My Opportunity to Get First Date Sex?

[Troy]

I met a cute dark girl last week while she was coming from class and we set up a date for tomorrow. At first the plan was for us to go get lunch and talk..then I suppose we part ways. However I think I can push myself more and I did. Here is the text conversation relevant to the date setup.

Jenel : I want to c u

Troy : Me too

Jenel : Soo What u wanna do tomarrow

Troy : I kinda feel like just getting lunch near by home and go back home

Jenel : And what after that?

Troy : Just chill. Maybe I watch a movie

Jenel : Ok umm hbu bout a fault in our stars

Troy : What's that?

Jenel : A movie i really want to watch

Troy : I don't have it

Jenel : What do you have then?

Jenel : Oh ok so do u want me to come or not?

Troy : Come

Jenel : Ok

Sometime ago Mr Rob and Smith told me to stop saying " let's chill ". Oops it slipped out guy's. I was sleepy and texting but will try to avoid next time. One error I picked up in my approach was using movie to invite Jenel over. Movie= sex.

But at least it worked this time. I was thinking to meet her 10 minutes from my home and buy food and head straight home. I don't want to invite anything to distract her from coming. So what should I do when I first see her tomorrow? Should I just buy and we have all the conversation from there straight to home?

Troy

 

[Ex Procastinator]

My first but of advice would be to take first date sex off a pedestal every date is an opportunity to have sex the only thing preventing it is your skill set (ability to work around logistics , ability to take her out fog her logical mind , your ability to turn her on , your ability to make her comfortable around you)

Jenel : I want to c u

Troy : Me too

Jenel : Soo What u wanna do tomarrow

Troy : I kinda feel like just getting lunch near by home and go back home

Jenel : And what after that?

Troy : Just chill. Maybe I watch a movie

Jenel : Ok umm hbu bout a fault in our stars

Troy : What's that?

Jenel : A movie i really want to watch

Troy : I don't have it

Jenel : What do you have then?

Jenel : Oh ok so do u want me to come or not?

Troy : Come

Jenel : Ok

For the texting im not a texting expert it's an area which I have been working on a lot cause my in person personality doesn't work as well on text cause there is no emotions

But when she suggested a movie you used a negatively ( replied logically )
She was basically giving herself plausible deniability asking you for sex and you basically said I dont want it ( luckily she noticed you didn't pick up on it and still asked if you wanted to meet.)

As for the date I would not even bother going somewhere get her to meet you at the place your picking up your food (avoid greasy stuff for sexual function) and take her straight back to yours

She messaged you first and she also suggested a movie she wants to fuck don't over think it or over complicate it and it should go down well

 

[Troy]

Thanks Ex Procrastinator

The conversation continues

Jenel : Can I come cuddle with you?

Troy: Just cuddle? Or more

Jenel : Cuddle how about you

Troy : Lol

Jenel : why you laugh?

Troy : Ntn

Then we talk about some other causal stuff. This reminds me of what a girl said to me 3 year's ago. She asked me to come sleep in my bed and I WAS SO FUCKING BLIND. I thought she actually meant just sleep in my bed. She later admitted wanting sex and I failed to move forward.

Reason why is because I was afraid to bring her home. Here is another problem,my parents are talking about how I should not bring anyone home. *shake my head * I'm taking a risk tomorrow. I have the house to myself. Last time my damn Christian neighbour saw me bring girl home and called my parents only for me to see my Mom walking through the gate. Luckily I haven't seen her in a while so I just might be successful.

Troy

 

[Ex Procastinator]

Thanks Ex Procrastinator

The conversation continues

Jenel : Can I come cuddle with you?

Troy: Just cuddle? Or more

Jenel : Cuddle how about you

Troy : Lol

Jenel : why you laugh?

Troy : Ntn

Then we talk about some other causal stuff. This reminds me of what a girl said to me 3 year's ago. She asked me to come sleep in my bed and I WAS SO FUCKING BLIND. I thought she actually meant just sleep in my bed. She later admitted wanting sex and I failed to move forward.

Reason why is because I was afraid to bring her home. Here is another problem,my parents are talking about how I should not bring anyone home. *shake my head * I'm taking a risk tomorrow. I have the house to myself. Last time my damn Christian neighbour saw me bring girl home and called my parents only for me to see my Mom walking through the gate. Luckily I haven't seen her in a while so I just might be successful.

Troy

Dw iv fucked up like that many times a girl messaged me to bring the ice cream over I was eating after we had be talking sexual ( I missed an obvious invitation with her earlier as well) and me in my logical mind was like I'm not going to drive 10 minutes to your house so you can eat my Icecream lol. ( guess the only way to improve is by practice I notice these signs only minutes later not half an hr later which is still bad haha)

Bad logistics suck

I think it's worth the risk

 

[lao che]

Couple missed Windows here, glaring obvious but... Live and learn,

First one was the movie suggestion. Doesn't matter if you have it or not. Just say yeah. Ok cool I'll get a hold of it. Doesn't matter if your can't or don't. In fact better if you don't. Last thing you need is a distraction once she's back at your place and time is a factor. i.e trying to smash her before mum gets home

Second is when you asked her 'just cuddle or something more'' no need to be so overt. Don't expect her to say ''ok can I come over and suck your dick then? '' she's a girl, think covert, discrete, subtle. Maybe you realized what she was hinting at but no need to put a point on it, if that makes sense.

Anyway. How did it go?

Edit: just realized you wrote that other post about quitting due to logistics.

Hmm that's too bad but man... Keep your eyes and your imagination open. The possibilities are always there..