Never Admit You're Wrong, But be aware what you do.

[trashKENNUT]

Wanted to do a short post,

Never Admit or Try to apologise. I have this quote, "God is compassionate, Humans, not so." The best way to go about this is to know who you are, know who your partner is, or the person you doing the matter to, and what they want from you, at least in general. And You really need to know yourself, because if you decide to not apologise all so often in this life, but all too often you take from people, and never give them back, or hang out too long with people whom you can't give anything, you will make even the most loyal of human beings feel suckish, and fall into resentment.

You see how Tiger Woods apologise for his actions in his sex scandal at one time, and how the world loses respect for him when he dropped tears. I am sure he sincere believe his actions to his wife are wrong, but guess life isn't so fair with most of the sponsors and fans shitting on him, even if it's his personal life, not professional one.

Just my opinion, I wish i was not him, when he was at that moment. People are not being fair to him, He's human. He have needs too. I believe he needed the sex to get "in the zone", but i guess people don't see it that way. They called it "addiction". I can agree to some point, i am sane. But different people have different goals at different sets of time.

IF you need to apologize, do so, have a neutral voice tone, make things short, you can cry by yourself in a room. Then work yourself and understand why feel that way, and whom you have hurt.

Zac

 

[Humay]

Really insightful, thanks Zac. But sometimes if you don't apologise to the people you've hurt, wouldn't they hold that against you anyway?

 

[trashKENNUT]

Humay,

Really insightful, thanks Zac. But sometimes if you don't apologise to the people you've hurt, wouldn't they hold that against you anyway?

You have to know yourself and what you do, and also you need to ask her how have you hurt her in the first place. If she points to things that she wants that you could not give after she tells you, and you hang out with her too often, asking for what you want all the time, then definitely you are indeed wrong. and apologize to her, without looking pathetic. Make it short, be sincere but neutral about it.

I am sure everyone feel some guilt when they do something wrong, even the most heartless ones. You can cry alone but try to practice not to cry in public. You will just lose respect, especially she's a woman.

Well for a guy, the more honest and the communicative you are, the more he respects you. Just tell it as it is. and say things that what you did, and why you did. Make things direct, and for guys, it's the same. Don't be pathetic. You know you did it. Because men often respect men who knows what he has done.

Zac

 

[Franco]

Humay,

Chase really DOES cover everything. I'm sure you haven't seen this yet -- check out this article:

Should You Apologize to Women?

Cheers,

Franco