Need some quick texting help...

[1funkymonk]

I went out in a group of friends last night, and got a girls number that I am interested in. I was completely confident and sexy with her, and spoke to her here and there throughout the night. At the end of the night I went up to her made, some small talk, then straight up told her I'd like to take her on a date. She asked me if I was serious and I told her yes, and she said "are you going to take my number or not?" So I got it. But here's the thing, we were both pretty drunk and she said something along the lines of "I might not remember this in the morning".

That makes me a little unsure of what and when to text her today. We know each other through mutual friends and I have been on outings with her twice in the past year, but I never see her beyond these very rare events. She also told my sister (AKA wing woman) she thinks I'm a great guy and my sister said she's totally into me.

Any tips on what and when I should text to set up a date?

Thanks guys

 

[Franco]

1funkymonk,

I would just send her a text with something simple and then make sure to tag your name at the end of it so she knows who it is. So something like the following should be simple and easy for her to respond to:

Hey! How was the rest of your night after we left, Sarah? - 1funkymonk

That way she'll at least know who the text is from, and if she actually likes you, regardless of whether or not she remembers grabbing your number, she'll probably be happy to text you back. Then maybe shoot her a couple texts back and forth (since she's a mutual friend instead of a cold approach), and then ask her if she would like to grab a drink or coffee with you sometime that week.

Keep it simple!

- Franco

 

[1funkymonk]

So I texted her and it went ok. We were talking about the night before and she said "Round 2 tonight!????" I wasn't sure if that was her inviting me out so I told her I have plans with friends. I texted her today and asked her to go to a local bar later on and she said she's really tired and has homework to do, but hopefully by later she will be able to make it out. She also told me to text her around that time to remind her because she will forget.

I can't tell if she's trying to make me work for it or if she's just not that interested so she might "forget" to meet up with me. That rubbed me the wrong way and I'm thinking I'll just go out with another girl that's a mutual friend and blow off sending her the "reminder" text and see if she contacts me.

The girl is gorgeous and seemed into me the other night but I'm in no way attached and am fine just walking away.

Advice?

Thanks