Hello guys,
Recently I've been stuck in a place I can't seem to get out of, and I think I figured out the cause, which is why I'm making this thread.
Over the last few months I've made some changes to my style that in my opinion have pushed my fundamentals forward more than ever before. These included taking more care of my hair (and facial hair as well), more stylish clothes, new watches, rings and a better sense of style in general. And I've noticed that I'm getting checked out a lot more often than before, which is awesome. However the problem that I've noticed (other than not taking enough action) is that I'm killing this attraction when I start talking to the women.
The best I can tell is that it's a congruence problem. My fundamentals are giving a certain sexy vibe that I'm not maintaining when I start talking. And I actually have to admit that my conversations are being very platonic, even though I'm not trying to hide my intentions (direct approach, giving compliments).
Can anyone give me a few pointers about how I can make my conversations more sexual (sex talk seems kinda difficult for me to pull off right now), and how to get in a sexual state while in a conversation with a girl? Years of bad training made me immediately go into nice guy mode when in a conversation. Many times I do get out of it and make it more sexual and exciting, but I'm afraid it's the exception not the norm.
Recently I've been stuck in a place I can't seem to get out of, and I think I figured out the cause, which is why I'm making this thread.
Over the last few months I've made some changes to my style that in my opinion have pushed my fundamentals forward more than ever before. These included taking more care of my hair (and facial hair as well), more stylish clothes, new watches, rings and a better sense of style in general. And I've noticed that I'm getting checked out a lot more often than before, which is awesome. However the problem that I've noticed (other than not taking enough action) is that I'm killing this attraction when I start talking to the women.
The best I can tell is that it's a congruence problem. My fundamentals are giving a certain sexy vibe that I'm not maintaining when I start talking. And I actually have to admit that my conversations are being very platonic, even though I'm not trying to hide my intentions (direct approach, giving compliments).
Can anyone give me a few pointers about how I can make my conversations more sexual (sex talk seems kinda difficult for me to pull off right now), and how to get in a sexual state while in a conversation with a girl? Years of bad training made me immediately go into nice guy mode when in a conversation. Many times I do get out of it and make it more sexual and exciting, but I'm afraid it's the exception not the norm.
