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A friend of mines is a guy from Trinidad who looks somewhat like actor Kal Penn. He started a road to self-improvement about 2 years ago and has been on an upward trend ever since. My friend has a preference for American women (White) and he did decent with them but noticed that he could do better. We looked at what he could improve and found that he was somewhat shy and couldn't dance. He decides to join a dance class months back. Fast forward to now, the guy is in a relationship with an HB8 Blonde that he met in the class. His whole situation brought me back to this forum and I just wanted to share my thoughts on guys who have a preference for certain kinds of women but feel like they just can't do well with that group.
Lately I have noticed a trend about guys complaining about particular kinds of women. The women that have received the bulk of these complaints have been Western Women (White). I have had a pretty good experience with Western women and I resemble the group of men they are supposed to be scared of or hate (brown). So what is with this whole complaining women issue you say?
Well not long ago I ran into a thread about "blonde bombshells" that caught my attention. A few guys were complaining on the thread about how terrible these women were and how they treated men like garbage. I have had success with women of this kind of an appearance and found them to be quite approachable and welcoming. Here is what you guys are getting wrong.
You are not digging deep enough and are probably going after the worst the niche has to offer. Each niche of women has a lot to offer.
Say you love attractive blondes (like we all do as it seems), if you go for just bimbos and sorority girls you are bound to be disappointed and have your feelings hurt. Both groups of women are known for being cruel, treating others like tools to get ahead, and being far too obsessed with their own status to care about what you have to offer. Take time to soak it in, I am sure there are good sorority girls out there but a vast majority of them are very cautious of how others perceive them. Here is the good news though, the kind of women you are looking for does not end at bimbos and sorority girls. Go join an intramural team, a volunteer group, go to a country music concert, or find a job at a fancy bar, these women are plentiful.
Do not get me wrong, some groups (sororities and bimbos) are going to have a lot of these women that you love, but even if you find 2 of these women in a particular class then you have an opportunity.
And this goes for any kinds of women.
Say you love Latinas. If you can't do well with the Puerto Rican HBBs in NYC, there are Latinas in Puerto Rico, Brazil, and other places in America whom you can do well with. Maybe the Latinas you run into are into the more urban culture, so what? Take salsa lessons or a Spanish class, now you are running into a variety of Latinas. When I say variety I mean personality and selection wise.
Whatever your preference might be for any background of women, the truth is if you look hard enough
Lately I have noticed a trend about guys complaining about particular kinds of women. The women that have received the bulk of these complaints have been Western Women (White). I have had a pretty good experience with Western women and I resemble the group of men they are supposed to be scared of or hate (brown). So what is with this whole complaining women issue you say?
Well not long ago I ran into a thread about "blonde bombshells" that caught my attention. A few guys were complaining on the thread about how terrible these women were and how they treated men like garbage. I have had success with women of this kind of an appearance and found them to be quite approachable and welcoming. Here is what you guys are getting wrong.
You are not digging deep enough and are probably going after the worst the niche has to offer. Each niche of women has a lot to offer.
Say you love attractive blondes (like we all do as it seems), if you go for just bimbos and sorority girls you are bound to be disappointed and have your feelings hurt. Both groups of women are known for being cruel, treating others like tools to get ahead, and being far too obsessed with their own status to care about what you have to offer. Take time to soak it in, I am sure there are good sorority girls out there but a vast majority of them are very cautious of how others perceive them. Here is the good news though, the kind of women you are looking for does not end at bimbos and sorority girls. Go join an intramural team, a volunteer group, go to a country music concert, or find a job at a fancy bar, these women are plentiful.
Do not get me wrong, some groups (sororities and bimbos) are going to have a lot of these women that you love, but even if you find 2 of these women in a particular class then you have an opportunity.
And this goes for any kinds of women.
Say you love Latinas. If you can't do well with the Puerto Rican HBBs in NYC, there are Latinas in Puerto Rico, Brazil, and other places in America whom you can do well with. Maybe the Latinas you run into are into the more urban culture, so what? Take salsa lessons or a Spanish class, now you are running into a variety of Latinas. When I say variety I mean personality and selection wise.
Whatever your preference might be for any background of women, the truth is if you look hard enough
