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What up famo,
Finally starting to make good use out of a lot of the techniques and advice from you guys on here. Thank you very much for that- this forum gives great real life examples. Just went on three consecutive dates with and old friend, a girl I had a failed escalation with, and a girl I picked up at the bar last weekend.
Round One
This one is kinda different. Back as far as it can go when the opposite sexes start interacting with each other, this girl and I were attached by the hip in preschool. I hardly remember it, but my family does. I had completely forgotten everything about her, and my friend happened to try picking her up - fast forward to high school. I ended up doing early high school bullshit like calling these chicks on late nights to "talk with girls" and act like that was an accomplishment. My friend never went out of his way to get anything done with her, so I ended up texting her on and off for months. Eventually, we realized who the other was and that we had this strange history together. Fast forward to last thursday. Shout out to facebook, it was her birthday. I text her and set up a date saying we should catch up, things go smoothly.
I often take girls to my place of work (I find this to be a great tactic because it puts me at ease, shows social proof when I joke with my coworkers, and gives me easy stories and transitions into sexual topics... a lot of people get drunk there). She's nervous since we literally hadn't seen one another in 15 years (I'm early 20's), and I do a great job of calming her down and making her feel comfortable. I hardly talked about myself, letting her talk about herself most of the time, deep diving, framing her as the seductress, etc.
I suggest we go back to my place and she easily agrees (I quickly learned she's rather naive). We're at my place on the couch, easing closer to each other. I gear conversation towards how she'll always have stripping if all else fails.
Her: "Well, strippers are good people too."
Me: "I agree, but are you a good person?"
Her: "Of course!"
Me: "Prove it" mischievous smile
We start making out, and she's very quickly getting passionate as hell. Very aggressive kisser, loves biting (to the point it would be ratchet, but hey, fuck it she's horny). Things are quickly escalating until... she informs me she's on her period. The couch we're on is red so I make an amused face saying "Couch is already red isn't it?". We laugh about it, but I'm not down to get blood everywhere, so we just continue to hook up and she gives me a hand job. I tell her what a tease she is as she's leaving, and she grabs me close and we make out some more before she leaves. Not ideal, but definitely got her locked down for post-period sex.
Round Two
Only two weeks ago, I was geeking out about how badly I thought I fucked up with this one. Turns out, persistence works well with her, and I suggested a date at my house, so I don't have to worry about getting her close to my bed. I cook dinner (I'm a fairly good cook and she's impressed), and slowly but surely escalate physically. Shout out to Richard, I used his cat nudge to build sexual tension and begin making out with her shortly after our meal. However, she's not very engaged in the kissing (not terrible, but very basic. all lips, no tongue, no biting), so it was difficult to get her more into it. I did my best to get our bodies touching and feel her up. We stop after a bit, and I get her up in my room about 5 minutes later. From here, I fucked up the sexual tension. The bed is very high (brand new, great excuse to move her), and she's quite short. So, I lift her up off the floor to put her on my bed... but I did it way too quickly. I should have held her for a bit, maybe leaned in and backed off a kiss, then slowly put her on my bed to escalate. Instead I almost barbarically dropped her on my bed, and immediately regretted it (wasn't really thinking, more just going through the motions). I proceed to deep dive her followed by sexual talk after this, command her to lay down closer to me, and we eventually start making out again. This time there was much more physical contact, rapid breathing, and I could feel her getting turned on. I began feeling up her pussy to her liking, but when I tried moving it forward she stopped me, saying it was too soon. I did my best in asking if she needs to be dating for that kind of thing, and we both agree that being sexual doesn't require that and start up again. I get to the same place, but get the same reaction. Eventually I know I can't get further despite trying different things,
Any advice on how to get a girl moving forward to sex here would be much appreciated. I know she wanted to, but logically she was stopping herself. I also have trouble getting her on top of me to grind on my dick while we're kissing. Whenever I get that to happen I can also finger her in kind of a reach around way. Move my hand under her pants to grab her ass, and slowly work towards and into the pussy till she's wet enough that I can go through the front door.
I get WAY more eye contact from here after we broke the intimacy barrier, and definitely built an emotional connection with the deep diving. Next time I can probably gear her for sex.
