Moving Fast - But what if I HAVE to move SLOW

[14sherif]

Ill make this short - I injured my penisand according to the doctor shouldnt have sex or masturbate for at least a month
Last night I met up with a girl I know it couldve gone down but.. you know
Now I remember the advise of Chase.. dont put her in a hot situation and then not complete your job by taking it all the way so if I cant have sex or make out what can I do
How can I drag these for 4 weeks - unfortunately she is also in my seminar class which takes place twice a week so I can just disappear - How can I move slow?

Infact this doesnt just apply to this girl but all the other girls I might meet in the next month or so
Yh so Id appreciate all your opinions advice - Thanks

 

[Franco]

14sherif,

Personally, I'd take the time that you're healing to do other things in your life that need to get done, or focus on some other hobby in the meantime. Not being able to bed women is going to lead to a lot of chasing that ends up going nowhere. There are very few "exceptions" to the rule of moving fast, and the ones that do exist usually have to do with long distance. Unfortunately, breaking your penis is not one of them. =/

If you'd still like to date girls just for the practice of approaching and dating, then that's fine. But as far as taking things to the next level, I would keep your expectations low with the women you approach while you are injured. Otherwise you're just going to stress yourself out when the girls lose interest.

- Franco

 

[trashKENNUT]

Kegels anyone? Don't force yourself, Relax on this one.

Zac

 

[Nova]

how did you injure your penis

 

[daviddreamer]

Get good at Oral Sex

 

[14sherif]

The HOW of how i injured im not sure about but the skin around the slit of the penis has ripped abit - you cant see it but you can definitely feel it - had trouble walking for a week before i went to the doctors haha - i guess i just went too hard

Anyway Franco youre advise is definitely sound on this one - But I think things are just starting to piece together for me so I dont want to stop 'practicing' but at the same time of course i cant put my health at jeopardy

For this particular girl or any other ones how can I keep expectations low?

 

[Franco]

For this particular girl or any other ones how can I keep expectations low?

Just assume you won't be having sex with any girls you meet while you're healing. If you approach a girl and start thinking, "man, I think this girl really wants me!" and then you start thinking that you're going to have sex with her when in reality you know you can't, you're likely going to falsely lead yourself down a delusional path. Instead, if you do want to approach women still at the moment, tell yourself, "I'm going to approach this girl and make her want me. Then I'm going to never contact her again, or I'm going to friend-zone her."

Make your goal with the women you meet while you're healing NOT be sex or girlfriend. If you feel like you can't do that, then I think engaging in a different hobby in the meantime is probably the most sound advice.

- Franco