My vs Her part of town. Should I ever turn down dates?

[nad_bigger]

Hello!

Stiff erections and warm embraces to everyone.

I live about 30 min from city center in Omsk (Syberia, 1.3 mil shitty town).
So when I schedule a date, a bus stop 5 min from my house is perfect, there are cafes, cinema, park, and all the shitty deep-poor-real-Russia attractions you can think of.

For some time I considered a girl coming to my part of town (even if it means 40 min ride) an investment from her part to the point that I straight up DECLINED a date (and ended all communications) with girls that refuse to do so.

And a dawn of time and bad number/date ratio has ascended upon me, and I cried out in desperation, ohhh looord Jesus, how have you let me shoot myself in the foot for soo long?

Lets get serial now: if a girl is kinda hesitant to go to me (20-30 min from city center) does it mean she did not see me as a valuable male in those 10 seconds of approach?
Or was I just fucking stupid?

For your consideration:
no subway, just buses
I am afraid a 30 min taxi ride will cool her off
you are awesome

So my statistics in 3 years are as follow:
2247 approaches
123 numbers
47 dates (all dates with one girl counting as one date)
5 lays.

 

[Jakeroviks]

A 30min trip to a place your your house shouldn't be a dealbreaker. But, if she doesn't know you well enough yet you may want to settle for a more central location.

As far as her "cooling off" I wouldn't sweat it. You can keep things heated and escalate on the way home. More importantly, how much does a 30min taxi ride cost? Sounds expensive...

Alternatively, you can go on a quick date in the city center, then once she knows a bit more about you, have her meet near your home, and pull.