MUGENYI'S NEWBIE ASSIGNMENT

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Hey guys, At first I didnt have the desire to post my assignment since I got stack on the way and thought this could motivate me.
DAY 1 OBSERVATION
I must find 4 places where am going to workout the regime. Now here is the matter:
I live in a remote area with low population and the only place I can find some traffic is the nearby tradind centre which works on selected days.
Am going to use this place not that I dont follow the rules but I really need this. And the challenge I see here is that I will have limited chances and it will take a lot of time and effort. My duty is to utilise any chance I get resourcefully. So today am going to scout that area again as the assignment states.
 

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DAY 2 is about walk and posture.
I tried to walk with my legs apart, taking moderate long strides and facing point forward with my chest also out. It feels intimidating at first and I think in few days it will feel normal.
Here its not about what your feel, Its about doing what the assignments states.
 

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Day3 was about eye contact and I finished this (10 people) rightaway in the morning. It was difficult though on the first one, she was a beatiful woman about 40 but after others were smooth. There was also this cute white girl about 20 who gave me the longest eye contact about 50 secs until I tapped out.
 
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Day 4 one of hardest tasks in my life.
I will be sincere, I spent about 3 weeks on this. Am going to explain why based on what I experienced and discovered while teaching my brain something it considered as a taboo.
Approach anxiety in saying hi to a girl alters from situation to another.

Saying hi only is more difficult than saying hi and adding on a genuine question like asking direction.

There is a difference in the anxiety when a girl is;
moving towards you,
standing,
sitting,
moving in same direction with you,
coming behind from her,
She is noticing you or even looking you in the eyes
And many other situations all have different difficulties but the tough part is approaching her while she is standing while looking at you and say hi only and leave.
This may seem as no subject if you never been a nice guy but am telling you its very tough.
Advices like say hi and ask her for the time if she has or any other genuine question like giving you direction dont help.
The only solution I found to this is DOING IT.
You must step on your self, thoughts, conciousness, fear, calm your self and do it.

The brain doesnt learn skills when you think about them but when you take action.
 
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Day 5 was so simple like I thought it was a day off.
And here I tried to alter the situations to make sure am ready for the next task.
Soon there guys.
 

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Day 6 was half day off.
I managed to have small talk with 3 girls but failed the last optional task of getting rejected 3 times.
So I demanded it to my self because I had fear of rejection and decided to repeat day 6 next day.
Not easy to say negative to a girl.
I got rejected 3 times by young cute girls and I used the same phrase.
Me: Hi
Her: Hi
Me: Come and escort me to my home.
She blew me and here I felt good and laughed.
 

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DAY 7: COMPLIMEMT
I got the same anxiety as I got on day 4 and didnt finish it today.

I know it looks easy but me my self I was surprised when I feared to go for the approach even atleast one.

I was going to make it on one woman whom I stopped while she was walking and stopped on "how is it going" and I froze and let her go.

I think I lacked the fundamentals and I have a long way to work on that.

I have to finish it tommorrow
MUGENYI
 
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