Mysteriously reserved or positively outgoing?

[Prehistoric]

Recently I have been asking me a lot of questions regarding which of these two types gets more success bedding women.

Both from my own experience and from observing other guys I have the impression that the "mysteriously reserved" type tends to generate much more attraction that the "positively outgoing" type who, on the other hand, acts more, makes more moves and is in generally more active.

I can do both. I have the impression that when I do the first women look at me in a more sexually attracted way while when I do the second they interact a lot with me, but the sexual tension gets lost.

Which kind of attitude do you use and do you think it is possible to mix them?

 

[Lotus]

Ideally, to get the best results, you want to use both at will at any given time. It depends on the vibe of the girls you are trying to attract. If you are looking for a party girl you will get more attention with the "positively outgoing" vibe, which is why the BMOC is so successful in the college scene. As a "mysteriously reserved" man the likelihood a girl all over the dance floor will even notice you is slim. She is moving a such a frantic pace she won't even process you. The "mysterious man" will have more success in low key settings targeting low key individuals.

I can do both. I have the impression that when I do the first women look at me in a more sexually attracted way while when I do the second they interact a lot with me, but the sexual tension gets lost.

When you are in such a low key state it's harder for a girl to gauge your interest. She has no idea what you are thinking. While she is wondering, she is thinking of you. The more she thinks of you the more she is investing. The more she invests

The sexual tension tends to get lost because when you are outgoing she can see all of your signs of interest. She doesn't think to herself, "I wonder if he is interested?" You tell her by your actions. Also, a lot of the time party girls aren't even thinking on a sexual level they are just looking to have a good time. Which is why Chase mentions success with these girls can be hit or miss.

Which kind of attitude do you use and do you think it is possible to mix them?

The only experience I have had with mixing is when you find a girl on the dance floor, build a connection there, and then move her and settle her down. I'm sure others with more experience have better examples, and from what I have learned here with good fundamentals anything is possible.

-brum