New to bar game

[Seeberman]

I am a daygame fanatic and literally have 0 bar game whatsoever, but due to the fact that there are times when bars seem convenient I am going to give it a try for the first time tonight.

Questions:

Should I bounce around from girl to girl when I strike a solid rapport to "leave on a high-note" like Costanza? I've heard this is a great way to show that you are high-value and keep girls you are interested in very receptive to your advances once you re-engage them, or is this something I should just try to ignore for now in favor of going for quick seductions?

What are some good openers, I generally do not have to much trouble with this or even ask for help with a scripted opener, but I feel as if a bar environment is naturally more flirtatious and competitive, I was thinking just using "How's your night going?" or "I like your outfit" blah blah etc etc.

I could use any advice on bar logistics, I'm thinking of adopting a plan where I ask them to go outside "It's hot in here lets get some fresh air" and then once outside suggesting we go to my car to "grab some money so I can buy drinks" (i'll be sober though just using this to get them to my car)

I feel like my car would be the best place to close and go for the lay, any advice on this? I'm not sure if I should just try to get them in the backseat with my right away, which is more condusive to sex, or do I tell her to sit in the front with me and then suggest moving back or do it once we are physically escalating?

Any tips are appreciated to help me get my bar and club game up.

Thanks in advance.
-Seeberman.

 

[Chase]

Seeberman-

For night game, you've got a couple of options, but I recommend you start with keeping it moving and doing lots of approaches, but be ready to lock in on a girl who's warm and receptive and don't fall prey to moving just for moving's sake. It's easy for newer guys to get in the habit of "social butterflying," and not sticking with girls even when those girls are responding very well to them.

So, keep it moving - but keep an eye out for the girls who like you. Don't plan things too far ahead when it's your first time out - worry about that part, and build up to worry about other aspects (moving, logistics, etc.) once you have a better feel for the layout of the places you're in and the styles of the women there.

Chase

 

[Seeberman]

Thanks for the reply Chase, overall I'd say my first specific try at night game was moderately successful, and I definitely appreciate the advice on taking things slow, especially since it is a completely different environment. I found that the closest and easiest bar scene to me has a bunch of cool and laid-back spots with darts, pool, a pretty open bar and spacing and found that a lot of women actually respond quite well to me.

Points to note and questions:

-I found that alot of pretty girls, even a few that opened me, were with an equally attractive friend, heck, sometimes i even felt that their friend was into me just as much. This confuses me a bit because girls often go out in pairs or groups, and it wouldn't be as big of an issue if i had a good wingman, currently my friends are no better than a tree (working on finding more socially in-tune men to go out with) I'll do all the work opening to girl, building interest, and then I introduce my friend to the girl's friend and he just completely drops the ball, I find that I'm left trying to juggle two women's expectations, and the girl that was originally interested even seems to get pissed that I would botch an easy connection with a lame ass friend.

-If you have time would you mind suggesting a way around this? Or a way I can manage a girl and her friend while still being able to pull the one I want? Or am I hopeless in this scenario without a solid wing man.

-I have strong body-language so I get opened alot by girls, could you recommend a good way to respond or ways to keep them chasing me, i admittedly get a bit excited and dumbfounded at the role-reversal and end up saying something totally lame, which kills the same vibe that got them to do the work to approach me.

-Do i still go for numbers? I don't drink alcohol whatsoever so I am completely sober when I go out, I feel like most girls don't take numbers seriously from a guy at a bar, but should I do it anyway just to get them investing even if I am only attempting a one-night fling?

Once again thanks for the advice on taking things slow and letting the landscape soak in, as I probably was in the mindset of moving girls just to move them which in itself isn't always following the Law of least effort.

Thanks in advance.