My Thoughts on Relationships

[Ross]

Hey guys, how's it goin'. I recently took some time off to evaluate some areas of my life and where I am headed, and I decided a few major things.

I want to become an olympic decathlete and promote some healthier living type of goals so that I can influence the world to become healthier. I'm 18, which is where most specific training begins, and I think with my drive I have a great chance. Since this is my goal for the next 8 or so years I probably won't be around here that often. I'm looking to become stable with a girl in the future that shares the same goals and passions as I do. A long marriage is probably out of the question, but I am looking forward to all future relationships. No longer am I the boy who is constantly frustrated by what women do; I just understand.

Girls Chase has helped me along my journey and has helped me to realize so many things in respect to women that I probably could not have figured out without going through my own trial and errors. Chase, you might not have realized it, but you are one of the biggest mentors that I've had over the past year and a half that I've been reading your content. Keep it up, and you can always count on me to help you as I am able to. Teaching others to learn from your mistakes is something I am also seeking to do in my life, and the way in which you do it is admirable.

You may see me make the odd post/comment or two on here when I'm facing difficulties in my life. But I feel as though I've reached the point where I no longer need extensive help in regards to relationships. In my later years I hope to bring some widespread knowledge about relationships to the forefront and develop an ultimate theory on how women and men can live happily where relationships are no longer a burden. It seems right now my belief is that I am going to be with women that I find attractive and share goals with, and if either of those change I can find different women without much of a headache. It is a truly beneficial relationship. Time can be shared in activities that we enjoy, bonds will develop, and will continue to exist even after the physical bond ceases to be there.

Just wanted to update those interested; those are my thoughts on things. I'll jump into questions sporadically if I find the free time for doing such .

 

[Franco]

Hey Ross,

It's good to see that there are other people who have had the same success from reading Chase's material that I have. I honestly feel the same way about this website -- I have learned much through trial and error, buts Girls Chase has given me the insight and knowledge to approach a level of understanding of women beyond what I could have ever imagined.

You are lucky to be so young and already have such an in-depth understanding of this material. I really wish I would have known what I know now before I even went to college... it would have served me very well. You have an opportunity to take this knowledge to new heights, and I believe you have the right mindset to make your dreams/goals come true.

I hope you continue to keep in touch with us on the boards. You've always given insightful advice and have shown that you have more than an excellent grasp on understanding socialization and women. If you happen to learn anything on your journey, it would be great if you could share that with us as well. =)

Good luck to you on your future endeavors, brother!

Cheers,

Franco

 

[thedude]

I too have become a better person due to Chase's blog. If only I had discovered this during my high school year and now halfway into my first semester as a Freshman. Maybe I would be so much more accomplished.

But o well, no use crying over spilled milk.

 

[Chase]

Ross-

Just seeing this now; the past month has been a little crazy for me. Cool of you to give the boards / me a heads up on your plans. I'm glad I've been able to contribute to your understanding women and doing better with them; it's one of those things that's quite liberating to have handled once you have it - now you're free to focus on other things.

Becoming a decathlete and influencing the world to be healthier are both impressive goals - and yeah, if you start now and really put your back into it, I'd be surprised to not see you make some serious headway relatively quickly. You can usually get a pretty good read on people from the way they communicate on the Internet, and you struck me from day one as a really motivated guy.

One word of advice on influencing the world to be healthier: remember that people are going to take the path of least resistance 99% of the time. There are the people who willpower themselves to success and fight urges and cravings and temptation to accomplish great things, but this is a tiny minority of people, and there's usually only a fraction of things in their lives they're actively willpowering themselves on. So, when you start looking to change the world, remember to find ways to change it that will make it easy for people to do the things you think will benefit them if they do - ideally, find ways to make it easier and more fun for them to do healthy things than it is to unhealthy things.

Props on finding a girl you think you'll end up with for a while, and on getting to the point you feel like you've done what you need to with women/dating. Your contributions on the boards and on the blog have been valuable and appreciated, Ross - and I'm glad to hear you'll still check in on things here once and a while.

Chase

 

[Knight]

Ross,

Stoked to hear your goals man. The way you conduct yourself online from what I've seen gave me the impression you were much older and consequently I look up to you even though I am the same age. Interesting how text can influence so greatly.

Knight