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Space Monkey
space monkey
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Still recovering from 3 shots of tequila and a beer. Me and my friend went out to the club.

I feel very comfortable complimenting girls on their clothes, a way to warm up. One of the workers, at the club, brought us another round of shots. I asked her name and complimented her on her looks I could already see that she is used to this and end it there. The girl in green and her friend with a pink layered top complimented both on separate occasions. Then I bumped into a birthday girl, 24 yrs, another green dress, cutting off at the thighs goddamn! those thighs. Introduced myself quick banter and left, ugh I know. Don't really know how to take from here however later that night I saw her dancing with a guy who I asked if he was dating her to which he said yes. I think I should've asked the girl instead.

Now I meet this girl named Pharrah. She was in a tight white dress, cute butt. They started to play EDM, a little unusual for this club but hey everyone was getting in on it. I went up to her telling her to get ready to jump because the beat was about to drop. Just asking her about the music, got her arm around me. Asked if she had been to Ultra? She said no. I said she should attend some time its fucking amazing. The beat drops and we are jumping up and down. I know she was with the group but it didn't occur to me to find the "alpha female" if that was what I was suppose to do. Because this girl just came from the side and moved in between her and another friend to the side. I take it I didn't know how else to "escalate", i really don't know what else to say. At this point I"m pretty much pushed out. I know I lost so I tap the cockblocker on her shoulder and say have a good night to both of them. First few tries she says "go away" or "you can go away" but w/e. At the end of the club I tried to ask for the number cause fuck it, naturally she just smiled and continued to leave. An honest smile and gesture not feeling certain about me and just leaving it at that then again I was wearing a shirt with a girl in a bikini that read from "friend zone to end zone" simply cause I didn't care.

On the way back home I was frustrated that I didn't know what to do in those situations even though I've read the articles, guess I gotta practice some more. Me and my friend on the way home and at home discussed about getting chicks. I never told him about girls chase but that it seems to make sense about going up to a woman and showing interest. That the club is more of a one night stand, take her home kind of game. He of course didn't believe me though I held firm in what I've read that he was incorrect about certain things. Thinking that just walking up to girls is weird and such things should happen "organically". Knowing his girlfriend may be awake listening to the conversation I kept thoughts about "you making opportunities rather than letting things happen organically" rush through my head.

Very new to all this when it comes to "Game". If you guys have any questions please ask away. I wanna level up. After that discussion/argument arrrrgggh I wanna proof him wrong!
 

P.a.p

Tool-Bearing Hominid
Tool-Bearing Hominid
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Don’t complement, it doesn’t work well on hot girls.
 

Fuck This

Cro-Magnon Man
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I think Night clubs are purely a numbers game. If it is a dance club, then you have to bring the value of being a good dancer in sync with the woman. You have to plant the seed of interest with a number of women throughout the night, and "warm up". If you can dance with a number of girls in the same group, it makes you a little more friendly and might allow you the opportuity to lead once you figure out the hierarchy of the group. This initial dancing is pretty tame where you aren't escalating until you figure out who is returning the interest. The key here is to make each of the girls in the group enjoy your company and not be defensive. If you isolate one too early in the night, then the "safe sister " is gonna intervene. If you can befriend the group, then relocate to somewhere after the club as a group you can then get a number, and move on to date #2 for the progression.
 
the right date makes getting her back home a piece of cake

Casanova

Space Monkey
space monkey
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Oh no, I agree Mr. Fuck. A lot of variables to juggle but hey I love the music and everyone having a good time. Even the guy who I ran into after talking to the b-day girl, just shook his hand, told him to have a nice night, get smashed. Yea the girl, Pharrah, was pretty away from the group. mmm how do I put it.

I think she was alone on the left side of the table whereas her girlfriends and male friend? Boyfriend? were on the far right side of the table.
Decent sized table but you're right I just lost myself in the music kept dancing and didn't escalate as you said that's when the other girl came in between us.
Simply cause I don't know what to do.
Thinking about questions I should have asked. Are you a party girl or just like to unwind tonight? ...mmm but thanks again!
 
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