Need Some Advice

[Anonymous]

Been dating a girl for a couple of months, she very indecisive and wants me to choose the places we go to...trying to get her to my place for dinner (and of course the other stuff lol), but how should i go about asking her/telling her to come over ? don't really wanna go out then invite her back rather her come here and then we go out....thanks guys for the advice.

 

[dannyboy3144]

im in a similiar situation dont know how to proced either...

 

[ray_zorse]

I'm not really seeing the problem with just asking her directly, "come on over"... I suppose you should set up some plausible deniability such as "to cook dinner together" or "to watch a movie together"... but honestly if you've been seeing her for a couple of months don't u think she'll be ready for this? Unfortunately though, if u go on a lot of dates without sex then things can harden into that state, well, hopefully it's just a date-compression situation and you just need to get her alone.
-Ray