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I will try keep this as short as possible and to the point. To be honest I am completely new to approaching girls. Just hope by posting my experiences I can hear some advice from people who have experienced the same things and can help me progress and become successful at getting the girl.
About 3 days ago I saw a girl in the pool hall with my friends, she was playing at the opposite table. Just the type of girl I like, but I choked and didn't go talk to her. As she left I thought "fuck"- and I made the decision to take more chances whenever they come my way - the feeling of missing chances is not cool.
So tonight I saw her again - also at the opposite table from me, this time she was with a lot of friends, but I was adamant that I would go talk to her no matter what. I went to talk to her and saw that she was pretty good at pool, so I offered her a game with me, while my friend played with one of her friends.
She said OK and we got talking. Everything was going great and my friend told me he had to go home- leaving me with the girl and one of her friends.
As we left I offered to take them to wherever they were going on my motorbike (I am living in China) and they were cool with that. The one I liked sat in the middle, directly behind me. It was Chinese new year tonight, so I offered to take them to go buy some fireworks to set off at the riverside. As we were driving along, I was joking with them and she was feeling and rubbing my arms as we went along.
After we set off the fireworks we went to sit at a park, but by this point it was already getting quite late, so I was thinking of how to get rid of her friend and get her alone- this seemed like an impossible task and I'm still not too sure how I could have done this any sooner?
But anyway, the other girl eventually said she wanted to go home, and the girl I wanted to come home with me also said she was going to go home, but she gave me her phone number first.
At this point I persuaded the girl to come to my house and drink 1 cup of wine and play the guitar - now in retrospect I'm not sure the guitar was a good idea. Because I got her back to my house, and with a little bit of persistence she came into my bedroom and sat on my bed. Since I kind of promised her a song, I got out the guitar and played away. Even though she liked it, I think maybe it was a bad idea since it was already late and she said she needed to go home soon already - so I kind of feel like I wasted valuable time?
Then I sat closer to her and started to rub her back and tell her that I like her, like her smell etc. etc.
Someone called her then she said she really had to go. I was thinking to myself "what the fuck". I tried to be a bit persuasive but obviously be careful about not giving her too much pressure and frightening her if she really wanted to go. She said she really had to go, and I decided I could do nothing but concede.
I walked her back to her apartment and on the way I asked her if it was because she thought I was a bad guy, since I just met her and brought her back to my house. She said "no, it's really because her parents wanted her to be home" I think she is only about 19 and it was about 12.30am.
So anyway I walked her to the stairs outside her neighborhood and was ready to go back, but she said... Hey, don't you want to walk me to my door?
I said OK and walked her to outside her building. I stepped in closer and asked her for a kiss, she said yes and we kissed.
As I walked away she was facing me the whole time I walked away.
So through this experience I feel happy, but also feel like I let myself down and maybe messed things up? I am happy because I talked to a girl I didn't know and brought her back to my bedroom, but unhappy because I didn't manage to take things further.
She said she would like to meet me again sometime.
Is this still doable? Or have I missed my chance?
Thanks for any advice good or bad, I can take it! haha : P
About 3 days ago I saw a girl in the pool hall with my friends, she was playing at the opposite table. Just the type of girl I like, but I choked and didn't go talk to her. As she left I thought "fuck"- and I made the decision to take more chances whenever they come my way - the feeling of missing chances is not cool.
So tonight I saw her again - also at the opposite table from me, this time she was with a lot of friends, but I was adamant that I would go talk to her no matter what. I went to talk to her and saw that she was pretty good at pool, so I offered her a game with me, while my friend played with one of her friends.
She said OK and we got talking. Everything was going great and my friend told me he had to go home- leaving me with the girl and one of her friends.
As we left I offered to take them to wherever they were going on my motorbike (I am living in China) and they were cool with that. The one I liked sat in the middle, directly behind me. It was Chinese new year tonight, so I offered to take them to go buy some fireworks to set off at the riverside. As we were driving along, I was joking with them and she was feeling and rubbing my arms as we went along.
After we set off the fireworks we went to sit at a park, but by this point it was already getting quite late, so I was thinking of how to get rid of her friend and get her alone- this seemed like an impossible task and I'm still not too sure how I could have done this any sooner?
But anyway, the other girl eventually said she wanted to go home, and the girl I wanted to come home with me also said she was going to go home, but she gave me her phone number first.
At this point I persuaded the girl to come to my house and drink 1 cup of wine and play the guitar - now in retrospect I'm not sure the guitar was a good idea. Because I got her back to my house, and with a little bit of persistence she came into my bedroom and sat on my bed. Since I kind of promised her a song, I got out the guitar and played away. Even though she liked it, I think maybe it was a bad idea since it was already late and she said she needed to go home soon already - so I kind of feel like I wasted valuable time?
Then I sat closer to her and started to rub her back and tell her that I like her, like her smell etc. etc.
Someone called her then she said she really had to go. I was thinking to myself "what the fuck". I tried to be a bit persuasive but obviously be careful about not giving her too much pressure and frightening her if she really wanted to go. She said she really had to go, and I decided I could do nothing but concede.
I walked her back to her apartment and on the way I asked her if it was because she thought I was a bad guy, since I just met her and brought her back to my house. She said "no, it's really because her parents wanted her to be home" I think she is only about 19 and it was about 12.30am.
So anyway I walked her to the stairs outside her neighborhood and was ready to go back, but she said... Hey, don't you want to walk me to my door?
I said OK and walked her to outside her building. I stepped in closer and asked her for a kiss, she said yes and we kissed.
As I walked away she was facing me the whole time I walked away.
So through this experience I feel happy, but also feel like I let myself down and maybe messed things up? I am happy because I talked to a girl I didn't know and brought her back to my bedroom, but unhappy because I didn't manage to take things further.
She said she would like to meet me again sometime.
Is this still doable? Or have I missed my chance?
Thanks for any advice good or bad, I can take it! haha : P
