experienced guys even if they know them. I can say now that's a huge mistake.
