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Dormidov2

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Well, i first began reading GC after a really painful breakup and decided to not make any mistakes anymore, and my top goal is as Chase would say: Have as many girls as possible to look back and say: "Yeah...that guy was amazing"

So i decided to join as well with a Field report, and maybe when my life get a little more "adult-like" (22 y-ol, still living with parents, part-time job) i might do a newbie assignment too.

Anyway, yesterday it was the first time I asked for a date and a phone-number (Bonus Point for being my first cold-approach ever)

I was in a bar with some friends and the waitress was really cute.At first i had trouble with asking her for a date, but after sometime (and a couple beers) i finally did it, the conversation went something like this:

Me: Hey, i really had to tell you that I think you're really cute
Her: Oh, ok. Thank You
Me: And I was wondering if you'd like to grab a cup of coffee or some bees anytime soon, what you say?
Her: Yeah, ok. No problem

At that moment it was too "easy" that I just could'nt believe it. I thought, she was just playing with me, like what you do with a drunkass. I continued:

Me: Perfect! So, can I have your number to set up the date?
Her: Actually, you won't believe it, but I just lost my phone yesterday.
Me: No kidding ( I thought, "ok then, here is when it turns complicated")
Her: Yeah, it's true. But i can give you my facebook instead. Let me write it down.
So, she then wrote her username, I said, cool, i'll let you know, thanks!, and that's all.

She seemed kinda hippiesh, liberal and nice, I couldn't grab anymore info obviously...but I gotta tell I'm a little worried about her being that easy-going, obviously not my kind of girl after being with only shy ones. After that, I sent her a facebook PM that said
Hi! So good having met you ;) -[my name]
, she hasn't answered yet.

And that's been happening, now I'm looking for tips about the impressions of the girl, how to act, you know about how to set up the date, the time, and how does the interaction being in facebook is different to classic SMS interactions.

:) I'll keep you updated.
 
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