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Hello,
For those of you who read my older post, i once written about a guy friend i met in tertiary school. He was what girls called "creepy". Born and went into a all-boys school (high school), he was sexually deprived, let alone socially incapable and totally awkward when he first enter tertiary school. I remember the day where he bought a birthday present for a girl he like. She kindly accepted that present, and avoided him few days later after she heard that he like her.
Well for a lot of people, the "whiteknights", people in general, will always follow the girl. I have seen it.
But fortunately, we are in a class for a year, so he wasn't so badly treated as our guy friends are alright with him. Normal social circles will have him out for outing if the girl attends it, Hardcore social circles will have him kicked out without thinking for a second. Moving on, I didn't know Girlschase at the time, but i was aware of "game". Not exactly "game" but knowing about women. So i teach him a few things, he didn't become so awkward, I help him relax when he's around beautiful women. I told him to not care about her when she's giving disapproval look everytime she walk past. Afterall, he's "creepy", to her, to girls and to society. I mean how is a guy is to know? Growing up in an all-boys school where he didn't meet girls in school, and the only he meet were probably his teacher, or his mum and maid when he went home.
Fast forward, he wasn't so awkward. I teach him to not wear baggy school uniform. I teach him to not walk like he's going to the market. I teach him to not care about she thinks. Afterall she rejects him, What's the point of oneinits? Right?
He's better today, He dress better, isn't so much "creepy" at all, Got a better haircut and much more dominant with other friends help. Girls in my class ask me if i see the change in him. I say to them it is a good thing. Most of them never say a thing, knowing that i was good with women. Well i wasn't so good but their silence said something else.
This was last two years.
Zac
For those of you who read my older post, i once written about a guy friend i met in tertiary school. He was what girls called "creepy". Born and went into a all-boys school (high school), he was sexually deprived, let alone socially incapable and totally awkward when he first enter tertiary school. I remember the day where he bought a birthday present for a girl he like. She kindly accepted that present, and avoided him few days later after she heard that he like her.
Well for a lot of people, the "whiteknights", people in general, will always follow the girl. I have seen it.
But fortunately, we are in a class for a year, so he wasn't so badly treated as our guy friends are alright with him. Normal social circles will have him out for outing if the girl attends it, Hardcore social circles will have him kicked out without thinking for a second. Moving on, I didn't know Girlschase at the time, but i was aware of "game". Not exactly "game" but knowing about women. So i teach him a few things, he didn't become so awkward, I help him relax when he's around beautiful women. I told him to not care about her when she's giving disapproval look everytime she walk past. Afterall, he's "creepy", to her, to girls and to society. I mean how is a guy is to know? Growing up in an all-boys school where he didn't meet girls in school, and the only he meet were probably his teacher, or his mum and maid when he went home.
Fast forward, he wasn't so awkward. I teach him to not wear baggy school uniform. I teach him to not walk like he's going to the market. I teach him to not care about she thinks. Afterall she rejects him, What's the point of oneinits? Right?
He's better today, He dress better, isn't so much "creepy" at all, Got a better haircut and much more dominant with other friends help. Girls in my class ask me if i see the change in him. I say to them it is a good thing. Most of them never say a thing, knowing that i was good with women. Well i wasn't so good but their silence said something else.
This was last two years.
Zac
