My thanks, my introduction

[Glitch]

Background: EAST ASIAN ETHNIC MALE THAT CAN'T GET WHITE WOMEN!!!!

All jokes aside, I don't actual have any victim mentality and am fine with all ethnic types but have a preference for girls overseas.

I recently stumbled onto GC and after reading the classics have really appreciated the information not just about girls but also self improvement. After reading and reflecting on the knowledge it has really helped me honed the skills that I had but never really used to their full potential.

Currently I am still pretty young and a few questions that I've got rattling inside my head:

1. Obtainability and displaying too much value:

As a child I have always had the mentality to gather and apply knowledge, I would say I'm a bookworm at heart. This has lead me to obtain a lot of skills, for example I am very active and participate in many sports, play various instruments, sing, dance, learn/learning languages and am fairly knowledgeable. This hasn't been a problem when cold approaching and day gaming as I reveal everything little by little, mainly situational or if its a common interest.

However I use social circles for experimenting such as fundementals and vibing to gather a few more references which I can apply to the hunt later. As I interact with many different social circles there will always be inter-communication between various social circles and has lead to quite a few people knowing that I have these 'wonderful varied skills' which have lead to the typical 'slow game style' that GC has informed me about.

Is there anyway to 'hide' or stop people finding out. Normally I rebuff with such quips and jokes that I may not be great at these things.

2. Age Difference:

This is an interesting topic but I should have signed up a while back while it was still continuing.

A. What are your views on 19/28 year old 'relationship'? (It was kept discrete as classic GC mentions)

B. Thoughts on a 19 yr to have a preference for 20/21+ women, many I have found seem to more 'together' or is it day game that is providing me access to higher quality and more stimulating women?

My appreciation to the GC team and its members,

Glitch

 

[Mr. oblivious]

Welcome , Glitch

I read the post (i might come comment it again later but just doing a quick scroll before i start doing some Assignments etc.)

 

[Glitch]

Appreciated, I'm genuinely curious about any thoughts regarding the questions.

Glitch

 

[Franco]

Glitch,

Welcome to the boards!

However I use social circles for experimenting such as fundementals and vibing to gather a few more references which I can apply to the hunt later. As I interact with many different social circles there will always be inter-communication between various social circles and has lead to quite a few people knowing that I have these 'wonderful varied skills' which have lead to the typical 'slow game style' that GC has informed me about.

Is there anyway to 'hide' or stop people finding out. Normally I rebuff with such quips and jokes that I may not be great at these things.

In social circle, it's pretty difficult to stop people from finding out. That is simply one of the cons of social circle game, and it is one of the reasons Chase (and now myself) often lean toward cold approach over social circle when it comes to meeting new women. Social circle has its advantages, but downplaying your value is usually not one of them.

A. What are your views on 19/28 year old 'relationship'? (It was kept discrete as classic GC mentions)

Can a 19 year old sleep with a 28 year old women? I definitely think so. Is there potential for a long-term relationship? That's a bit of a tougher question. In general, a woman at the age of 28 who is still single will be starting to look for a serious man who has a career and can financially support her, and although there may be a few 19-year-olds out there who can actually do that, the chances are slim that she would put her eggs in that type of basket. Also, for the sake of social appearances, it would be very unlikely that she would be willing to introduce a guy who can't even buy her a drink to her friends and family as a long-term prospective mate. The age gap is too big.

If you want to run some sort of casual relationship that is extremely discreet, however, then I would say it is certainly possible given that you set the right expectations and run things correctly.

B. Thoughts on a 19 yr to have a preference for 20/21+ women, many I have found seem to more 'together' or is it day game that is providing me access to higher quality and more stimulating women?

It could be a combination of both. I tend to prefer women above 24 for long-term relationships, but I'll sleep with girls as young as 18. This is simply attributed to the maturity levels of women at those respective ages, and if you consider yourself a rather "mature" individual looking for an established woman, then you're going to be a lot more likely to find one in her mid-20s rather than her late teens or early 20s.

- Franco

 

[Glitch]

Thanks Franco,

Been heeding your advice for a while and the material here has really changed my approach and how to apply more consciously apply skills and attitudes.

For the 19/28, it was purely casual and was seeing if there was any other insights I may have missed. It wouldn't have even started if not for reading the material on this site.

As for the social circle there doesn't seemed to be any other way about it then, sometimes I am still slightly surprised as mainly all the interests contain no girls within the immediate social circles. I guess when girls are intrigued they will find ways luckily the do not know the full picture of my characteristics.

As for the more 'mature' women it is most likely just a mind set of mine. I find that I cannot seem to 'tolerate' (for use of a better word) a lot of girls my age or younger as being a knowledge hungry person many do not have any 'substance' to keep my interest, asides from the standard first year routine which never really peaked my interest. I guess with older girls or ones overseas I can learn or have discussions about particular cultures, philosophies and languages providing me with additional interest.

Being only a first year undergrad I still have a lot to learn from life and others (such as board members here) but with reflection it seems my attitude and ambitions are not on par with my particular generation.

Appreciate the warm welcome from the members. GC has probably been the best site I have stumbled onto and has given me new ambitions and ways to satisfy my self-improvement.

Look forward to future discussions,

Glitch