FR My FR's Medellin Colombia

[Antonioc]

I figured I should start one of these to welcome any input and feedback, to help me refine my strategies, and to keep myself accountable...

I'll give a quick background, moved to medellin in December to pursue business opportunities. I am 26 years old. And defiantly a beginner in the seduction game. I look colombian, my father was born here, but I was raised in the us so my spanish is slightly below average.
As a result, my first coarse of action is to enroll in a spanish course here at one of the local universities.
Needless to say there are many beautiful 18-24 year old women here on campus. Some speak English as well. but most speak spanish only.
Please if anyone has some experience with paisa colombian women, please feel free to give me any advice... I am all ears!

I have a small apartment very close to campus. And a gym membership to the campus gym.

I actually started my day game last week... Probably approached 15-20 different girls. On campus, in restaurant area by campus. Sitting in lounge areas. And in my apartment, results mixed as I started to relax more, got 5-6 different #'s. But none I am really that into, most I got the numbers just because I wanted the practice approaching. Can't remember the details of all of them other than a few really hit it off with the deep dive and I quickly got the #'s. Some weren't very receptive at all, and one actually got pissed with me because she took my sexual advance of "you sound like a bad girl" to literally. Her English wasn't very good.

Have run into a problem a few times with the really attractive girls. Which I assume is the same in the us.. They travel in packs. And if one is alone and I approach within 5 minutes I'm usually awkwardly introduced to the boyfriend who shows up.

Anyway any advice is appreciated like I said so I will start with today and edit as I go...
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Today was a slow day for me as I had a lot of work to do. But I did approach two girls in the restaurant area on campus so I will give a quick summary:
Was working on my laptop and checking out one girl in particular one row to my left and two seats up. She was with a friend I didn't consider to be particularly good looking, anyway decided to approach..
Took a deep breath, smiled and slowly strolled over to their table.
Hola senoritas,
I am a local spanish student here at the university, **smiled at them and paused

I would like to take five min to practice my spanish with you beautiful ladies.
They smiled and welcomed me to sit next to them.
Hablas Ingles? I asked
The more attractive one smiled shook her head and pointed to her friend who laughed and denied that she could.
Este Es mejor, I said because I want to speak in spanish.

Throughout the convo I did my best to try to speak slower, under control, and from time to time look mildly bored, as that's what I read on here smooth relaxed guys do.
which I actually think made the cuter one bored a few times during the convo as well. We made introductions, and I proceeded to do my best in spanish to deep dive the bitches. There were some moments we didn't connect as I was searching for the right words. But they did tend to have fun correcting my spanish.
I found out they just met that semester, and that they studied business administration, both having lived in medellin all there lives. They didn't exactly know what they wanted to do after their education, which for them ended in August, but the less attractive one, who was also the most talkative and engaging, said she wanted to study acting for a little while in the us, just to mix it up.
They both would like to travel, the more attractive one to Australia, and they both really liked talking about their pets. I tried to ask them about their childhood growing up in colombia, which I failed miserably at, which drew some laughs.
The less attractive one was very engaging and she asked me a lot of questions. To which I tried to keep my answers short and keep the subject on them.
I asked what they liked to do for fun, and they said they were past the party stage, and liked to chill, to to movies, eat out, or visit some of the many mountainous parks around here.

As I quickly realized my spanish vocabulary was running out. I asked the two girls of they wouldn't mind having some fun with me and my cousin this weekend, (who is a pilot here in medellin with not a lot of time off) they said yes depending on their sheds and I exchanged #'s with them, smiled and left.

Well that's pretty much the gist of today's report. Please feel free to critique away.
I will read and post again tomorrow with more reports.

Thanks in advance.

 

[Antonioc]

Re: My FR's Medellin Colombia

Report2/3
Saw a girl sitting on a bench, pretty, with a nice leather jacket, (even though it was quite warm) she was getting ready to leave i could tell, so rather than go through the whole Sit down... Oh no I have to leave crap, I positioned myself roughly ten yards in front of her and started walking towards her as she started towards me. As she passed I made eye contact and smiled when she returned eye contact,, I went in for the kill....
Hola me gusta Su chaqueta
Gracias she smiled
Este Es leather?
What?? She said
Como se dice este material?
Yes she said in. Spanish leather
And are you from the sahari? Is it hot out here? Smiling
No she said smiling... Said something about the pockets I didn't understand.
Where are you going?
Clase
What time is your class I will walk you there.
In 20 min
Oh we have all day, no problem
We enchange names
She seemed a bit nervous but in a good way
Talked briefly about where
we were from and what she studied civil engineering
We didn't walk to far... I had my class in 10 min
I asked her what time she got out of class,
She said three
Invited her to grab some fresh juice
Said something about meeting someone later
I touched her arm fake frowned said she was breaking mi corazon, she laughed
I said in sure I will see you later smiled and left.
Will have more later.

