NEXTING, Chasing and Persistence

[Paulie Walnuts]

Hey everyone!

So I'm still having trouble distinguishing between chasing and persistence, typically my rules are: two unanswered texts with a day of radio silence in between = a next, as well as obviously disrespectful behavior and other stuff like that.

However what do you guys do when the girl DOES reply and says she wants to see you, (this has happened multiple times) but when a date is suggested there is no response, now I know persistence pays off but that just makes me feel like I'm chasing so I just don't.

That's probably the right move yeah? As we say if a girl likes you and is into you she's not going to make it hard for you to get together, plus it'll happen pretty fast.

 

[Seppuku]

However what do you guys do when the girl DOES reply and says she wants to see you, (this has happened multiple times) but when a date is suggested there is no response, now I know persistence pays off but that just makes me feel like I'm chasing so I just don't.

Usually girls do that when they want to put you in chasing mode. If you give in to her chase frame, you're done. As soon as you detect she's trying to do that, you slow down. See other girls. And once in a while, you bait her. Like, mentioning about a very nice place to hang out, without actually inviting her to hang out with her. Or, sending her a picture of you hanging out in such a nice place.

The bear is in the cave, you put a nice piece of meat in front of the cave, and you wait. Repeat as often as necessary, but again, have other girls on the side, do not count too much on it, and give it more time. If the bear gets out of the cave and goes for the meat, (i.e. she seems to bait in, and starts chasing a bit) you give it another try.

Better to lose the girl than to lose your frame.

Cheers,
Seppuku

 

[Paulie Walnuts]

Brilliant advice, thanks Seppuku! I will start applying this immediately.

It's going to help a lot!