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darklarik

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So this girl ive know for a while asked me to go out and we set it up for friday, albeit with no details. Shes a girl i met at a modeling course a year ago and we got a long really well, albeit since then we must have talked like, 3-4 times only, as i wasent interested in her. 1 Year passed, she re-contacted me, and i happened to met up once again at convention, shes hot as hell now (talk about transformation), and im pretty sure she likes me too since she was pretty insistent on wanting to hang out some day.

Well, i proposed a simple date, go out for a few drinks, quite non expensive place to talk and stuff, but thing is she lives kind of far (and with her parents still), i myself still live with mine and im not exactly sure what should i do, in the date i mean. Do we just talk? How do i build escalation and make her feel comfortable to come back home with me out of just talking? Another possibility is inviting her right over to my house and cooking her (I can cook pretty well) something tasty then watching a movie and working up from there. But im just a little lost of details.

Anyone got an Date pointers and general structure of how the actual date should go? i just dont know how to turn this into a 'sleep with her on the first date' like so many articles say.

Help :X
 

NarrowJ

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If you have the time, I'd strongly suggest scouring the articles on the blog side. Just do a few searches for articles that pertain to your situation: wanting to take a girl out on a quick date, and move fast.

You say that you BOTH live with parents? Do you have a good place where you can take her for sex? Your car is as good of a place as any. Just drive her out somewhere secluded. If you have privacy at your home, that is probably the best bet and what is going to work out much better for you, though.

My general date template is this. Keep it simple, introduce a sexual frame early on, be playful yet challenging, isolate her after about 60-90 minutes, and then escalate to sex. The article contains much more info.


Best of luck, and let us know what happens!
J.J.
 

RDawg

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darklarik

Just to touch on what NJ said. She's interested in you, she wants you, just lead her to sex my friend. In my opinion, go for drinks somewhere near your house. You can meet at the place and then just deep dive her, make some conversation, flirt a bit and make connection and then FUCKING PULL! After conversation, just casually invite her over for a movie or something.

E.g., "Hey, well, not sure what time this place closes at but why don't we head back to my place, were we can continue chatting and watch a movie or something"?

Keep it simple, like NJ said. Just invite her home casually and since you do live with your parents, just have her come over, it's not a big deal. If your parents ask, just tell them it's a friend of yours. Go somewhere like the basement or your room and watch a movie and then begin escalating. I live with my parents as well brother and I've slayed many girls. You can do it!

Note: if the conversation starts to get boring or if you notice things are getting awkward a bit. Just invite her over. You have nothing to lose and it may mean, it's time to slay ;)

Rdawg
 

ocantu1987

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RDawg said:
darklarik

Just to touch on what NJ said. She's interested in you, she wants you, just lead her to sex my friend. In my opinion, go for drinks somewhere near your house. You can meet at the place and then just deep dive her, make some conversation, flirt a bit and make connection and then FUCKING PULL! After conversation, just casually invite her over for a movie or something.

E.g., "Hey, well, not sure what time this place closes at but why don't we head back to my place, were we can continue chatting and watch a movie or something"?

Keep it simple, like NJ said. Just invite her home casually and since you do live with your parents, just have her come over, it's not a big deal. If your parents ask, just tell them it's a friend of yours. Go somewhere like the basement or your room and watch a movie and then begin escalating. I live with my parents as well brother and I've slayed many girls. You can do it!

Note: if the conversation starts to get boring or if you notice things are getting awkward a bit. Just invite her over. You have nothing to lose and it may mean, it's time to slay ;)

Rdawg

Awesome advice here^^^^ Ive used netflix as an excuse to get a girl to my place before with success.
 
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