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What's up guys,
I recently had two meetups/dates with this girl I've been talking to recently. Basically I did my best to push for sex but she put up lmr. Then the next day I got even farther going to give her oral/finner her but no sex.I could've pushed for sex probably but had trouble "getting it up". I have a past of porn addiction and recently Inamed recent months I've been clean from it. However I still have a lot of performance anxiety and I'm really insecure about it.
This happened last week and all this weekmy mood has changed. I'm nowhere near as confident as I was b4. I'm barely approaching, avoiding it on occasion and when I went out one day this week I only approached one girl. Mind you last week I hit my peak and approached over 20 girls around 4 per days i did go out and approach,yet this week Ive only approached 3 so far.
Is this normal for me to be so low in motivation & confidence after a failure when last week I felt like I was improving immensely? If so can someone tell me what I can do to get over this. I'm hating this feeling and I really need to get past this.
I recently had two meetups/dates with this girl I've been talking to recently. Basically I did my best to push for sex but she put up lmr. Then the next day I got even farther going to give her oral/finner her but no sex.I could've pushed for sex probably but had trouble "getting it up". I have a past of porn addiction and recently Inamed recent months I've been clean from it. However I still have a lot of performance anxiety and I'm really insecure about it.
This happened last week and all this weekmy mood has changed. I'm nowhere near as confident as I was b4. I'm barely approaching, avoiding it on occasion and when I went out one day this week I only approached one girl. Mind you last week I hit my peak and approached over 20 girls around 4 per days i did go out and approach,yet this week Ive only approached 3 so far.
Is this normal for me to be so low in motivation & confidence after a failure when last week I felt like I was improving immensely? If so can someone tell me what I can do to get over this. I'm hating this feeling and I really need to get past this.
