More Than Just a Study Group

[Smurf]

Hey guys.

It's my freshman year in college and I've made a few friends in my foreign language class. One of the girls I met is cute so I'd like to see if I could make something of it. I know going direct would be suicide here, and I also know that non verbals here would be important, I just don't exactly know how I should use them. I've only been good with non verbals with one girl, and that's because we just connected physically, but otherwise my skills are pretty average. So if anyone could help out with this situation that would be great.

Jake.

 

[Ross]

Ah... college freshmen.

The interesting thing about freshmen is that they are currently in need of a lot of things if they don't come from around that area. They need friends, lovers, and providers, because they don't know everyone or everything - they're thrown into a new environment.

Because of this, I've found that freshmen will very readily accept any invitations or leadership. Speed game excels in these types of situations, so that should be your aim; lead her and get her isolated as soon as you can, then proceed with physical escalation.

If you need a plan of action from classroom to bedroom, here's a good one to follow,

- Isolate her from group of classmates by getting into a 1-on-1 conversation after class, lead her away from others.
- Figure out logistics (are you in an apartment? on campus? at home? is she on campus? at apartment? will roommates interfere?)
- Go to place of isolation
- Kiss her within 10 minutes of being alone

I know your concern is in determining how exactly to show interest in the girl, but luckily you don't have to explicitly show it in this type of situation because these girls tend to be extremely compliant. Strong leadership and going after what you want is plenty enough to show these girls that you're interested and get them interested in you.

 

[Smurf]

Thanks for the insight Ross! I feel like I'm at an advantage as well because I know the campus very well and the class we have together I know really well too. I'll try this and post up how it works on Tuesday. Thanks again

Jake.