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I had a pretty awesome day today. Pounded out some awesome code at work, got a raise at work, then wrote a paper. When I got home, I was feeling pretty great, but a little tired. I hadn't really talked to girls all that much since a tinder girl went cold on me last week. I kinda had my hopes up on her, which I told myself was dumb, and she just stopped logging on. The I sorta got a small crush on a bartender and was planning on going out and chatting her up for happy hr.
Since it was a pretty long day, I had the feeling that I probably looked like a hot mess. I also recall all of the nights I went out after working long hours at my old job and pretty much didn't say a word the whole night. Given that, I asked my roommate if I looked busted or like a zombie. She agreed that I looked pretty busted and that I should stay in. I texted a couple of girls that live out of town and they each seemed pretty interested in hanging out this weekend. Then I texted a local girl that I'd been on 2 dates with and that had turned her head both times I went in for a kiss.
I recalled a line from these boards that was credited to Anatman, "Wanna come watch some netflix?" So I texted those words to her and she said she would be over in a couple hours. I've been kinda busy, so I haven't gone out with this girl in a couple weeks. After my roommate left for work, I went in for the kiss, yet a third time. Each of these times that I had gone in for the kiss all seemed pretty appropriate and in line with successful kissed I have done in the past. She turned her head again this time and then had a little talk with me...
She said that she gets this vibe from me and that I seem like I'm the kind of guy that hooks up with lots of girls. I told her, with a smile, that was the nicest complement anyone has ever given me. She also said I never give her strait answers to anything. When she asked me why I never text her, I told her i'm busy and that she is free to text me if she wants to talk. I didn't get defensive about any of it, it actually made me feel pretty good.
Long story short, talked all night and made out some. She is really cute, easy to talk to, and pretty fun to be around. I told her I would take her to an Indian restaurant in town this weekend and a party after.
I'm going to see where it goes, in terms of dating her. I'm in a pretty good place right now with work and school and all, so I will spread some of the holiday cheer if things go that way. Thanks for all the good advise on GC, its really changed my attitude and helped me to appreciate women more.
Since it was a pretty long day, I had the feeling that I probably looked like a hot mess. I also recall all of the nights I went out after working long hours at my old job and pretty much didn't say a word the whole night. Given that, I asked my roommate if I looked busted or like a zombie. She agreed that I looked pretty busted and that I should stay in. I texted a couple of girls that live out of town and they each seemed pretty interested in hanging out this weekend. Then I texted a local girl that I'd been on 2 dates with and that had turned her head both times I went in for a kiss.
I recalled a line from these boards that was credited to Anatman, "Wanna come watch some netflix?" So I texted those words to her and she said she would be over in a couple hours. I've been kinda busy, so I haven't gone out with this girl in a couple weeks. After my roommate left for work, I went in for the kiss, yet a third time. Each of these times that I had gone in for the kiss all seemed pretty appropriate and in line with successful kissed I have done in the past. She turned her head again this time and then had a little talk with me...
She said that she gets this vibe from me and that I seem like I'm the kind of guy that hooks up with lots of girls. I told her, with a smile, that was the nicest complement anyone has ever given me. She also said I never give her strait answers to anything. When she asked me why I never text her, I told her i'm busy and that she is free to text me if she wants to talk. I didn't get defensive about any of it, it actually made me feel pretty good.
Long story short, talked all night and made out some. She is really cute, easy to talk to, and pretty fun to be around. I told her I would take her to an Indian restaurant in town this weekend and a party after.
I'm going to see where it goes, in terms of dating her. I'm in a pretty good place right now with work and school and all, so I will spread some of the holiday cheer if things go that way. Thanks for all the good advise on GC, its really changed my attitude and helped me to appreciate women more.