FU More screwups to learn from 2/7

[thedude]

It was another friday night and my fraternity was having another mixer. Which means I didn't have to leave my house to get some experience.

I head downstairs, talk to some different people until an opportunity presents itself.

I see this group of three girls and one of them is trying to take a picture of the other two without them noticing. SHe does with the flash and the other
two girls are shocked whatever.

Then when her two friends begin to leave I jump in to say

Me: I like what your trying to do with your candid photography

She agrees and explains what she's trying to do, I say...

Me: I then say most pictures are staged and fact, it's nice to see you trying to get the "real" thing

At this point I think she asks me what my major is, I tell her Business Administration and she then tells me she's joining a business frat. We banter about that and then I fuck shit up.

I try and use a neg hit/push/pull and it goes like this

Me: I like that you're ambitious but don't get any ideas, thee are at least 5 other things to meet my standard.
Her: what are they, I'm ambitious...
Me: I'll reveal them in time
Her:.....

And she exited the conversation soon after lol. Need to improve some more..

The rest of the night was lackluster although I did have another opportunity that I fucked up, some girl that I had failed with before was once again attracted to me, like she had forgotten before.

I managed to move her around and she was punching me a lot when I said funny stuff! But I did an unecessary neghit again lol and it killed the conversation once more.

I think If I had just invited her to grab a shot in my room with me, I could of sealed the deal. O well.
At least I was doing Kino a lot better during these interactions.

Live and learn.

 

[theemann31]

Nice work College,

Neg hits are fun to do, in my experience you have to do them juuuust right to get them to work, subtle delivery, right facial expression so that she takes it as a compliment then a second later, "wait, what!" and laughs.

Lately I've been a lot more "non techniquey" with girls, just start the conversation some way and chat with her, touch her occasionally and try to move the girl and that seems to be legit. I'd say there's no need to force in a neg hit or any of that if it's not natural for the moment or the girl as is seems to be more trouble than it's worth, but that's just my opinion.

Stay on your grind bro!

-Josh