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Greiz

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Ok, guys, here it is

I wrote about it in earlier post, but now i have upcoming situation. Long story short - last friday i had a party, i was contacting with one girl, she kind a liked me, but when i asked her to meet (through Facebook), she started that bullshit that she doesn't know what she want's, blah blah.) Tomorrow my very good friend (she was his classmate in highschool, they are good friends) is organasing chill out evening, like smoking some water-pipe, few beers, nothing big. So, she will be tommorow. When he asked her if she is coming, she asked him if i will be there. I don't know why she asked: deciding whether to go or not? Like, in a negative sense? But here is the question: how should i behave? I thought that i won't show many positive emotions/body language/etc to show that i am not chasing her? What do you think?

Thank you, pals!'
 

GeneralFap

Tool-Bearing Hominid
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It seems to me like this girl is not that into you (or was into you and something happened). Perhaps she didn't see you as high value enough. If she goes to the party what you can do is not talk to her that much and instead talk with the other girls in the party (touch them, talk loud, just have a good time - doesn't have to be sexual) so you can raise your value in her eyes. Once she sees that you are a cool, sociable guy, you can then re-engage her once again.
 

Mr.Rob

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Okay two things here...

1. I already told you your only option on the last post you made. If you really want to get this girl, since you've apparently already shown chasing behavior, you're going to have to get in front of her with other girls that are into you. Read GC articles on preselection if you don't know what that is and get that in front of your girl. It's probably your only bet.

2. The fact that she asked if you are going to be there is probably not good news. She's thinking that if you're going to be there she's worried that she might have to fend off some needy dude (you).

As aforementioned if I were you I'd forget this chick and go find another girl and learn from the mistake you made here.

Good luck

-Rob
 
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