Hey guys pretty fun day I had, didn't get laid in the end I did however just enjoy just being with a woman if that makes sense. Also not sure whether this is a Lr-- or an FR ++ O,o
So I meet this girl at work, she's in the middle of the isle looking a bit lost. She's looking around with a general lost look on her face, she's wearing short shorts, a green tee and she has some pretty long dirty blonde hair. Oh and what really got me were her eyes, she looked back at me as I approached her with the most beautiful sapphire eyes. Her pupils were enlarged greatly and I just felt it.
She's looking for fly traps, I lead her a room or two over into cleaning and look for them making a bit of conversation about what shes looking for, I feel shes attracted we've got pretty good eye contact a good vibe and she seems warm. I go check the computer for what she's looking for and we don't have it.
I get back to her and say we don't have it and i inquire about her situation, I wanted to make my move there but there were too many people around, so instead I make a suggestion about a different item and lead her over there. I lead her to the new spot which is pretty vacant in terms of customers. After talking about the product I say
"I know this is random but your cute" (something along those lines)
She hooks and her eyes light up even more than before and she will not take them off me. We exchange names and I ask her if she's free later on to grab some ice cream or something and she says she's down. ( I also had a date later on, I cancelled on the chick even though she gave me a hard time getting her out, I wanted this girl)
So we talk a bit more and I find out shes from Vermont, goes to school right across the street. This is fucking perfect I think. So we exchange numbers then go on our separate ways, a couple minutes later she still has that lost look on when i see her in another section. Ask what else and she's looking for microwavable plates, show her those and we make a bit more convo. Find out that shes alone when she talks about needing the plates for just her self and this girl is fucking hooked. She's content just staring at me and i excuse myself and bid her farewell.
A few hours later, bout an hour or two before I get off we have this text exchange
So I get out of work at 7:30 and as I'm walking to the place i notice her walking there and i just keep calm and keep walking, mind you she is very far away on the other side of the street. I get out to the street and i see a coworker and exchange pleasantries with her, then i cross and meet up with the chick. The place is packed and they are understaffed. We have to wait in this small little room with like 6 other people, everyone's quiet hahaha. I whisper to her about what shes getting etc and conversation just kind of dies a bit. A dude lets us cut, we order are stuff and pay separately, when the chick asks if its together or separate a pause a bit before i say separate, i blanked out. Then i asked if she had enough on her and she covered herself and i got mine.
We leave the store and I motion towards this large park since it's such a nice day and it's so crowded near the store. Ice cream is dripping and we are both kind of just into the ice cream for a few seconds, after we get our cones under control, i figure out her passion.
She a biology major and is staying on campus over the summer working in a lab, and she gets a stipend and free room and board, its pretty cool that she gets to do all this and we talk a bit about her love for microbiology. We get a bit into it and what she wants to do with it, and i lead her to cross this other street, we'd already crossed the main street earlier. The cars are stopped at the light and so we cross.
At the start her ice cream was a mess on the cone and mines was the neat one but when we got to the other side, it was mines that was a dripping mess and hers was perfect. I comment "So at the start your cone looked awful now it looks perfect mines was the other way and now it's awful. Guess your better at licking than I am..."
She responds" Yea I guess it comes with experience... my sister and I always got ice cream in Vermont, she'd get a cup and I'd get a cone"
I lead her across the next street and dive more into her interest, she talks about video games and anime... my two favorite subjects. We go into games and I talk about how i'd whoop her ass and she says shed whoop mine whatever. We switch to anime and we are walking and these two kids, a boy and girl ask me if I can take their picture. I say hmm my hands are covered in ice cream have her do it and I volunteer her, maybe I could of said no or handled it differently but they were ok.
She took the pictures while i walked over to the trash and threw away my napkins, after (took about 1 minute) I told her we'd sit on the bench for a bit. So we sit down and she seems a little closed off, we begin talking more about anime and eventually i say "well since were on the subject of anime, how about we go watch some. I live pretty far away and your dorm is close by lets go there"
She says "Ok, I've got my laptop and there's also a tv"
So about 5 minutes after we sat down we get back up to head to her dorm. We talk about anime about the entire walk there and this girl tells me how shes the anime club leader at emmanuel and I love it, we keep talking as we get into the dorm. I give the dude my id and we go in, I ask wheres the bathroom at. She points me to it since its coming up and I go in, she says shell grab her laptop so we can go watch it.
I think this is weird, so i piss and figure out a way to derail it, I walk out and walk a bit toward her room and as shes coming out I say "its a bit weird watching anime in the hallway", she said "there's a tv downstairs we can use", I say okay thinking that I can escalate down there and transition to her room if its just us and luckily enough there's mad other kids down there so we head back up to her room. We get in there and she makes the usual comment about her room is messy i say don't worry im a guy my room is way messier so i can't judge.
