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Newbie here. How to handle college logistics?

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Space Monkey
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Greetings all,

I discovered this site about 2 weeks ago, and loved how it aligned with my way of thinking. I've been reading articles pretty non-stop since then and am enthusiastic to start my game as a freshman in college, but I have the apparent obstacle of being in a small to medium sized Christian college.

It seems to me that if I were to approach enough women here and try to set up dates, I would get bad rep.. not to mention a good chance of resistance from the overall conservative vibe here.

Is there any way to proceed, or should I try to approach women back in my town 20 mins away whenever I can get a ride back there?
 

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Space Monkey
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I've decided to proceed as normal. I'll probably only be here for a year anyway. Logistics is settled as I have a parent-less house for a good while and a fairly cheap means to get there.

I'll keep you all updated. =]
 
the right date makes getting her back home a piece of cake

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Space Monkey
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Update: So needless to say if you want to apply the things you've learned from this site then a religious college with high cognitive dissonance to the material taught here is not the best place to be.

I had only went there in a moment of haze while figuring out stuff in life, but now I'm at a college that I actually want to be in. And of course now I am able to more smoothly pickup.

If you happen to get in this situation and still want to go ahead, just be careful that you do not discard the girl right away. I remember an article discussing religious girls saying you may indeed have to stay committed to a deeply religious girl so that you don't tear her world apart. I was not looking for a long-term relationship at the time, so kept that in mind towards the girls interested in me-- as excited and motivated as I was to start pickup.

So figured I'd give an update for anyone curious enough about this or who happens to find themselves in this funny situation. ;)
 

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I wouldn't be dumping girls after sex, I mean if you liked her enough to go for her, then presumably you can still be warm to her if she remains keen and doesn't behave badly? It wouldn't matter if she's religious or not, it's just basic kindness... and if she's angling for relationship well you just have to slow things down I think.
-Ray
 
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