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Hey guys! Finally I did it! I’m glad I finally found the courage to do it!
After a couple of days of going out,walking down the streets, not seeing many girls and even when I saw one that I was interested in, letting her pass me by I did it!
I went out again today to do daygame,hoping I was going to spot more girls and that I would finally summon the courage to approach them.Again there were not many girls out,I saw a couple but I second guessed myself and didn’t approach.
After walking around for about 30 minutes, I said to myself, ok there are not many girls again so I must focus on approaching at least one(I live in a small city about 147000 people and it’s summer break so it is kind of empty).
So I went into the biggest park of the city and I spot this girl walking behind me which seemed pretty cute. So I said this is it I must do it!
I slow down my walk and when she got on my side I opened her with:
Me:-Excuse me..
Her:-Yes
Me:-I just wanted to tell you you’re beautiful
Her:Thanks(smiles)
Me:I’m John.
Her:-Alina.I’m in a hurry.
Me:Oh ok good bye!
And that was it! Now I wasn’t expecting to go well or something I just wanted to do it.
Now a couple of things I think I did good and bad:
-I approached
-I approached from the side,I didn’t scared her
-I introduced myself(guess it is a good thing)
-I made eye contact
And now the bad things:
-I didn’t grounded my opener
-I didn’t smile
-I probably could talk a little more but I just got nervous
-I think I should not have opened her directly I mean she was cute but not wow,I think I seemed a bit insincere,but she still smiled
-And the worst one I rushed through the opener,actually through the short interaction haha
I wanna ask for some tips too guys.
I don’t know I should keep going direct? I honestly would try to go more indirect but I don’t know what types of openers to use during the day others than asking for directions or for the time?I also think about using indirect-direct.
I also want some tips about this rushing through the opener problem that I have.Should I focus on talking more slow and take my time? I know this is because I was a little bit nervous.Did any of you guys have this problem when you first start out? And how did you get over it?
I also wanna know if it is ok I posted this in the field report? I posted in the beginners forum too although the content is a little changed.
I hope I’ll get some wisdom from you guys so I can keep going and approach more!
Thanks!
After a couple of days of going out,walking down the streets, not seeing many girls and even when I saw one that I was interested in, letting her pass me by I did it!
I went out again today to do daygame,hoping I was going to spot more girls and that I would finally summon the courage to approach them.Again there were not many girls out,I saw a couple but I second guessed myself and didn’t approach.
After walking around for about 30 minutes, I said to myself, ok there are not many girls again so I must focus on approaching at least one(I live in a small city about 147000 people and it’s summer break so it is kind of empty).
So I went into the biggest park of the city and I spot this girl walking behind me which seemed pretty cute. So I said this is it I must do it!
I slow down my walk and when she got on my side I opened her with:
Me:-Excuse me..
Her:-Yes
Me:-I just wanted to tell you you’re beautiful
Her:Thanks(smiles)
Me:I’m John.
Her:-Alina.I’m in a hurry.
Me:Oh ok good bye!
And that was it! Now I wasn’t expecting to go well or something I just wanted to do it.
Now a couple of things I think I did good and bad:
-I approached
-I approached from the side,I didn’t scared her
-I introduced myself(guess it is a good thing)
-I made eye contact
And now the bad things:
-I didn’t grounded my opener
-I didn’t smile
-I probably could talk a little more but I just got nervous
-I think I should not have opened her directly I mean she was cute but not wow,I think I seemed a bit insincere,but she still smiled
-And the worst one I rushed through the opener,actually through the short interaction haha
I wanna ask for some tips too guys.
I don’t know I should keep going direct? I honestly would try to go more indirect but I don’t know what types of openers to use during the day others than asking for directions or for the time?I also think about using indirect-direct.
I also want some tips about this rushing through the opener problem that I have.Should I focus on talking more slow and take my time? I know this is because I was a little bit nervous.Did any of you guys have this problem when you first start out? And how did you get over it?
I also wanna know if it is ok I posted this in the field report? I posted in the beginners forum too although the content is a little changed.
I hope I’ll get some wisdom from you guys so I can keep going and approach more!
Thanks!