FR+  My buddy's sexy ass cousin || Before I knew Game ep1

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I thought it would be interesting to write a fieldreport series on the successes I had with girls before I knew game.

And then break down what I could have done better with the skill and experience that I have now


So..

Here's what happened:



My aunty had asked me to house-sit for her,

while her and my sisters went out camping as they tend to do during the long weekends.


She always gives me a couple bucks after they came back from their trip.

They'd normally pay me R200.

Rand is the currency here in South Africa.

in American cash that would be about $15 I'd say



This would involve looking after the animals.

Feeding the dogs, cats and the gerbal. And keeping them company during the day, so they treat the furniture respectfully haha



They had this boxthing attached to the tv that you could access and watch basically whatever movie or series you wanted..
(They have Netflix now so that's pretty fun)



Before would I sit down to enjoy watching something,

I would normally waltz over to my house to grab food.


Now on this occasion,
for some reason, I can't remember why (maybe to add cayenne pepper to the food or something)
but I was walking back to my mom's place with the plate of macaroni she had made for me, in my hand.


Super excited to get back to my aunts place,
and feast while I binge on some Rick and Morty... with the peace of mind knowing that I'm getting paid for it :)


On route to my mom's place, I walked into this girl.




As were walking toward eachother, I recognised her face...


I realised that I had her as a friend on facebook even though
we had never had any interaction between us before this.


So I stopped with a smile on my face, and mentioned this fact to her...

She said she recognised me from her facebook too.


At this point...you need to understand, I had no idea who this girl was... never mind not knowing that she was my buddy's cousin.



We chatted.. I had no idea about game, even tho I had experience with the females..


I was super present to the moment that Sunday.

After noticing she had a tattoo on her arm, I was genuinely curious so I asked her about it.. think she said it was a phoenix


We shared an amazing positive energy together,
Her wide eyecontact was signalling attraction.

I didn't have any plans to get intimate with her at that stage

Hadn't even noticed how sexy she was, I was too amped up about how awesome my day was gonna be



"Hiii! Caydice!" I heard Aunty Anisa's voice echoe from the yard next to us (a different lady who had been around in my life alot during my childhood)


Looking over the fence I saw Anisa

"Hi Aunty Anisa!!" Caydice yelled back.

"You know aunty Anisa!?" I blurted out pleasantly surprised


"Yeah. She basically raised me when I was a kid." The girl replied


She told me she would be in town for a bit but she would be returning to Johannesburg soon.


We enjoyed talking so much that we both agreed, we should definitely hangout again.


Back then I was an up-and-down christian trying to find the truth about God and I persuaded myself in my heart:
"Oh God..I'm not gonna fall into temptation with this girl... I would just fancy someone to talk with about my experience in the Amazon. And she seems cool"

Back then, I didn't have that much of a social circle.. atleast in this town. I had friends further up in Capetown, around South Africa and overseas.
But so many in this town at the time.


After some more chit-chat..I said deuces and we parted ways.


Later on
We both made plans to meetup with eachother via facebook messenger




Soon after that day we met up.


We greeted eachother at the shopping centre, and I went along with her, and we did some shopping with her grandmother.


Because I was so polite back then, she liked me but I think she was tryina figure out who am I behind closed doors.

It's almost as if she purposely tried to make me angry, (another girl who's related to her did the same thing, testing me to see if I really was legit, was I really the guy who she had a desire for and who she thinks I am)

Eventually we were at the bread section of Pic'nPay


I felt like she was showing me off as a trophy that she had scored..

like she was trying to get other girls to notice that I was with her.

As we spoke she was louder than usual..



Out of the blue, she mentioned that she had a boyfriend in Joburg while we were chatting


Hahah at first, the thoughts going through my head were "WHAT THE FUCK?"


but then it began to make a bit more sense...


"She wants to indirectly imply to me that she has a boyfriend...and she wants to know if I'm okay with that...
she wants to see if I'm the type to judge her or not"


At that moment I became self-aware and caught myself...

"Aha! Why should I care.. I DID say to myself that I only wanted to hang out with her for conversation reasons.."

(Author's commentary: You slyfox you, Paul...you sexy devil you ;p persuading your own religious conscience and shit) I don't think I do this often, I just caught myself this time... I still treat people as I want to be treated


We drove back to her house to drop off the groceries and her grandmother, in a silver slightly beaten-down mini.


"We're just gonna drop her off. Okay, Paul?"

"Cool"


Caydice drops off her gran and brings me into the house (you can clearly tell I wasn't as dominant then as I am now in my newer fieldreports)

She ends up introducing me to her family...who I just so happen to actually know...

