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Hey guys,
Had a date with a girl today and we had a really good time and conversation - we went and got breakfast then went to a local park n then frisbee golfing, followed by her coming back to my place.
I gave her a tour, she met the dogs and cats and two of my roommates, and then we ended up in my room.
We kept talking and I knew instinctually that I needed to kiss her - but I didn't. And I felt what I haven't felt in a LONG time - nervousness.
Now, this girl is a caliber ABOVE any girl I've ever dated. In looks, personality, etc. Even my roommates said she was super attractive.
She is like an 8-9 for most guys.
Then the tension built and built and built and finally she made herself an excuse to leave and I walked her out. I diffused it a bit by saying I was nervous n gave her a hug, which diffused some of the nervousness.
As she walked out the door, we hugged again and she said we could hang out again and that I could feel free to text her.
And off she went.
I talked with my roommates about it after and that helped me feel a bit better.
But between this girl and the girl I had the other day at the same caliber as this girl - the difference being I DID kiss the other girl - I'm super happy I started attracting and getting women of the caliber I want for a girlfriend as dates - and Im making it home with them and isolated - but I'm back to getting nervous around physical escalation and closing the deal.
I did notice my use physical touch went down quite a bit compared to normal - and that is probably contributing to it a bit.
Any reassurance or tips for getting over this? I can keep going on dates and getting experience with this caliber of girl of course, but besides that?
NBW
Had a date with a girl today and we had a really good time and conversation - we went and got breakfast then went to a local park n then frisbee golfing, followed by her coming back to my place.
I gave her a tour, she met the dogs and cats and two of my roommates, and then we ended up in my room.
We kept talking and I knew instinctually that I needed to kiss her - but I didn't. And I felt what I haven't felt in a LONG time - nervousness.
Now, this girl is a caliber ABOVE any girl I've ever dated. In looks, personality, etc. Even my roommates said she was super attractive.
She is like an 8-9 for most guys.
Then the tension built and built and built and finally she made herself an excuse to leave and I walked her out. I diffused it a bit by saying I was nervous n gave her a hug, which diffused some of the nervousness.
As she walked out the door, we hugged again and she said we could hang out again and that I could feel free to text her.
And off she went.
I talked with my roommates about it after and that helped me feel a bit better.
But between this girl and the girl I had the other day at the same caliber as this girl - the difference being I DID kiss the other girl - I'm super happy I started attracting and getting women of the caliber I want for a girlfriend as dates - and Im making it home with them and isolated - but I'm back to getting nervous around physical escalation and closing the deal.
I did notice my use physical touch went down quite a bit compared to normal - and that is probably contributing to it a bit.
Any reassurance or tips for getting over this? I can keep going on dates and getting experience with this caliber of girl of course, but besides that?
NBW
