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So guys, I've been reading stuff on GirlsChase for some time now (2 months) but never had the nerves to approach any girls... until today 
A little background, I'm an 18 year old virgin whose never kissed a girl and has only had one girlfriend (who I did not ask out)... so I was clueless before this website. I live in Miami and will be moving far away (1500 miles north) to Detroit, Michigan to study my passion, car design in college; and before I go off I want to have some experience with women to lay girls like CRAZY when I'm in college (I really want to).
I've seen many beautiful girls but never had the balls or the know how to talk to any, today I read up some stuff and did approach... 5 Girls.
Today I went to a large water park far north of where I live with my big brother and his fiance and put my mind to at least directly open as many fuckable girls as possible (I've never direct approached before). So the day started slowly with me punking out of talking to several girls. However, my first approach came where I was in a long line for the biggest attraction to the park "Black Thunder" and at the very top I saw my bro and his girl go on the ride before leaving me alone; I saw a "fuckable" maybe 36 year old woman in a nice black one piece bathing suit and forced myself to turn around and say "Hey, you look amazing in that swim suit." With a small smile on my face and she smiled back and thanked me and we made some chit chat about where we were from until I went on the ride... YES!!! A small victory, but it kind of got me going.
I will keep the next few brief as the last one is the most important, after a few rides I broke away from my bro and his girl and told myself I would at least open some beautiful girls. On the way to one massive body tube ride called "Pirate's Plunge", I was running up the stairs of a very empty line parallel the waiting line stairs and platforms of another ride and while ascending the stairs, I noticed a VERY beautiful woman wearing a standard light blue bikini two piece, average height, maybe 5' 4" white but tan, standing in line on a platform opposite my stairs, her arms were folded and she looked sad (or had a bitchy resting face) and I passed her thinking "she's too far away, I can't reach her" but then in an impulse decision, I just turned around and leaned on top of the rail and reached down as far as I could until my middle finger just grazed her shoulder and she looked at me kind of puzzled and I put on a big smile, she smiled back and I said "Hey, I know this is random, but I think you look... (my body weight was pushing my ribs against the railing and in pain I kinda made a weird noise to breathe) amazing in that bating suit!" Then her entire body language changed and she lit up and thanked me and kinda slumped down with a small smile on her face ( I think I made her kinda happy) and I leaned off the rail happy I was starting to conquer my approach anxiety (and to breathe again).
The next two were with random fine girls I saw where I just told them how amazing they looked in their bathing suit until I was waiting in line at the "Body Blasters" and saw this SUPER HOT GIRL standing with her other hot friend(which turned out to be my final approach and most didactic approach). The main hot one was maybe 5'2" Hispanic with black curly hair, a really curvy body and was just stunningly sexy. So this one I really contemplated approaching, I was a little scared but said what the fuck, walked over leaned on the rail she was leaning on looking down and tapped her and said
ME: "Hey listen, I saw you standing over here and I thought you looked really cute." (No smile, I was too nervous)
Her: "Thanks" (No Emotion)
ME: "So I want to talk to you"
Her: "I have a boyfriend"
ME: "...Oh, that's cool" (I wasn't ready for that, so I started to back away to leave and she turned her head and ignored me (coldly))
ME: "Well, are you still in high school?"
HER:"Yeah I am"
ME: "Cool, I just graduated so I guess it wouldn't matter"
HER: "Where" (she muttered softly)
I pregnant paused and smiled warmly and she returned a smile, then told her the acronym and she didn't know the school so I told her the name and she understandably didn't care, I asked her what school she was attending and she told me where and I tried to make a little small talk about the area but she kept closing off to me so instead of deep diving I just left and went on the ride. This was my first rejection and it doesn't sting at all... I'm just super happy to have had the balls to start talking to such a sexy girl and not just stare and fantasize.
TAKEAWAYS
1. Just approach, if she's fine, then just go for it and let things sort themselves out
2. Always at least trade names so your'e not strangers (things got weird on that last one)
3. On that last one again, next time if the girl tells me she has a boyfriend, I plan on thanking her for being honest and qualify her telling her that I really admire how loyal of a woman she is and that I love that quality in a girl and proceed to introduce and try to practice a skill eg. cold reading or deep diving
4. Always smile, it makes them happy
5. Keep doing this, it's fun stuff
So this was my first post/approach, tell me what you think would help my development and any thoughts you think I need to know... ANYTHING would be helpful
- Josh
A little background, I'm an 18 year old virgin whose never kissed a girl and has only had one girlfriend (who I did not ask out)... so I was clueless before this website. I live in Miami and will be moving far away (1500 miles north) to Detroit, Michigan to study my passion, car design in college; and before I go off I want to have some experience with women to lay girls like CRAZY when I'm in college (I really want to). I've seen many beautiful girls but never had the balls or the know how to talk to any, today I read up some stuff and did approach... 5 Girls.
