My basic goal for getting back on the horse.

[NiceGuy110]

Haven't been out in 2 months. My goal for the next few nights is to be like chump in this video. It would be naive to expect to be any more. I think there's a lot to be learned from this video, in how guys will watch it and think they can be like Fassbender. He ends up banging the blonde one.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=poSZyKpIqTQ

The last night I went out, I bailed on so many opportunities. My basic goal is just to open and get rejected.

 

[Fuck This]

Haven't been out in 2 months. My goal for the next few nights is to be like chump in this video. It would be naive to expect to be any more. I think there's a lot to be learned from this video, in how guys will watch it and think they can be like Fassbender. He ends up banging the blonde one.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=poSZyKpIqTQ

The last night I went out, I bailed on so many opportunities. My basic goal is just to open and get rejected.

So you are planning to fail. There is a difference between having low expectations, and planning to fail.

Instead, tell yourself, and anyone who asks, you are out to soak up the vibe and enjoy yourself. Slow down. Your speech, your movements, your mind. Enjoy the game on the TV. Observe the people around you. Catalogue in your mind who looks like a couple. Have a meal and enjoy it. Greet people and be warm but don't chase. Read people's facial expressions and posture. Women can sense when you are at ease, and are attracted when you are. And when it happens, it will fall in your lap effortlessly. The girl will be the one chattering and excited. While you reassure her with a quiet warm smile.

 

[NiceGuy110]

Thanks Fuck This

So you are planning to fail?

For the sake of approaching the first girl of the night, yes. If it's your mission to fail, what can possibly stop you from approaching?

But it's not like once I fail, I'll say mission accomplished and then go home!

 

[Fuck This]

No you missed the point.

Give yourself a bigger target rather than purposely missing the target. If you simply make the goal to introduce yourself to women you find attractive, the you can't fail. Rejection or no...