Hey guys, I could use some help with a sticking point of mine.
Whenever I go out and approach women I rarely ever have troubles getting their numbers and building attraction. As a matter of a fact I've gotten to a point where most of the women I try to get numbers from end up giving me theirs before I have the chance to ask. This is nice, but whenever I get a girls number it rarely ever leads to anything after that. I know its not a matter of them not being attracted either, based off the things we do before I get their number ; ). It just seems that I can't find a smooth way to transition from texting a girl to getting them alone, a majority of the time. I've already read the articles on focusing on just arranging a meet after getting a girls number. It's just that after getting a girls number in a relatively quick manner it seems strange trying to text them to hang out right off the bat considering the fact we were flirting pretty hard but I don't know them that well. Perhaps its me building a bunch of attraction quickly with a girl without building comfort, that leads to us feeling like strangers afterwards. Personally I need to get over this sticking point to develop a process of approaching a woman to becoming sexual with her that works a majority of the time. If I can get this sticking point out of the way I'll finally have that process down.
Any solid advice from the bros in the forum that know how to get rid of this sticking point would be nice. Thanks- Stretch.
Whenever I go out and approach women I rarely ever have troubles getting their numbers and building attraction. As a matter of a fact I've gotten to a point where most of the women I try to get numbers from end up giving me theirs before I have the chance to ask. This is nice, but whenever I get a girls number it rarely ever leads to anything after that. I know its not a matter of them not being attracted either, based off the things we do before I get their number ; ). It just seems that I can't find a smooth way to transition from texting a girl to getting them alone, a majority of the time. I've already read the articles on focusing on just arranging a meet after getting a girls number. It's just that after getting a girls number in a relatively quick manner it seems strange trying to text them to hang out right off the bat considering the fact we were flirting pretty hard but I don't know them that well. Perhaps its me building a bunch of attraction quickly with a girl without building comfort, that leads to us feeling like strangers afterwards. Personally I need to get over this sticking point to develop a process of approaching a woman to becoming sexual with her that works a majority of the time. If I can get this sticking point out of the way I'll finally have that process down.
Any solid advice from the bros in the forum that know how to get rid of this sticking point would be nice. Thanks- Stretch.