Today I went to a large water park far north of where I live with my big brother and his fiance and put my mind to at least directly open as many fuckable girls as possible (I've never direct approached before). So the day started slowly with me punking out of talking to several girls. However, my first approach came where I was in a long line for the biggest attraction to the park "Black Thunder" and at the very top I saw my bro and his girl go on the ride before leaving me alone; I saw a "fuckable" maybe 36 year old woman in a nice black one piece bathing suit and forced myself to turn around and say "Hey, you look amazing in that swim suit." With a small smile on my face and she smiled back and thanked me and we made some chit chat about where we were from until I went on the ride... YES!!! A small victory, but it kind of got me going.
I will keep the next few brief as the last one is the most important, after a few rides I broke away from my bro and his girl and told myself I would at least open some beautiful girls. On the way to one massive body tube ride called "Pirate's Plunge", I was running up the stairs of a very empty line parallel the waiting line stairs and platforms of another ride and while ascending the stairs, I noticed a VERY beautiful woman wearing a standard light blue bikini two piece, average height, maybe 5' 4" white but tan, standing in line on a platform opposite my stairs, her arms were folded and she looked sad (or had a bitchy resting face) and I passed her thinking "she's too far away, I can't reach her" but then in an impulse decision, I just turned around and leaned on top of the rail and reached down as far as I could until my middle finger just grazed her shoulder and she looked at me kind of puzzled and I put on a big smile, she smiled back and I said "Hey, I know this is random, but I think you look... (my body weight was pushing my ribs against the railing and in pain I kinda made a weird noise to breathe) amazing in that bating suit!" Then her entire body language changed and she lit up and thanked me and kinda slumped down with a small smile on her face ( I think I made her kinda happy) and I leaned off the rail happy I was starting to conquer my approach anxiety (and to breathe again).
The next two were with random fine girls I saw where I just told them how amazing they looked in their bathing suit until I was waiting in line at the "Body Blasters" and saw this SUPER HOT GIRL standing with her other hot friend(which turned out to be my final approach and most didactic approach). The main hot one was maybe 5'2" Hispanic with black curly hair, a really curvy body and was just stunningly sexy. So this one I really contemplated approaching, I was a little scared but said what the fuck, walked over leaned on the rail she was leaning on looking down and tapped her and said
ME: "Hey listen, I saw you standing over here and I thought you looked really cute." (No smile, I was too nervous)
Her: "Thanks" (No Emotion)
ME: "So I want to talk to you"
Her: "I have a boyfriend"
ME: "...Oh, that's cool" (I wasn't ready for that, so I started to back away to leave and she turned her head and ignored me (coldly))
ME: "Well, are you still in high school?"
HER:"Yeah I am"
ME: "Cool, I just graduated so I guess it wouldn't matter"
HER: "Where" (she muttered softly)
I pregnant paused and smiled warmly and she returned a smile, then told her the acronym and she didn't know the school so I told her the name and she understandably didn't care, I asked her what school she was attending and she told me where and I tried to make a little small talk about the area but she kept closing off to me so instead of deep diving I just left and went on the ride. This was my first rejection and it doesn't sting at all... I'm just super happy to have had the balls to start talking to such a sexy girl and not just stare and fantasize.
TAKEAWAYS
1. Just approach, if she's fine, then just go for it and let things sort themselves out
2. Always at least trade names so your'e not strangers (things got weird on that last one)
3. On that last one again, next time if the girl tells me she has a boyfriend, I plan on thanking her for being honest and qualify her telling her that I really admire how loyal of a woman she is and that I love that quality in a girl and proceed to introduce and try to practice a skill eg. cold reading or deep diving
4. Always smile, it makes them happy
5. Keep doing this, it's fun stuff
So this was my first post/approach, tell me what you think would help my development and any thoughts you think I need to know... ANYTHING would be helpful
- Josh