She opens the blinds up and the windows a bit, her room was haaaaawt lol. She also turns off the lights and I sit on her bed and she grabs the computer and sits next to me. She asks me what I want to watch and I just come up with a category, humor to lighten the mood because she seemed a bit nervous. She puts on this anime she told me about earlier, and were just commenting on the anime it was pretty funny. At about 5 or 8 minutes into the anime I'm talking to her and i ask about her eyes, as she's looking at me I make the triangle motion and i grab her chin and pull her into me. We kiss for a couple seconds then I pull away and go back to the anime.
We watch the anime and I notice her calming down, and we end up making out again a few minutes later then go back to the anime. I played with the pause button once to fuck with her and think I was going for the makeout but I didn't. We ended up just watching the anime I enjoyed it. After began the makeout session we stopped for a bit then she told me about this other character from the same show so we watched it for about 4 mins. After I told her to close her laptop and put it on her dresser.
We begin making out hardcore, but in terms of escalating nothing is really working, I didn't set up a non judgmental frame so i figured I'd face some resistance. Not able to touch boobs over the clothes for a while and won't let me kiss her neck. This goes on for a bit about 40 minutes meanwhile we are making out hardcore tongue etc, I'm trying different ways to escalate, like arms, to the breast , stomach , legs etc that's not working. I can't get her shirt off and she says shes not taking her shirt off at one point.
I keep switching positions moving from the aggressor to the one on the more passive end, when I put her on top shed get more passionate, I could feel her bare ass for a bit before she realized, and I always made sure to move my hands before she did or at least make it seem like i was already moving them when she tried to. She was fucking wet, i detected the scent the entire time. I then begin to try a mutual escalation and that seems to work better, I eventually get to touch her breasts over the shirt and for a second under... I got some nipple bro
I remember commenting "I know your so fucking wet right now", she says "oh yea how do you know" I say"my sixth sense". After saying that things got better, then i remember saying "I know your soo turned on right now, way more than me", she says "I can feel your heart beating and your way more turned on" me" no way.." then we commence making out harder and I'm using her to grind on me, we were sitting in a lotus position at that point.
A bit later on I'm still persisting and she comments about how she has to go to the lab at 9, actually this was after the first episode ended, to do her yeast stuff, I say okay cool. Still making out I'm feeling her pussy through her shorts and moving before she moves my hands, and no go. I place her hand on my dick to show her and and she gives me a dismissal mmhm. That dismissal mmm was kinda her way of rejecting my moves, and whenever she did Id start laughing it off and she'd start giggling too.
Eventually its like 9:40 and shes been talking about this lab for the past 20 minutes mentioning it and says she has to go do it, and i say yea i gotta go too. We get our shit together, my shirt was off about an hour in toooo fucking hot, I also tried to get her to take her shit off earlier by telling her it was too hot for all that on, no go.
So we are at her door and i pull her into me and kiss her a bit and pull away then we leave, we make more small talk about her lab stuff. We get to a fork and she says she has to go to public safety, I freak out a bit in my head due to my paranoia but remain outwardly calm with my vibe unchanging. As I'm walking and she is still within ear shot I tell her i forgot my headphones, we walk back to her dorm, and i see some benches. I tell her ill wait here while she runs back in to go find my head phones. She finds them and we walk back the same way. I ask about public safety make a joke bout how she has to get a new id or something and she says no she just needs to trade her id for keys, paranoia gone. I make an innuendo she says, ie my dick and she doesn't get it but i make sure to point it out and she plays along and we laugh about it. Get to the cross road again and she splits off, I say wow your not even going to give me a hug. She comes over and we embrace for a bit, she giggles then goes off to do her thing.
Her body was telling me yes, but ultimately I got a no, If i had more time I feel like I could of overcame and came. Just remembered the first time I tried to get her to take her shirt off she said her shirt wasn't coming off yet, so maybe there's hope.
Now even though I didn't get laid, I wasn't butt hurt or even disappointed, I just had fun and tried my best. Anything you guys think I could have done better, or seen anything glaring because i left minor shit out but I can add if you need clarification. I was also wondering how i proceed now, do i send her something tomorrow saying it was fun hanging out or nothing? I ask this because before i had a chick before in a similar situation with me persisting and nothing happening, she texted me the next day asking me if i wanted hook up, fucked that up never saw that girl again, so should i just wait and she if she texts me or do i take the initiative. Lemme know! thanks for reading!
So I meet this girl at work, she's in the middle of the isle looking a bit lost. She's looking around with a general lost look on her face, she's wearing short shorts, a green tee and she has some pretty long dirty blonde hair. Oh and what really got me were her eyes, she looked back at me as I approached her with the most beautiful sapphire eyes. Her pupils were enlarged greatly and I just felt it.
