Newbie Assignment Updated: 4 Additional Days

[Chase]

Howdy gents,

I promised this ages ago, and my apologies it took me as long to get around to it as it has, but I've finally gotten your suggestions in place for a better Newbie Assignment in place. The suggestions are from this thread:

• Hey Fellas: What Do We Need to Add to the Newbie Assignment?

... and I've updated the Newbie Assignment on the Beginner Board here:

• Newbie Assignment

Here's the new section:

Day 6: "Half off" day. It's time for a break from the regimen - but that doesn't mean you get the day completely off! Approaches are still on the table today - but they can be any kinds of approaches you want. You're approaching girls today purely for the heck of it... strike up small talk with women in line, talk to the girl checking you out at the grocery store, chat up the girl waiting in line with you waiting for the bus or the train... you pick the approach. And you can do as many or as few as you like - but DO approach at least ONE (1) girl today.

If you want bonus points - or want to up your learning from today - go out with the express intention of getting rejected three (3) times. Say something ridiculous - ask a girl if she'd like to come home with you immediately after meeting her, or ask her if she thinks Oprah Winfrey is hot. Doesn't matter - just try to get her to blow you out. Why? What this does is it gets you used to rejection - and shows you that even with the hardest rejections, it isn't really all that hard after all.

Day 7: Genuine interest. Before today's exercise, read the following articles:

• How to Compliment a Girl Like You've Know Her for Years (on paying really good and very sincere compliments)
• Book Excerpts: The Direct Opener (how to structure this opener)
• Genuine Interest Dynamite (some good tidbits on making this even more appealing)

The direct or compliment opener may well be the most powerful form of opener out there... and while it probably feels intimidating at first, if you think of it as nothing more than paying a real, genuine compliment to a pretty girl (which is really all it is), it's not really all that huge of a deal.

What makes direct openers so great is that they communicate interest in and approval of a girl right away... no dancing around with her wondering what you're after. Which will make some women be polite but uninterested - they're flattered for the compliment, but you're not their type. And that's fine. Because the women we're interested in are the other women - and those women will be more than pleased to accept your compliment. In fact, you'll find them beaming - and far warmer and far more receptive to you than they would've been had you used something more innocuous.

Follow up your compliment with introducing yourself ("I'm Hank") and holding out your hand immediately, so she doesn't have to fish around for what to say, and after that you can decide if you want to tell her you simply had to pay her that compliment, and bid her adieu, or if you want to stick around a little longer and see if you can get a phone number or more.

Try this with four (4) women today.

Day 8: Sitting down approach. Your exercise today is going to be approaching girls who are sitting down, as discussed in this article: "Approaching Girls Sitting Down." Don't worry about the conversation side of things - all you'll be focused on this go-round is getting the approach in.

You've only got to do two (2) today - I know sometimes it's hard to find girls who are sitting down, and this one can be a bit more intimidating, so we're going to let you off a little easier. But you MUST do those two - whether you want to do two "Sudden Notice" approaches, or two "Sit and Open" approaches, or even one of each, is not important - the only important thing is getting these opens under your belt.

Extra credit: if you're up for a challenge, see if you can get each of these interactions to last 5 minutes before you either ask for a phone number or excuse yourself.

Day 9: On the move. Another specialty day, you're aiming squarely at talking to girls on mass transit today. That's planes, trains, and buses - wherever you find yourself with mass transit, this works. (If you're in a small town with NO mass transit options, you're off the hook for today - you get another half day off as in Day 6, but you MUST still approach at least one (1) new woman - and no getting off the hook if you have mass transit but just don't use it that much - today, you will be using it)

You'll be following the guidelines set forth in "Meeting Women on Buses, Trains, and Airplanes"; it's easiest striking up conversation while waiting to board, with nothing to do... striking up a new conversation on the bus or train (or airplane) is certainly doable, but it's a bit trickier. Ask her if she's going anywhere exciting, and get into a conversation that lasts for at least two (2) minutes - and hopefully more. You must do this with two (2) girls - and if you can't find them, or you miss some chances, you have no choice but to continue riding around the subway or the bus circuit until you've done your pair of approaches.

That's between Day 5: "How's your day going?" and Day 10: "Are you single?"

I've also added a link to nino's Newbie Assignment - our first on the Boards, and an exemplary one, at that - and a little note at the bottom thanking those who contributed their suggestions for making the Assignment better and linking to that thread here in Off Topic.

The only suggestion of those I left out was the "hero" opener Zac proposed, because I couldn't remember what that one was - may well be old age is setting in and senility has me in its icy grasp, and I'm saying things here that I just don't remember talking about anymore. If you can point that one out to me Zac, I'll review it for incorporation in the Assignment too.

Chase

 

[trashKENNUT]

HI Chase,

Nothing major. Here's the link for everyone, https://www.girlschase.com/content/sexy- ... -hot-girls

Chase advocates this, and i support this as well, party because it works so ridiculously well that women, men in trains look at me like one a$$ of a superstar. Of course, letting you all know, don't freak out, Sometimes the reactions might be 3/4 of the cabin looking at you. Something fun for everyone to try, and your body language must probably reach it's average level for this to actually blossom.

That's what i learn,

Zac