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Neal wasn't a bad guy, but Franco and I had each warned him, and he only seemed to be getting worse. I know a lot of you guys had been asking for him to go for a while. We still tried to give him a chance.
But he just had a post where he advised a new member, after that member's first post asking for help getting past oral sex, to forget about trying to sleep with the girl and just masturbate instead. Also asking (in jest?) that new member to post the nudes this girl had sent him.
Then the next day he had a post with pictures of some chubby Mexican gang chick he sent a bunch of things to on Facebook and got blocked by. Which was just... I had to delete it.
Neil didn't seem to understand why the stuff he was doing or saying was beyond the pale. I have sympathy for him. But when it gets to the point where you tell a guy he's got to rein the behavior in, and he still can't change that behavior, and he's doing things that alienate new members and make the whole community look really bad to anyone who happens to come by, he's got to go.
Chase
But he just had a post where he advised a new member, after that member's first post asking for help getting past oral sex, to forget about trying to sleep with the girl and just masturbate instead. Also asking (in jest?) that new member to post the nudes this girl had sent him.
Then the next day he had a post with pictures of some chubby Mexican gang chick he sent a bunch of things to on Facebook and got blocked by. Which was just... I had to delete it.
Neil didn't seem to understand why the stuff he was doing or saying was beyond the pale. I have sympathy for him. But when it gets to the point where you tell a guy he's got to rein the behavior in, and he still can't change that behavior, and he's doing things that alienate new members and make the whole community look really bad to anyone who happens to come by, he's got to go.
Chase