She's looking for fly traps, I lead her a room or two over into cleaning and look for them making a bit of conversation about what shes looking for, I feel shes attracted we've got pretty good eye contact a good vibe and she seems warm. I go check the computer for what she's looking for and we don't have it.
I get back to her and say we don't have it and i inquire about her situation, I wanted to make my move there but there were too many people around, so instead I make a suggestion about a different item and lead her over there. I lead her to the new spot which is pretty vacant in terms of customers. After talking about the product I say
"I know this is random but your cute" (something along those lines)
She hooks and her eyes light up even more than before and she will not take them off me. We exchange names and I ask her if she's free later on to grab some ice cream or something and she says she's down. ( I also had a date later on, I cancelled on the chick even though she gave me a hard time getting her out, I wanted this girl)
So we talk a bit more and I find out shes from Vermont, goes to school right across the street. This is fucking perfect I think. So we exchange numbers then go on our separate ways, a couple minutes later she still has that lost look on when i see her in another section. Ask what else and she's looking for microwavable plates, show her those and we make a bit more convo. Find out that shes alone when she talks about needing the plates for just her self and this girl is fucking hooked. She's content just staring at me and i excuse myself and bid her farewell.
A few hours later, bout an hour or two before I get off we have this text exchange
Me 4:41pm: Hey xx i get off at 7!
Her 4:45 pm: Ok, where do you want to go for ice cream? I like mixx but anywhere is good
Me 5:11pm: Theres this really cool little place nearby on xxx ave
Her 6:43pm: Cool, what's it called?
Me 6:50pm Emilios,its next to starbucks (turns out it wasnt called Emilios lol)
Her 6:57pm: Oh yea that place is good
Me 7:00pm: Cool thats not too far for you right?
Her 7:01pm: No that's close, when should I meet you there?
Me 7:02pm: How does 730 or 8 sound ( I just stayed at work and got some extra work done)
Her 7:07pm: 7:30 sounds good
Me 7:13pm: Okay sounds good
So I get out of work at 7:30 and as I'm walking to the place i notice her walking there and i just keep calm and keep walking, mind you she is very far away on the other side of the street. I get out to the street and i see a coworker and exchange pleasantries with her, then i cross and meet up with the chick. The place is packed and they are understaffed. We have to wait in this small little room with like 6 other people, everyone's quiet hahaha. I whisper to her about what shes getting etc and conversation just kind of dies a bit. A dude lets us cut, we order are stuff and pay separately, when the chick asks if its together or separate a pause a bit before i say separate, i blanked out. Then i asked if she had enough on her and she covered herself and i got mine.
We leave the store and I motion towards this large park since it's such a nice day and it's so crowded near the store. Ice cream is dripping and we are both kind of just into the ice cream for a few seconds, after we get our cones under control, i figure out her passion.
She a biology major and is staying on campus over the summer working in a lab, and she gets a stipend and free room and board, its pretty cool that she gets to do all this and we talk a bit about her love for microbiology. We get a bit into it and what she wants to do with it, and i lead her to cross this other street, we'd already crossed the main street earlier. The cars are stopped at the light and so we cross.
At the start her ice cream was a mess on the cone and mines was the neat one but when we got to the other side, it was mines that was a dripping mess and hers was perfect. I comment "So at the start your cone looked awful now it looks perfect mines was the other way and now it's awful. Guess your better at licking than I am..."
She responds" Yea I guess it comes with experience... my sister and I always got ice cream in Vermont, she'd get a cup and I'd get a cone"
I lead her across the next street and dive more into her interest, she talks about video games and anime... my two favorite subjects. We go into games and I talk about how i'd whoop her ass and she says shed whoop mine whatever. We switch to anime and we are walking and these two kids, a boy and girl ask me if I can take their picture. I say hmm my hands are covered in ice cream have her do it and I volunteer her, maybe I could of said no or handled it differently but they were ok.
She took the pictures while i walked over to the trash and threw away my napkins, after (took about 1 minute) I told her we'd sit on the bench for a bit. So we sit down and she seems a little closed off, we begin talking more about anime and eventually i say "well since were on the subject of anime, how about we go watch some. I live pretty far away and your dorm is close by lets go there"
She says "Ok, I've got my laptop and there's also a tv"
So about 5 minutes after we sat down we get back up to head to her dorm. We talk about anime about the entire walk there and this girl tells me how shes the anime club leader at emmanuel and I love it, we keep talking as we get into the dorm. I give the dude my id and we go in, I ask wheres the bathroom at. She points me to it since its coming up and I go in, she says shell grab her laptop so we can go watch it.
