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I went to the main page and read Chase's thread called "A Young Man's Progression Through Game" and when Chase talked about the work life and not having energy to socialize in that post, it really hit me and some of the things I am experiencing right now feeling like I missed out on something big. I can't help but feel like even if I do succeed, I am getting some sort of a shorter end of the stick. Its hard to describe with words alone but there is something almost magical attached to blossoming during those university years, having those big social groups to feed off of and scoring with girls too.
It's been messing up my inner game big time, also because I am in a terrible city where cold approach and game don't work too well. I don't have that aggression to go out and approach women because I keep asking myself what's the point, whatever experience I have moving forward is going to pale in comparison to the experiences I could have had in college.
I don't see the appeal of just getting laid and taking a girl home if that is all there is to it because I never really saw the appeal of being the spam approaching pickup artist.
Looking back I had the aggression and passion to learn game and go through this journey because I feel like there were great experiences to be had that didn't involve women themselves. A good example is with college, I was inclined to learn game and better myself because I liked the idea of not just getting women but being socially respected by my peers and having great experiences during those years.
I just don't see the adulthood equivalent of that other than being some poser in a suit at a bar trying to get laid and pickup women wearing dresses, it seems so cut and dry to me compared to what I had to look forward to when I was younger. Where are the other guys who will help me in my journey? Where are her friends? Where are the other girls? Where is that feeling of belonging to something bigger than just yourself?
Like shit, I guess this is where the miserable adult meme comes from and why everyone hypes up the college days so much. I wonder why I don't just stick with fucking escorts now.
It's been messing up my inner game big time, also because I am in a terrible city where cold approach and game don't work too well. I don't have that aggression to go out and approach women because I keep asking myself what's the point, whatever experience I have moving forward is going to pale in comparison to the experiences I could have had in college.
I don't see the appeal of just getting laid and taking a girl home if that is all there is to it because I never really saw the appeal of being the spam approaching pickup artist.
Looking back I had the aggression and passion to learn game and go through this journey because I feel like there were great experiences to be had that didn't involve women themselves. A good example is with college, I was inclined to learn game and better myself because I liked the idea of not just getting women but being socially respected by my peers and having great experiences during those years.
I just don't see the adulthood equivalent of that other than being some poser in a suit at a bar trying to get laid and pickup women wearing dresses, it seems so cut and dry to me compared to what I had to look forward to when I was younger. Where are the other guys who will help me in my journey? Where are her friends? Where are the other girls? Where is that feeling of belonging to something bigger than just yourself?
Like shit, I guess this is where the miserable adult meme comes from and why everyone hypes up the college days so much. I wonder why I don't just stick with fucking escorts now.
