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Real quick I want to share a realization I just had. It's better to meet a girl in public and then isolate her than it is to start out isolated. This is because it creates a sense of progress in the seduction, allows both of you to get more comfortable with one another, and can be used for you to showcase each other's social skills to one another. Beginning a date in relative privacy can leave greater room for doubt if you're not on your A-Game, as they aren't going to see any sort of preselection, while in public establishments (like coffee shops and bars) you can build some social proof and verify that you're as she sees you (awesome), even if only through your interactions with employees of the establishment. Thinking back on my recent past successes, they all involved moving from public to private, or private to public to private. This is tied in with the value in moving girls as soon as possible. Implicitly in that rule is that you should be continuously moving them towards more private situations. So the more public the start point, the more potentially exciting the seduction will become. Of course there are other ways to make for an exciting seduction, but why bother swimming upstream when the current will take you where you're trying to go? 