- Joined
- Jan 25, 2014
- Messages
- 4
So I'm by no means a beginner in the game but also have the humility to accept that I’m no expert either. I’ve been a fan of improving myself in the way that Chase and a few other posters on this page present themselves, not as lotharios, but as simply trying to be the best man they can be for some time.
I think my perspective is similar to thousands of men out there in that I don’t have too much trouble attracting attention from women, but it’s the attention of the right women I crave. I’m 29 years old and have a good understanding that the next serious relationship I’m involved in could well be my last. By that I mean the woman I’m willing to commit to and spend the rest of my life with, which I’m sure we can all agree with, is a fairly serious prospect. We all want to find that particular girl who makes us want to, and helps us, be the boss we should.
With that in mind I wanted to post on these pages a little social experiment I’m about to undertake. In 3 weeks time I’m going to New York for a week and I wanted to share with all of you my preparation and improvements I’m going to put into practice so that I can have a blast whilst I’m there.
To give you all some background information, I live in London but am going to New York to celebrate my 30th birthday in style with my friends as we all turn 30 this year. What might come as a surprise is that one solitary bloke is going away with 8 women to party big time in NYC. You probably read this and think I’m probably a closet homo or have been friendzoned hard by these chick all this time but I’ve known them all for 16 years and got invited along on this trip and thought “why not?”
So its exactly three weeks to the day that I’m touching down in NYC and plan to use this trip as a bit of practice with women but also to enjoy the delights that America has to offer. For those of you who don’t know, women from America are AWESOME! They’re sexually liberal, forward and plenty of fun! Also many American men (no offense guys…) don’t have the ability to be self-deprecating which I think, humour wise, is a British bloke’s biggest asset out there.
So this post is all about my 3 week prep for a trip to the states where I want to get my head in the mode for being a funny, entertaining and interesting alpha male.
I’ve often read literature by notorious PUA’s such as Neil Strauss (obvs) & Mystery as well as books on NLP, social psychology and hypnotism as a means, not to manipulate, but to be a better man in my day to day life.
So today being day one…. The last few days I’ve read books by Marni Kinrys, Charlie Velntino and Richard la Ruina (Check them all out!). Hit the gym today and the sunbed…I’m all about doing things that make me feel good and give me confidence as it enriches all facets of my life.
Will keep you gens posted over my activities over the next 3 weeks and let you know how it goes in New York!
I think my perspective is similar to thousands of men out there in that I don’t have too much trouble attracting attention from women, but it’s the attention of the right women I crave. I’m 29 years old and have a good understanding that the next serious relationship I’m involved in could well be my last. By that I mean the woman I’m willing to commit to and spend the rest of my life with, which I’m sure we can all agree with, is a fairly serious prospect. We all want to find that particular girl who makes us want to, and helps us, be the boss we should.
With that in mind I wanted to post on these pages a little social experiment I’m about to undertake. In 3 weeks time I’m going to New York for a week and I wanted to share with all of you my preparation and improvements I’m going to put into practice so that I can have a blast whilst I’m there.
To give you all some background information, I live in London but am going to New York to celebrate my 30th birthday in style with my friends as we all turn 30 this year. What might come as a surprise is that one solitary bloke is going away with 8 women to party big time in NYC. You probably read this and think I’m probably a closet homo or have been friendzoned hard by these chick all this time but I’ve known them all for 16 years and got invited along on this trip and thought “why not?”
So its exactly three weeks to the day that I’m touching down in NYC and plan to use this trip as a bit of practice with women but also to enjoy the delights that America has to offer. For those of you who don’t know, women from America are AWESOME! They’re sexually liberal, forward and plenty of fun! Also many American men (no offense guys…) don’t have the ability to be self-deprecating which I think, humour wise, is a British bloke’s biggest asset out there.
So this post is all about my 3 week prep for a trip to the states where I want to get my head in the mode for being a funny, entertaining and interesting alpha male.
I’ve often read literature by notorious PUA’s such as Neil Strauss (obvs) & Mystery as well as books on NLP, social psychology and hypnotism as a means, not to manipulate, but to be a better man in my day to day life.
So today being day one…. The last few days I’ve read books by Marni Kinrys, Charlie Velntino and Richard la Ruina (Check them all out!). Hit the gym today and the sunbed…I’m all about doing things that make me feel good and give me confidence as it enriches all facets of my life.
Will keep you gens posted over my activities over the next 3 weeks and let you know how it goes in New York!
