negativity

[girlsfollow]

I'm starting to think I may be being too nice - I said that it was ok for me not to have sex. She kept on bringing up negative things like "I always get used by guys" and "sex always makes things worse" "I don't want to be one of those girls that gets fucked once and then you never call again" "I dont like the idea of being the second girl in 24 hours in your bed"- and there were more that I can't remember...........What the hell is up with this, why is she giving me all this BS! She clearly didn't give the last guys she did it with this so why me... thats what I'm wondering - and how do I stop it? - Maybe I came across too high value bf material

Could it simply be that she's in a phase at the moment where she is a bit hesitant (her ex left her and she was affected by it then) maybe she just needs to ge used to me a bit - like with the touch she was very frigid at first with the touch but then relaxed things eventually to a point I was basically groping her in the bar - I think I need to work on really pumping out that Strong animal vibe - any tips?

 

[FixYourselves]

It sounds like she has been hurt before, and has trouble with trusting guys now as a result, for fear of history repeating itself. Because of this, I think it's important to make it clear, in both your words and actions, that you are someone she can trust and who won't mess with her feelings.

 

[girlsfollow]

It sounds like she has been hurt before, and has trouble with trusting guys now as a result, for fear of history repeating itself. Because of this, I think it's important to make it clear, in both your words and actions, that you are someone she can trust and who won't mess with her feelings.

I think you're right, how would you say I should make her think she can trust me?

 

[trashKENNUT]

I'm starting to think I may be being too nice - I said that it was ok for me not to have sex. She kept on bringing up negative things like "I always get used by guys" and "sex always makes things worse" "I don't want to be one of those girls that gets fucked once and then you never call again" "I dont like the idea of being the second girl in 24 hours in your bed"- and there were more that I can't remember...........What the hell is up with this, why is she giving me all this BS! She clearly didn't give the last guys she did it with this so why me... thats what I'm wondering - and how do I stop it? - Maybe I came across too high value bf material

Could it simply be that she's in a phase at the moment where she is a bit hesitant (her ex left her and she was affected by it then) maybe she just needs to ge used to me a bit - like with the touch she was very frigid at first with the touch but then relaxed things eventually to a point I was basically groping her in the bar - I think I need to work on really pumping out that Strong animal vibe - any tips?

She wants the sex? and this was all drama because you didn't give it? She still in rebound mode, she's more likely proactive to getting sex, to get revenge on her ex.

Zac