Need excuse for plausible deniability to pull coworker (husband picks her up)

[The Byronic Man]

She and her husband only have 1 car, and he always picks her up after work. I'm at the point where I only need to pull her to seal the deal.

We've already been out to lunch a few times (she actually asked me to take her out to lunch)...and last week, I asked her to grab drinks before her husband picks her up, but I put a rain check on that because I got caught up with something at work.

Options:

• Take her out DURING work hours, but I'll only have about an hour with her. So we won't have enough time to go out for drinks and then pulling her from there. So I'm thinking I need a good excuse to take her straight back to my place (which is a 5 minute drive, and I think I have enough compliance and comfort with her to make this happen...excuse can't be "too good" though so to make her wonder if something is going to happen, thus creating sexual tension).
• Take her out AFTER work hours, but I don't see how I can do that without raising suspicion with her husband (he met me one time at a happy hour, and I'm sure he suspects).
• Hope the husband goes travelling, but who knows when that will happen, let alone if it ever will (never asked her if her husband travels...trying to avoid talking about him as much as possible to avoid ASD).
• Keep her attracted until an opportunity arises. No guarantee an opportunity will ever pop up, not to mention her attraction window may expire by then.

I've had experience with attached women, so this is not new territory for me. The logistics here are a nightmare though.

 

[Marty]

Re: Need excuse for plausible deniability to pull coworker (husband picks her up

Byron:

This is what springs to my mind... may not necessarily be good advice, so take it or leave it as you will. I'd consider two approaches, one of which is preferable over the other.

• First preference: Offer to participate with her in the deception by concocting a story together; this gets her to set aside time when she'd otherwise be with her husband, and thus invest. It also means she'll feel less under pressure to leave. A good one that I've had experience with is to forge an email from her boss which she then forwards to her husband, apologizing for the short notice but requiring evening attendance at a company event. The later she notifies him the better; that way he has less/no opportunity to quiz her in person (until it's too late). A good trick is to have her show him a real email from her boss on her phone or whatever, in advance ("OMG hubby can you believe he wrote this? check out his style of writing") then imitate that same style in the fake message a couple days later. People are more inclined to believe what they see with their own eyes, over what they hear reported to them.
  
  Second preference: Do it during working hours, but don't impose any artificial time constraints. Unless you're both legitimately in a profession such as air traffic controller, doctor etc. that would cause people severe distress if you were away when you were supposed to be on duty, it shouldn't be an issue. If you're just office workers, pick a day when you both don't have much on, get out of there and enjoy the real pleasures of life ;-)

Just my thoughts.

-Marty

 

[Richard]

Re: Need excuse for plausible deniability to pull coworker (husband picks her up

Marty's ideas are pretty devious, I like them

Haha, but the way things are with women, if they like you or want sex, they will find a way to get either one!

I know its always best to have her follow your lead, so here's how Id approach the situation.

Get her to explicitly express her interests with you, tell her you feel the same, and ask her if SHE could come up with a plan for the both of you...

If she's interested, she'll do it. Besides, she knows how to trick her husband better than anyone else could!