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Believe it or not, I have never actually attempted night game. That's not to say I've never gotten a relationship out of an evening social event; I have, several times, but it happened coincidentally: I did not go out intending to approach.
I have 3 questions:
(1) Once a man is well-versed in day game and able to approach regularly and spontaneously, without any anxiety, and progress the interaction each time, does night game become less intimidating? Or is it a whole new skill set to learn? I think it's the social, upbeat, nonsexual atmosphere of most night venues that causes me worry.
(2) Am I correct in thinking that the default assumption of a girl approached in day game will be that the man wants a serious relationship, unless he makes efforts to specify otherwise; while in night game the assumption will be that he is looking for a casual hookup? Is that a possible advantage of night game if casual relations are my intention?
(3) What is the advantage of night game, if any? I can think of many disadvantages: the competition, the social pressure from others eavesdropping, the noise causing difficulty continuing the conversation, the high-energy and unromantic vibe of the venue. Is the advantage just the casual hookup presumption in (2) above?
Thanks
-Marty
I have 3 questions:
(1) Once a man is well-versed in day game and able to approach regularly and spontaneously, without any anxiety, and progress the interaction each time, does night game become less intimidating? Or is it a whole new skill set to learn? I think it's the social, upbeat, nonsexual atmosphere of most night venues that causes me worry.
(2) Am I correct in thinking that the default assumption of a girl approached in day game will be that the man wants a serious relationship, unless he makes efforts to specify otherwise; while in night game the assumption will be that he is looking for a casual hookup? Is that a possible advantage of night game if casual relations are my intention?
(3) What is the advantage of night game, if any? I can think of many disadvantages: the competition, the social pressure from others eavesdropping, the noise causing difficulty continuing the conversation, the high-energy and unromantic vibe of the venue. Is the advantage just the casual hookup presumption in (2) above?
Thanks
-Marty