 

[Antonioc]

Re: My FR's Medellin Colombia

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[Antonioc]

Re: My FR's Medellin Colombia

2/3 cont
Two more approaches to report today
Sitting on a bench when a girl that seemed very familiar to me sits on the bench next to mine and smiles and says hello.
I say hello and try to figure out where I approached this girl last week, I said previously I approached 15-20.

I couldn't remember for the life of me, so I say como estas señorita, come sit over here next to me, I motion to the bench, she complies and smiles
with a smile, I ask her, Por favor, tell me where we meet last week? I can't quite remember.
She starts to speak in spanish and instantly I remember her from last Thursday, she was waiting at the exit gate for someone to pick her up.
We make a little small talk, class, etc.
I tell her to come closer to me, why was she sitting so far away from me?
She scoots a little closer and smiles, and says in a very cute voice no, Es normal.
I comment on her shirt
Then I ask her if she is waiting on someone again today..
She said She was waiting on an amigo,going to class in 5 min.
I joked that she is always waiting on amigos.
She laughed and I asked if this amigo was her boyfriend.
She says no
I ask if she has a boyfriend
She says she does,
I ask were he is
She said he goes to a different school
I ask how long they have been going out, she said six months.
I joke and say well then it's not very serious
She laughs and says but yes it is
I smile and say we will see... Not sure she understood that part, I said it in English
She asks me what I'm doing
Told her I was waiting for my friend,
She says for what
I say to run an errand
Her friend comes she smiles says goodbye and goes to class...


Another half assed approach later on Hartley worth mentioning.
Say a very pretty girl walking what looked to be from class in my direction.
I was in bit of a rush, and said hola mi nombre Es Paul como estas
Must admit I had no plan with this girl and it showed.
She was taken a bit by surprise tells me her name, says hello
I ask her if she was leaving class or going to it...
She looked a little surprised at my English said leaving ehhhh no going, and kept walking past
I said well mucho gusto and left..
Figure I might as well post the bad ones too. No plan and in a rush, and I must have seemed a lot less confident and smooth than with the first girl.
Anyway tomorrow is a new day, hopefully will meet some good ones to take out this weekend tomorrow. will post more.
Hope to hear some advice from people soon.


Oh and another funny little anecdote from earlier this morning. I was walking to my class
Well, I was walking around before class hunting girls to approach, when I see one girl, very cute, who I vaguely remember from last week. She smiled at me pretty noticeably, I smile back but keep walking because I still can't quite remember where I saw her and I wanted to look for some fresh fish.
Anyway, as I am walking back that direction to class, probably ten min later. I see some maybe 23 or 22 year old guy, looking in my direction like he wanted to rip my head off..
Had no idea who he was so I kept walking towards him like nothing was wrong. All of a sudden I see that same girl pulling him away towards her, away from my direction. The guy started talking to her.... All the while I walk closer to them like nothing is wrong. As I pass I look in the girls eyes and see her smile at me... I smile back and laugh and keep slowly walking to class..
That's it, that's the story. In a month I suppose I will have half the campus wanting to fuck me. And the other half wanting to try to fuck me up. Oh well, most of them are just young punks anyway.... But thinking about it makes me laugh.

 

[Antonioc]

Re: My FR's Medellin Colombia

2/5 reports
Approached six today things went ok...got two numbers, well one has my number and is supposedly going to text later, te other have me a number but I don't think she was super stoked about it,,

First girl:
Blonde working by herself on laptop in coffee area. Approach her asking her what she was selling...
Many people carry boxes of candy around campus making small sales to fellow students. She told me looked it over, told her I didn't want to buy I just wanted an excuse to say hello.

She laughed I went into deep dive, studies law, likes to travel,, very studious. Parties some. Likes to dance etc.
She says she needed to finish reading before class in 25 min I asked her to grab a juice after class she said she couldn't, I asked her about this weekend she smiled and said maybe, exchanged numbers left.

