Calls & Texts Needing Help Guys

[Marcellus]

How am I supposed to text girls in my outer social circle whom I talk to every now and then should it still be the same gameplan as Chase always says?
Such as just not wasting time and trying to get a date out of the interaction ASAP or should I be going slow and finding out abit of her interests before trying to set up a meet?

And Knowing that theres a 70% chance she shows her friends whom I also know do I have to watch what I say?

 

[Nuffsaid]

Hey there,

When texting girls on your outer social circle it really isn't too much different than texting the ones you normally do. I wouldn't text them strictly for dates yet but don't let texting be your first source of correspondence. Get to know them a bit if you haven't already. Do some light( and I mean light) deep diving to get her comfortable going on a date with you, with minimal resistance. But save the intimate deep diving for when you're in person. It works tons better at building rapport and she senses your emotions and can be closer with you rather than just typing you up on a cell phone. Also you don't have to text her and get in a long conversation about your dreams and aspirations one night. Text her one night, light deep dive, slow down, end convo. Then the next day txt her and say "hey so and so, what days are you normally free? I'd love to go grab some coffee (whatever) sometime" keep it short and sweet but save your real stuff for the dates


Jake

 

[Marcellus]

Thanks Jake, Haven't really had time to put your advice into action but I'll wait and see