Round Three
Not sure how I started talking to this girl. Very attractive black girl I met on the patio of a bar. I was pretty hammered, but we went from chatting to me calling her a seductress to me playing "let me find your nipple", and she loves it. Get her number, and she actually texts me first. She's also three years older than me, so that's a plus. We agree to coffee at my usual spot (across the street from where I work -- I'm starting to worry using the same vicinity for my dates will catch up with me). Date gets set up on Sunday, and I didn't text her till Thursday. I love doing this, so much less effort.
We don't have much time for the date since she works and I had class + my freestyling club before hand. But she picks me up 2 hours before she works, so I moved fast. We get coffee, I continue to be sexual with her, and frame her as chasing me (I get better at this every time, at first I think I was overusing it though). She's worried about her car overrunning the meter (which she never put change into in the first place) so I say we can go. At a stop light close to home I ask her to come in with me. She says she can't she has work, but I just went, "Oh you work at 4?", "Yes", "Okay then just come in for 5 minutes", "Okay sure". Worked like a charm.
We get to my house, I ask her to take her shoes off, and what she'd like to drink. We sit down and talk a bit more, and I continue to nudge closer to her whenever the topic changed. It had been around 5 minutes, so I ask her about her pets. I use the cat nudge again (shouldn't rely on this but it's very effective. I made out with two girls at the bar in under 5 minutes last weekend), but not to close a kiss. I start touching her legs closer to the inside, then set her glass down for her. She seems to know I'm about to try something and says she has to go soon. I take her phone from her, and say you got some more time, and she agrees to two more minutes. "A lot can happen in two minutes" I say as I lean in to kiss her.
We make out and she's quick to start stroking my dick. I respond my rubbing her pussy, very easy escalation. If she wasn't worried about work, I could have walked her right up to my room in a matter of minutes. She pulls away and stands up, so I pull her back on top of me to straddle me and we keep making out. I get about 40 seconds of this before she finally pulls off and says she really does have to go, despite the fun. She mentions something about having a date again sometime, and I tease her saying "Okay, maybe... if you're feeling lucky". We kiss it bit more until she rolls out. Texted me 15 minutes later about a conversation we were having on the date!
So, I didn't lay any of these girls, two for logistic reasons (period, work). I do think that I've improved greatly both in scheduling and going on the date in the past two weeks, and many things are starting to click. Excited for whatever adventures occur this weekend!
Keep it real y'all
-G.A.
Finally starting to make good use out of a lot of the techniques and advice from you guys on here. Thank you very much for that- this forum gives great real life examples. Just went on three consecutive dates with and old friend, a girl I had a failed escalation with, and a girl I picked up at the bar last weekend.
Round One
This one is kinda different. Back as far as it can go when the opposite sexes start interacting with each other, this girl and I were attached by the hip in preschool. I hardly remember it, but my family does. I had completely forgotten everything about her, and my friend happened to try picking her up - fast forward to high school. I ended up doing early high school bullshit like calling these chicks on late nights to "talk with girls" and act like that was an accomplishment. My friend never went out of his way to get anything done with her, so I ended up texting her on and off for months. Eventually, we realized who the other was and that we had this strange history together. Fast forward to last thursday. Shout out to facebook, it was her birthday. I text her and set up a date saying we should catch up, things go smoothly.
I often take girls to my place of work (I find this to be a great tactic because it puts me at ease, shows social proof when I joke with my coworkers, and gives me easy stories and transitions into sexual topics... a lot of people get drunk there). She's nervous since we literally hadn't seen one another in 15 years (I'm early 20's), and I do a great job of calming her down and making her feel comfortable. I hardly talked about myself, letting her talk about herself most of the time, deep diving, framing her as the seductress, etc.
I suggest we go back to my place and she easily agrees (I quickly learned she's rather naive). We're at my place on the couch, easing closer to each other. I gear conversation towards how she'll always have stripping if all else fails.
Her: "Well, strippers are good people too."
Me: "I agree, but are you a good person?"
Her: "Of course!"
Me: "Prove it" mischievous smile
We start making out, and she's very quickly getting passionate as hell. Very aggressive kisser, loves biting (to the point it would be ratchet, but hey, fuck it she's horny). Things are quickly escalating until... she informs me she's on her period. The couch we're on is red so I make an amused face saying "Couch is already red isn't it?". We laugh about it, but I'm not down to get blood everywhere, so we just continue to hook up and she gives me a hand job. I tell her what a tease she is as she's leaving, and she grabs me close and we make out some more before she leaves. Not ideal, but definitely got her locked down for post-period sex.