I find out that she's my buddy's cousin...

Interesting.

I knew he looks up to me, I wondered to myself how he would feel if he knew I was going out with Caydice.


She told me stories of her lifestyle in Johannesburg...

I made up my mind "Remind me not to be in the same car as her when she's driving"



We stopped at a restaurant here in Africa that we call "Spur"...

It's like a Native-American themed steakhouse kinda vibe.

People drink beer and eat burgers there too haha.

While watching their favourite rugby teams merrily grapple eachother to the ground on the elevated TV screens


After opening up to her about some experiences of mine in Brazil. I just wanted to vent lol

She opened up to me about some deep stuff in her life (I won't share that on here, just out of respect for her)

The waiter brought over the receipt book...
I just looked at it and then calmly looked at her.


"I'll pay!" She announced, "I'm not like those other girls...I'm different"


So she paid for both our meals. I don't think she even finished hers...


It was hilarious...
cause she took a doggybag for the road and it was rolling around on the floor of the car as we were driving back.


It probably morphed into an avalanche of white sauce and BBQ...
not too far (as I was about to discover) from what her plans were for our reproductive organs.


Silence.


The car stood idling next to the front gate of my mom's place.

My buddy's sexy ass cousin and I (I'm a sexyass too lol)
sitting quietly inside, staring ahead of the dash.. down the neighborhood road


Still quiet.


There was something dancing inside of both of us... I just didn't know how to express it... or maybe I did... just didn't know if I should.


More silence.



"I've got these thoughts" My voice earnestly penetrated the silence. I spoke the most genuine thing I could straight from the bottom of my heart



Silence.



"What thoughts?" She whispered.


She knew the thoughts..she just wanted me to be the one to bring them up




I breathed in... and blanked my mind...

blanked the religion I was fed as a child... (haha this sounds pretty dramatic... it was for me, at that stage)


I knew that something inside of me desired something from her...and I sensed she felt the same way too


I had already flexed my bicep for her and she liked it. She told me how she likes guys who have the wing-like muscles on on their back ( I figure she's referring to lats)


"Dirty thoughts." I announced.. with a now muted conscience



We looked at eachother..


This was during the period when I had just started taking gymming seriously...

my muscles weren't the size that they are now but my biceps and triceps were still noticable


I wore a white striped tshirt, that was tightly fitted. And very lightblue skinny jeans and vans, that all matched rather well


"It would be nice if we kissed" I said.



"I really wana kiss you Paul..." She spoke softly


"but...I have a boyfriend." she said the bf part kind of sadly



With the assistance of my racing heart and probably my dick..
My brain instantly transformed into a fucking mastermind...


Without thinking for long,

I heard these crafty words leave my mouth (Not to judge myself haha. I know it's not that bad..but I'm putting you in the shoes of my worldview at the time)



"You said you and your boyfriend have been fighting recently,right?" I asked


"Yes" she replied


"And youve been drifting apart right?" I asked


"Yes"


"He would probably understand if you cheated on him...would he?" I asked


"He would" She said.



"Let's makeout" I told her... "It'll help relieve stress"


I distinctly remember delivering the killing-blow haha ("it'll relieve..")


From what she had told me earlier about her relationship between her and her bf..
it sounded like things were on the chill-side
and he might himself have been hooking up with other women



We were looking into eachothers eyes.

I then had a lightbulb moment "wow, this chick is actually really attractive.." my mind realized


Smooth silky shiny raven-black hair, the sexy bouncy kind.. hung from her lightly tanned temple

cute eyes, and an adorable but naughty sexy face...

those light brown eyes staring at me with anticipation



She had the tits and probably the ass too (which I found out later)


We moved our faces nearer to eachother


We began frenchkissing.


Touching her body with my hands


From my past experience, I remembered the importance of being the first to pull away from the kiss. Which is exactly what I did.


I pulled back after we had smooched


and we made eyecontact again


Lust twirled in her eyes like a divine smoke.


"Have you ever had sex before?" she asked me in a hushed tone


"No.. I don't wana have sex" I told her
That was my response to some good fucking ass *rolling my eyes at myself* (I've improved haha)


"Have you had sex before?" I asked her in turn.


"Yes." She said



"How does it feel?" I asked


"It feels amazing...it feels really really good" She said.




Later.


She parked her car at my buddy's familys house.