Girl 2
Sat down in popular area, one girl as she was passing by caught my attention, I call to her hola señorita, catches her a little by surprise, introduce, and ask her to practice her spanish with me... She says ok, I attempt to start deep dive in spanish, she laughs some, things going ok, I tell her to come sit next to me, she says she can't she has to leave, next fine she sees me she will.. She leaves I don't chase her

Girl 3
Still sitting down same spot another girl approaches with box of candy, good legs more Latina looking. I ask her what she is selling and for how much. She shows me, I smile and ask her name. She asks me where I'm from. I tell her I'm studying spanish and ask her to sit and help me.
Begin to deep dive her, she easily opens up... Wants to be a pilot, and travel, first needs to make money to pay for classes. Compliment her style ask her what she likes to do for fun, she says she likes to chill, invite her to ice cream this weekend, she says yes asks for my #, had to go but says will text me later... I dont know if she was full of shit but I guess we will see. Prolly should have gotten # before she left.

Girl 4
Noticed one of the trainers at the gym walking towards the gym. I touch her arm say hello I see you training, introduce,, I smile and say I used to be a trainer to, a football coach, she laughs we are walking together, deep dive a little but as we approach gym I ask her how much for you to train me, she laughs and says she doesn't have the time too, I said everyone has a price... She smiles we say goodbye.

Girl 5
Sitting at another part of campus I see a young girl with pretty. Eyes sit on bench next to mine. I say hello, she doesn't hear, I approach and say hello. She is surprised but opens up quickly, speaks very good English, and studies international business and Mandarin Chinese as well. Deep dive for 5-10 min and we really begin to hit it off, then we I ask her what she was doing this weekend... She drops the boyfriend bomb, I ask her how long they have been together. She says 10 months he studies and had many international businesses with his father. And that he was meeting him there.
She was still very friendly.. So I joked with her a little and politely took my leave saying that we should grab a bite to eat if we see each other around

Girl 6
Another ignore... But I chalk this one again up to situation... Leaving parking lot see girl walking to car, I say hola, she says hello, I ask her for her name. She ignores and gets in the car. I walk away.

So that's it today, I am having a very difficult time finding anything reliable, even when I get girls #'s they. Don't seem intent on seeing me again, maybe I am not closing right... Really would appreciate any input at all. If you need more details I will do my best to give it.

 

[ray_zorse]

Re: My FR's Medellin Colombia

I think you are doing pretty well, it's the law of averages brother, a lot of them just aren't into you, but you only find out when you go for the # and try to set something up. Whereas I would probably do the same 6 approaches and have a lot of fun and forget to grab any numbers... so just keep doing what you're doing.

If you want to spike attraction more in the initial 10min I would say (1) avoid the 20-questions feeling, cold read her instead... and (2) don't let her know anything about yourself, if asked make up crazy answers... girl asks about my job, I say "I'm a secret agent"... about my accent, I say "secret agents never reveal their origins" and so on... and (3) say something sexual... for instance today girl was a choreographer, I said "I can think of situations where you would be very good at choreographing things" thereby calling to mind the image of her having sex... she loved it. Wednesday girl was looking for a phone shop, I said "do you punish your boyfriends the way you punish that phone?"... it's easy to turn it sexual with practice. If you can make it a chase frame then that's also useful.

-Ray

 

[Antonioc]

Re: My FR's Medellin Colombia

Thanks ray! Will def apply some of your advice and report back this week

 

[Antonioc]

Re: My FR's Medellin Colombia

Haven't been able to report for a while, but I figured I would get bAck to it today..

First girl:: this morning
Vey cute, Sitting by herself but clearly looking around and waiting in someone.
Decide to approach anyway, probably a poor job of screening.
She is highlighting something for her class in 20 min.

Walk up try to pre open with touch, introduce ourselves, ask her what she is studying....
Tell her I think she is very cute.... Different approach very up front. She smiles and says thank you.
We talk a little about where we are from, I ask her what she thinks of gringos,
She smiles and says she doesn't like them to much....
Uh oh
I ask her about cute gringos like me.... She laughs and says she doesn't know
She asks a few questions, and boyfriend shows up bllahhhh
She says goodbye and leaves for class.


Will give more later.

 

[Antonioc]

Re: My FR's Medellin Colombia

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[Antonioc]

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