Round Two
Only two weeks ago, I was geeking out about how badly I thought I fucked up with this one. Turns out, persistence works well with her, and I suggested a date at my house, so I don't have to worry about getting her close to my bed. I cook dinner (I'm a fairly good cook and she's impressed), and slowly but surely escalate physically. Shout out to Richard, I used his cat nudge to build sexual tension and begin making out with her shortly after our meal. However, she's not very engaged in the kissing (not terrible, but very basic. all lips, no tongue, no biting), so it was difficult to get her more into it. I did my best to get our bodies touching and feel her up. We stop after a bit, and I get her up in my room about 5 minutes later. From here, I fucked up the sexual tension. The bed is very high (brand new, great excuse to move her), and she's quite short. So, I lift her up off the floor to put her on my bed... but I did it way too quickly. I should have held her for a bit, maybe leaned in and backed off a kiss, then slowly put her on my bed to escalate. Instead I almost barbarically dropped her on my bed, and immediately regretted it (wasn't really thinking, more just going through the motions). I proceed to deep dive her followed by sexual talk after this, command her to lay down closer to me, and we eventually start making out again. This time there was much more physical contact, rapid breathing, and I could feel her getting turned on. I began feeling up her pussy to her liking, but when I tried moving it forward she stopped me, saying it was too soon. I did my best in asking if she needs to be dating for that kind of thing, and we both agree that being sexual doesn't require that and start up again. I get to the same place, but get the same reaction. Eventually I know I can't get further despite trying different things,
Any advice on how to get a girl moving forward to sex here would be much appreciated. I know she wanted to, but logically she was stopping herself. I also have trouble getting her on top of me to grind on my dick while we're kissing. Whenever I get that to happen I can also finger her in kind of a reach around way. Move my hand under her pants to grab her ass, and slowly work towards and into the pussy till she's wet enough that I can go through the front door.
I get WAY more eye contact from here after we broke the intimacy barrier, and definitely built an emotional connection with the deep diving. Next time I can probably gear her for sex.
Round Three
Not sure how I started talking to this girl. Very attractive black girl I met on the patio of a bar. I was pretty hammered, but we went from chatting to me calling her a seductress to me playing "let me find your nipple", and she loves it. Get her number, and she actually texts me first. She's also three years older than me, so that's a plus. We agree to coffee at my usual spot (across the street from where I work -- I'm starting to worry using the same vicinity for my dates will catch up with me). Date gets set up on Sunday, and I didn't text her till Thursday. I love doing this, so much less effort.
We don't have much time for the date since she works and I had class + my freestyling club before hand. But she picks me up 2 hours before she works, so I moved fast. We get coffee, I continue to be sexual with her, and frame her as chasing me (I get better at this every time, at first I think I was overusing it though). She's worried about her car overrunning the meter (which she never put change into in the first place) so I say we can go. At a stop light close to home I ask her to come in with me. She says she can't she has work, but I just went, "Oh you work at 4?", "Yes", "Okay then just come in for 5 minutes", "Okay sure". Worked like a charm.
We get to my house, I ask her to take her shoes off, and what she'd like to drink. We sit down and talk a bit more, and I continue to nudge closer to her whenever the topic changed. It had been around 5 minutes, so I ask her about her pets. I use the cat nudge again (shouldn't rely on this but it's very effective. I made out with two girls at the bar in under 5 minutes last weekend), but not to close a kiss. I start touching her legs closer to the inside, then set her glass down for her. She seems to know I'm about to try something and says she has to go soon. I take her phone from her, and say you got some more time, and she agrees to two more minutes. "A lot can happen in two minutes" I say as I lean in to kiss her.
We make out and she's quick to start stroking my dick. I respond my rubbing her pussy, very easy escalation. If she wasn't worried about work, I could have walked her right up to my room in a matter of minutes. She pulls away and stands up, so I pull her back on top of me to straddle me and we keep making out. I get about 40 seconds of this before she finally pulls off and says she really does have to go, despite the fun. She mentions something about having a date again sometime, and I tease her saying "Okay, maybe... if you're feeling lucky". We kiss it bit more until she rolls out. Texted me 15 minutes later about a conversation we were having on the date!
So, I didn't lay any of these girls, two for logistic reasons (period, work). I do think that I've improved greatly both in scheduling and going on the date in the past two weeks, and many things are starting to click. Excited for whatever adventures occur this weekend!
Keep it real y'all
-G.A.