I think this is weird, so i piss and figure out a way to derail it, I walk out and walk a bit toward her room and as shes coming out I say "its a bit weird watching anime in the hallway", she said "there's a tv downstairs we can use", I say okay thinking that I can escalate down there and transition to her room if its just us and luckily enough there's mad other kids down there so we head back up to her room. We get in there and she makes the usual comment about her room is messy i say don't worry im a guy my room is way messier so i can't judge.
She opens the blinds up and the windows a bit, her room was haaaaawt lol. She also turns off the lights and I sit on her bed and she grabs the computer and sits next to me. She asks me what I want to watch and I just come up with a category, humor to lighten the mood because she seemed a bit nervous. She puts on this anime she told me about earlier, and were just commenting on the anime it was pretty funny. At about 5 or 8 minutes into the anime I'm talking to her and i ask about her eyes, as she's looking at me I make the triangle motion and i grab her chin and pull her into me. We kiss for a couple seconds then I pull away and go back to the anime.
We watch the anime and I notice her calming down, and we end up making out again a few minutes later then go back to the anime. I played with the pause button once to fuck with her and think I was going for the makeout but I didn't. We ended up just watching the anime I enjoyed it. After began the makeout session we stopped for a bit then she told me about this other character from the same show so we watched it for about 4 mins. After I told her to close her laptop and put it on her dresser.
We begin making out hardcore, but in terms of escalating nothing is really working, I didn't set up a non judgmental frame so i figured I'd face some resistance. Not able to touch boobs over the clothes for a while and won't let me kiss her neck. This goes on for a bit about 40 minutes meanwhile we are making out hardcore tongue etc, I'm trying different ways to escalate, like arms, to the breast , stomach , legs etc that's not working. I can't get her shirt off and she says shes not taking her shirt off at one point.
I keep switching positions moving from the aggressor to the one on the more passive end, when I put her on top shed get more passionate, I could feel her bare ass for a bit before she realized, and I always made sure to move my hands before she did or at least make it seem like i was already moving them when she tried to. She was fucking wet, i detected the scent the entire time. I then begin to try a mutual escalation and that seems to work better, I eventually get to touch her breasts over the shirt and for a second under... I got some nipple bro
I remember commenting "I know your so fucking wet right now", she says "oh yea how do you know" I say"my sixth sense". After saying that things got better, then i remember saying "I know your soo turned on right now, way more than me", she says "I can feel your heart beating and your way more turned on" me" no way.." then we commence making out harder and I'm using her to grind on me, we were sitting in a lotus position at that point.
A bit later on I'm still persisting and she comments about how she has to go to the lab at 9, actually this was after the first episode ended, to do her yeast stuff, I say okay cool. Still making out I'm feeling her pussy through her shorts and moving before she moves my hands, and no go. I place her hand on my dick to show her and and she gives me a dismissal mmhm. That dismissal mmm was kinda her way of rejecting my moves, and whenever she did Id start laughing it off and she'd start giggling too.
Eventually its like 9:40 and shes been talking about this lab for the past 20 minutes mentioning it and says she has to go do it, and i say yea i gotta go too. We get our shit together, my shirt was off about an hour in toooo fucking hot, I also tried to get her to take her shit off earlier by telling her it was too hot for all that on, no go.
So we are at her door and i pull her into me and kiss her a bit and pull away then we leave, we make more small talk about her lab stuff. We get to a fork and she says she has to go to public safety, I freak out a bit in my head due to my paranoia but remain outwardly calm with my vibe unchanging. As I'm walking and she is still within ear shot I tell her i forgot my headphones, we walk back to her dorm, and i see some benches. I tell her ill wait here while she runs back in to go find my head phones. She finds them and we walk back the same way. I ask about public safety make a joke bout how she has to get a new id or something and she says no she just needs to trade her id for keys, paranoia gone. I make an innuendo she says, ie my dick and she doesn't get it but i make sure to point it out and she plays along and we laugh about it. Get to the cross road again and she splits off, I say wow your not even going to give me a hug. She comes over and we embrace for a bit, she giggles then goes off to do her thing.
Her body was telling me yes, but ultimately I got a no, If i had more time I feel like I could of overcame and came. Just remembered the first time I tried to get her to take her shirt off she said her shirt wasn't coming off yet, so maybe there's hope.
Now even though I didn't get laid, I wasn't butt hurt or even disappointed, I just had fun and tried my best. Anything you guys think I could have done better, or seen anything glaring because i left minor shit out but I can add if you need clarification. I was also wondering how i proceed now, do i send her something tomorrow saying it was fun hanging out or nothing? I ask this because before i had a chick before in a similar situation with me persisting and nothing happening, she texted me the next day asking me if i wanted hook up, fucked that up never saw that girl again, so should i just wait and she if she texts me or do i take the initiative. Lemme know! thanks for reading!