My Step moms grandaughter

[ocantu1987]

My dad met my stepmom a few years ago and they live together but are not married. Well her daughters as well as her grandchildren visit every month, one of them has such huge knockers that I wanna spit game.

I told my female co worker that I wanted to ask her out and she thought it was creepy,taboo, and desperate. I was like "she is not blood related what is the deal" haha she said it was like her wanting to date her nephew WTF.

She also said that because it is family that it can get bad wich does make sense, but I'll take my chances.

My dad says fuck yeah go for it lol

What do you guys think? would you spit game at your stepmoms grandaughter?

 

[luego]

No, dear god, no.

Assume it will flame out (because 99% of relationships do, after some duration or another). You really want to subject yourself to awkward Thanksgiving dinners for the next 40 years because you felt like it was an opportunity to "spit game" because she has "huge knockers"?

The taboo/risk could be overcome for some EXTRAORDINARY girl. Ridiculously not worth it for a chance to chase some tail.

 

[ocantu1987]

No, dear god, no.

Assume it will flame out (because 99% of relationships do, after some duration or another). You really want to subject yourself to awkward Thanksgiving dinners for the next 40 years because you felt like it was an opportunity to "spit game" because she has "huge knockers"?

The taboo/risk could be overcome for some EXTRAORDINARY girl. Ridiculously not worth it for a chance to chase some tail.

wow haha I didn't think this was a big deal. Just for the record I don't live with my dad (I have an apartment) and I am not close to them as in thanksgiving dinners lol I only see them when I go to visit my dad. She is not an extraordinary girl by no means.

Man I didn't think this was so wrong since we are not close at all...

 

[PinotNoir]

From an outside perspective, a "step-mom's granddaughter" can sound pretty horrible. First, it's your step-mom. Second, it's not even her daughter, but her granddaughter.

However, I understand the desire, especially since she's not blood-related. Taboos turn humans on, especially when it's morally/ethically ambiguous like this. There are so many teachers and coworkers that I wished had asked me for additional "help" after school/work and then had lead to.....

But, I'm getting side-tracked.

I say go for it, especially since you got your dad's blessing lol (which is a little odd to me). In hindsight, I think it would have been best to not have asked/told your dad/coworker. Just realize that you may have to deal with some dire consequences as luego mentions. Other than that, she's not your true sister. The main problem will be is she turned on by it? She'll either find it gross or insanely hot.

Next time that she's over, invite her to hang out at your place ("I want to get to know you better and hang out with the women in my dad's life") and see if it goes anywhere. Good luck

EDIT: My assumption is that this girl is of legal age?

 

[ocantu1987]

From an outside perspective, a "step-mom's granddaughter" can sound pretty horrible. First, it's your step-mom. Second, it's not even her daughter, but her granddaughter.

However, I understand the desire, especially since she's not blood-related. Taboos turn humans on, especially when it's morally/ethically ambiguous like this. There are so many teachers and coworkers that I wished had asked me for additional "help" after school/work and then had lead to.....

But, I'm getting side-tracked.

I say go for it, especially since you got your dad's blessing lol (which is a little odd to me). In hindsight, I think it would have been best to not have asked/told your dad/coworker. Just realize that you may have to deal with some dire consequences as luego mentions. Other than that, she's not your true sister. The main problem will be is she turned on by it? She'll either find it gross or insanely hot.

Next time that she's over, invite her to hang out at your place ("I want to get to know you better and hang out with the women in my dad's life") and see if it goes anywhere. Good luck

EDIT: My assumption is that this girl is of legal age?

yeah pinot noir she is 21 lol dang man now i feel like a weirdo, maybe because my step mom tried to hook me up with her other granddaughter years back lol her mom was also cool with it. That girl ended up texting me to the extreme and I got fed up and told her to stop.

Man I think I will find another girl lol I didn't think this was so crazy to other people, well I haven't done anything yet so im innocent

 

[PinotNoir]

Man I think I will find another girl lol I didn't think this was so crazy to other people, well I haven't done anything yet so im innocent

I didn't mean to come off judgmental. I just meant that most of society will view it that way from the outside looking in.

Since she's of age and not blood-related then I don't think it will be a huge deal.

But, because it is seen as a "taboo" by society, that's why I suggested not telling coworkers (i.e., for your reputation). I suggested not telling your dad (or other family members) so that you can be more of a secret lover role, and that will heighten the experience for both of you (like forbidden fruit).

So, go for it if you want, else, there are plenty of big-titted fish in the sea

 

[ocantu1987]

It's all good pinot noir

Yeah I always had a problem keeping my personal life to myself, I always want to get things off my chest with anybody. I wish I wasn't like that, but I talk too much lol I need to work on this.

 

[Marty]

Agree with Pinot to keep your mouth zipped. That's a good general rule to protect women's reputations (and show them that you can be trusted to do it). Other than that:

My dad met my stepmom a few years ago and they live together but are not married.

Technically she's not even your stepmom then... seeing as you're fully-grown and able to take care of yourself and not being "raised" in any way by her in conjunction with your dad, this relationship is utterly irrelevant to you.

Thanksgiving dinners... seriously? Who knows if they'll still even be together down the road.

Use the normal precautions that you would for close social circle, act with good sense, and you can push forward without fear. The main concern is to confirm that she desires you too. If so, I'd say full steam ahead.

This is such a non-issue, it's ridiculous. I can't believe it's being painted as a "taboo". What next... don't date a girl whose brother is dating your sister? Where are all these artificial "rules" coming from?

 

[ocantu1987]

Thanks for the input marty I feel like I am getting one-itis again haha I got to get out this weekend and knock out some approaches.

 

[luego]

Alright, I'm freely baffled. And I'm apparently so against the grain here that I'm writing more for my own edification than anything else.

So, to sum it up a tad crudely:

The OP specifically said she's nothing extraordinary, and he just feels like gaming a bit because she has big tits.
There's tons of quality girls out there.
There's TONS of pussy out there.

We have whole discussion points about the dangers of social circle, how you deal with girls behaving badly after an approach/date/screw/etc, and all that. The general consensus seems to be that, in most cases, you're best to keep your dating and your social circle fairly separate.

This isn't social circle. It's extended family. I'm not caring about the moral taboo as I think it's tangential in this situation. But assume:
I) he screws her and sucks at it. Problem for the forseeable future and ackward when they see each other;
ii) he screws her and it goes great. She falls for him, it goes badly. Problem.

Are there any real upsides here? Again, he didn't write "There's this AMAZING girl, who's perfect for me in all ways, but I'm afraid of the social taboo". He wrote "there's a girl with big knockers I'd like to spit game at".