Their large black husky-lookalike dogs greeted us in the driveway

I entered the front door and was welcomed by the family members into the lounge


Coming out of her room, she met me in their lounge,

where the older ladies were entertaining themselves with me "Such a goodlooking young man!"
Probably fantasizing some horny-ass shit XD


She approached me, chewing on a stick of gum as she lifted up her hand and offered me some "You want?"


Took it, and started chewing
"I know the drill"I thought to myself

We were just about to leave, to wherever she was gonna take me ( I could definitely have been more in the leading position)

Her aunt told us to bring my buddy's super energetic little sister with us on our adventure.


As we strolled down the neighbourhood road together,
we passed the public green grassy park that was on the same property of a colonial white church building


Her lady relative (who I mentioned a bit earlier, who tested me)...
she had big eyebrows and wasn't in shape.

(Nowadays her body's actually in good shape. I could call her attractive. Ironically she flirts with me on her way past my house sometimes. I think this is because she's become more confident in herself now)

Ms Eyebrows spotted us waltzing from the swing-sets at the park.

She jogged up and began tagging along with us.

So it's now the energetic little sister AND the biggish girl with the eyebrows, following us.

I was relaxed about it tho.


Caydice told me, that her relative doesn't want us to hookup and that I shouldn't do anything sexual infront of her.


While her relative was chatting away with the little girl and marching ahead of us...


I secretly groped Caydice's big beautiful ass...
"Don't do it when she's around!" she gasped, pleasantly shocked by my unexpected naughtiness

It felt so smooth but firm.. she was wearing a well-fitted dress that had a thin stretchy texture, so the body could be felt nicely through it.



Misses Eyebrows wasn't going anywhere, after I realised this... I said farewell to my date, hugged her goodbye.


They invited me to their youth event at their church, where there would be other young people...
at the time I didn't see the value in going with, as I do now.




That's the tale, me amigos.



Now lets take a look at things I could have improved on...

that would have lead to sex and future sessions of wild fiend-like debauchery
...(aside from just saying "Yes" to her original offer to fuck)



Here they are:


1.) Presence - I could have been feeling my energy-body (sensations) in my hands as I spoke with her,

feeling my feet in the ground.

Being aware of my breath.

This would take me out of my head and cause me to be more present to the moment with her.



This would also have helped me be more socially fluid,

more non-reactive,

more relaxed

and able to move the interaction more towards whatever direction I fancied

also it would free up mind RAM (if you will)

this way my subconscious could access whatever lessons I had gathered over time...and remind me to gracefully implement them, in a rather natural way


One thing I've learnt is that
Relaxation is the key to the subconscious,

this is why we randomly get sudden ideas while jelquing in the shower or when we smoke some Bob Marley.


Books I would recommend on this are:

The Power Of Now by Eckhart Tolle

and Psycho-Cybernetics by Dr Maxwell Maltzz



(Do research on jelquing BEFORE you try it btw)




2.) I could have been more playfully challenging in the coversation.


This would help me to spike her emotions.

And give her the beautiful rollercoaster ride that she cherishes. Skyrocketing attraction

It would also allow me to say many things that a person wouldn't otherwise be able to say if they didn't start off the interaction this way.



3.) Preselection

- I could have idirectly mentioned my previous girlfriend or the one chick from where I used to live,

how she gave me an assjob and then I jizzed all over her cheeks,
This is how I would go about doing this indirectly:

While I'd make a game of US in our own little bubble, in our own world together

I'd have us guessing about, pointing out and playfully joking about what other people might be doing in their sexlives,

I'd tell her "You see that lady with the black jacket..."

"Yeah?" she'd say

I'd continue with:

"She's cute and adorable BUT you can just tell she's inexperienced
She's definitely one of those girls who doesn't know how to handle a dick in her hands"


Caydice would probably burst out laughing like most girls and then ask "Haha! Handle a dick? What do you mean?"


Then I'd segwey into story about the time this one sexy chick in Botswana,

wanted me to fuck her but I chose to only grind on her asscheeks with my shaft.

After I released a big hot white load on her back, she started massaging my dick,

and it was pleasant but at the same time it was not-so-pleasant, cause she clearly didn't know how hard to squeeze my dick,

she held it quite hard and for some reason I didn't mention anything to her (i would have done so now) but I tried to keep my balls out of her hands , as she played with the rod XD


and I'd summarize the story with:

"some girls aren't experienced and just don't know how to handle a dick in their hands. Its crazy, they gotta be more fucking careful. I mean she can't blame me for not responding to her messages anymore." and then I'd look off into the distance just as I say that.



