NEXT her, or persist? Also generally speaking, seasoned advice is welcome

[Devilicious]

There is a fine line between persisting and chasing, however, if it's a flirty girl, that line gets erased!

This post is about a girl who kind of qualifies as a flirty girl and an interested, sometimes horny one. Now, as we all know, a girl can't be in both of these categories, either she's a tease or a potential future lay!


As I fall on the inexperienced side of the spectrum, I do not yet know how to accurately differentiate them all the time, which is why I'm hoping on the advice of someone who's been there and done that already, to speed up my learning curve.


So let's get to it:

The girl in question started off chasing me. She got my phone number from god knows where, and since then we met 3 times. However, during each meet, she wouldn't let me close. I'd get shut down relentlessly, without exception. That I kind of blame on myself, as I wasn't dominant enough (as I concluded when I sat down to analyse what I had done wrong).
I'd like to add that we both are rather young, at an age where having sex isn't that much of a topic (!, but I make it one ), and we still have the occasional sexually charged text convo, where she admits of having a dark and kinky side.

I'd rather have these conversations in person, but it has been a while since we last met, and btw since then I have internalised a few very useful mindsets, such as:
-All girls loooove sex, they crave it in fact
-(working on it she wants me so bad that she's trying to get in my pants, and I'll let her if she meets my standards and expectations.. Swinggcat anybody?
-I am a dominant, sexy, and discreet lover


So the thing is, over text she wants to rip my clothes off (somewhat), but when we meet that isn't really present. So what the question of this rather unorganized and scrambled post is, should I next her completely (3 meets, no results), or should I try to get another meet?


I would also like to know if you could give me some pointers between flirty girls and actual interested girls




Thanks in advance, I look forwards to reading your responses


P.S. I kind of nexted her half a year ago, but her interest would sporadically reappear? Hmm

 

[Smith]

Anthrax,

I think she's shy since you're both young, so when you guys meet. You have to be responsible in making her comfortable for things to move forward. Inexperienced girls usually need you to be able to move things forward smoothly or they freak out. You probably need to rinse and repeat your escalation a lot of times until she's used to it. It's up to you if you want to NEXT her or not. Is she worth the effort? Set a deadline, e.g. If nothing happens after the 5th meet, I'll next her.