This way all of that info
(all true stories btw that's very important....I'm big fan of TRUTH...it makes things simpler and you just feel more proud of yourself and confident)

all of that info was indirectly embedded into that diatribe,
This way she can unconciously register my higher status

let's look at what ingredients your favourite alchemist mixed into this potion of horniness.


- Preselection. A hot girl kept asking to fuck her

- Sexplant. Her brain just imagined a whole porno with me being the stud. This can make her think what would it be like for her to be with me.

- Abundance. the lass had messaged me multiple times and I hadn't responded







4.) Kino escalation

this one rests on the assumption that I'd be playfully challenging in the interaction. Atleast for it to be congruent to my style


I could pull of something like,

"You've got big hands don't you? Lemme see"

then with full positive assumption put out my hand in anticipation of receiving hers,



we measure our hands against eachother..and I make sure to be the first to pull away...

always be the first, lads


I could have done that one amidst our getting to know eachother when we met on the road.



Another kino escalation I could have done was, when we were in the Spur Resturant


Segwey to a fun game of thumbwar.


Let the game go on for a bit, let her get near to winning, then win instead ;p haha



"You like it when I dominate you, dont you?" I'd cheekily tease her as a caricature,

almost as if I'm not the one saying it.

And when she laughs at and receives the positive energy that I've injected into it she then accepts my frame (Jesus, I'm like a rocket-scientist with it today, huh?)






5.) Social Proof - Indirectly let her know that I'm looking after the house for my aunt and sisters, fit it into the convo


Pretty fucking simple, sir...

I feel like the key with this is to learn/practice and get to the point where you can reflexively mention the most recent
social groups you're involved with at the moment.

and gracefully knit it into conversation, in a way that's fun for you...

think of it as understanding people, their comfort levels and being empathetic to them, also think of it as a fun art, a muscle and a skill (this is how I see it)


6.) Highstatus body language - could have had better posture, puff my chest out a bit
*Self explanatory*.. this would cause her to drip more haha


7.) Compliance

at every opportunity that came up where I could tell her or ask her to do something,
I would build up her compliance..


one area that would have been good to use it was when she had pulled up to the front of my mom's place.


I'm aware that my dad doesn't like it when people park right infront of the small gate



I'd say something like

"Hey, before we continue."

"Just move the car a bit forward. My dad doesn't like it when people park in this spot... we'll be better under those trees"


and then point to where she should park while I say it, looking away from her, full assumption that she's gonna agree with my reasonable suggestion/borderline-command


Another smaller one was at Spur. Playfully make her feed me from her meal.


(Thinking back, its awesome that I inadvertently got her to pay for the food, I'm sure that boosted her investment in me)






The next compliance builder would be, Move her around:


When we sat down, I could look around and say "Nah... let's sit over there.." point to a more comfy looking table

"we deserve the best" (said in a playfully-cocky way)

then have her move with me to that part of Spur.


However the staff reacts is irrelevent, what matters is how I respond to them and whatever's presented



even if we got moved back, she'll have invested through movement already and when she sees how calm and nonchalantly I respond,



being confident but not taking myself so seriously,
she'll be even more attracted to my affectionate display of this gargantuan ballsack (boldness)




7.) Body-rock


as she spoke to me, I could have allowed her to earn the attention of my body language..


this would have been most useful during the initial meeting in the neighbourhood




8.) Attention


allow my focus float to the surroundings and bring it back to her as she begins to work for my attention




9.) free her fucking inner slut



Every person has an inner slut... especially me


At a certain point, I'd ask her
"What's the craziest most adventurous thing you've ever done?"

and then hear her out and relate to it with whatever story of mine connects with hers appropriately at the time.


She had already actually told me earlier about how she went skinny-dipping with a girl I knew and
some other chicks in a swimmingpool in their backyard..

..so she was already sexualizing the convo




10.) Roleplay

I could roleplay with her, create a character for her and myself


and then I could lead this into giving her a unique nickname and

segwey it into futurepacing an imaginary adventure that we both go on together.

While playfully inserting chaseframes, and some push/pull...



"I'm batman, and you're wonderwoman..."

"Yeah wonderwomen we'll take a trip to Hawaii. In my underwater submarine-batmobile, don't try anything sexual on me while I'm sleeping tho. I know how your mind works"


"Our feet in that soft warm white sand, swimming together in the crystal clear fresh blue ocean water.
We'll recline on the benches and I'll be like totally squashing watermelon pieces in your face *smirk* "



There's always room for more improvement...
but this would be way more than sufficient to get her sexually glued to me


Hope you guys enjoyed this fieldreport as much as I enjoyed typing it haha
..and learnt something new


Much love




- Paul
 
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