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This one wasn't anticipated at all.
Background
After a lecture a classmate suggested a drink. I agreed and told them I will lead them to a bar (I know the most bars around here). It was me, one guy and one girl. This guy is a conservative saving himself for marriage but a likable, interesting dude with a sense of style and the girl is your typical girl next door (not my type, but fun company). Also worth noting that I had a light migraine at that time. To soothe that I decided to drink. Usually I get some sleep when I get them, but today I was just annoyed by the fact and decided to ignore it.
We come to the bar and drink some beers and shots. I already saw that this night is not going to end just with one beer for me. It's 18.30 now.
By the way, I'm dressed like a hipster today, white tee, white over shirt, black coat, black beanie, black jeans and white sneakers.
We talk, have a good time, then the girl decides to leave to get sleep, it's round 21.00. When she does I turn to the guy and ask him if he wants to meet some girls. He excitedly agrees haha. I told him one time how I meet girls during the day and he didn't believe me so it was time to prove him.
1st set
When we were talking I noticed a table beside us, 2 set of girls, with one I caught eyes briefly. I go to order myself another beer, chat with a girl behind a bar and fired up by this momentum approach the 2 set walking back. I don't remember exactly what I said but I think it was fairly direct. Something in the line of I saw you looking at me and I had to say hi or something like that.
Talked to them for a few moments then said I'm with a friend and asked if we can join their table. They agreed.
Nothing special going on in this set, I made use of cocky humor, had to switch seats at one point to get closer to my girl, did some light kino and once I saw that they're not in a mood and going home shortly decided to take the girls ig. She didn't follow me back yet, but we'll see.
One thing I forgot to mention, during the day I was texting with one daygame lead and was just about to throw the ball in her court and back off as she said that they're going to be at xy queer place and that I can come. I wasn't so intrigued but I had my conservative friend and we wanted to continue partying so I took the opportunity.
Daygame lead, cold approach - social circle mix
We just went. If they're going to be there great if not who cares. They were, in front of the bar.
At first the girl introduced us to everyone and from there we kinda split into separate groups. There were around 15 people. I went with one group who had the chick I liked the most (not my daygame lead). We started walking to another bar that was still open (this one was closing). The groups got further and further separated until we lost each other and there I was with this small group of the girl I liked, another girl and one guy (looked gay). I remember at one point I was trying to tease the girl but came off as uncalibrated and rude. The vibe went downhill from there and later I got bored with them and went looking for the group the day game girl I was with was in.
On my way I also approached a 3 set of girls sitting in front of one bar and one of them turns out to be my nationality. Talked a few minutes, sat with them, but when I realized I have to game them from the start I decided to rather go to my group.
I found them in a club. From there on I was mostly talking to my daygame lead. Here I started thinking actual game.
Tonights target
I decided to move her away from the group just for 2m ''so we can hear each other better''. Then I took her hand and spinned her to see her compliance and start building a ladder. The conversation was mostly on her, like a very shallow deep dive. She mentioned she was in a relationship 3 weeks ago, but broke it off. That was exactly the time I got her contact info.
Background on this, I did a super fast approach in a groceries and got her and her friends ig. From there we texted regullary but couldn't get them out.
Then half of the group with us included went to another room dancing. The dj was playing rock music and I thank him very much for this. I suck at dancing, but I dance great to rock. Imagine a Mick Jagger type of dance... I DHV'd myself with dancing, I was leading the whole group with my moves.
Then took my girls hand, danced with her and slowed down the pace. Getting more sensual and slower at one point I just put my arms around her head, got closer and we kissed. Then continued dancing with her and then switched to the whole group.
Shortly after her friend said that they need to get home. Took the girl, I barely had a chance to say goodbye to her, maybe came off a bit needy then, don't know...
My hypothesis are the following: this friend is the friend I got contacts from, I daygamed them both, was texting with her also. Maybe she got jealous? The other plausibility is she was protective of her for whatever reason. Maybe she didn't break off completely with her boyfriend but was just telling me. Or I came off as too much of a player. Who knows?
Aftermath
I kept dancing with remaining girls then they decided to go to another dancefloor. I realized I'm drunk at this point.
We get to another dancefloor and they're playing shit like apple bottom jeans again and I hate this kind of music so I can't dance good to it... Just pretend, but I'm sure it looks lame.
The funny thing is, another friend of them appears and shes HAWT, damn that ass.... She starts grinding on me at one point but I fuck it up.
Here I can't even say what I did wrong. I'm a complete beginner at this kind of commercial dancefloor game and I was probably too drunk to notice details going on.
I get annoyed by the music and go to the smoking area with one girl from the group. There I decide I actually had enough and head home.
Next day
I'm hungover the next day and am texting my conservative friend. He was with the other part of the group of girl we were with. He says that one girl told the other girls (that group) that I've kissed my girl . Don't know how... I should ask him with what undertone she told that to the group. But at the same time I don't care, I don't feel like getting involved into some social circles drama that's even not my own. Oh the beauty of cold approach!
The other strategy I have in mind is just continuing the texting with this girl and see her temperature from there. Would be nice if I could smash her.
But that's it guys, sorry for the all over the place writing style, but that's kind of what the night was.
DG
Background
After a lecture a classmate suggested a drink. I agreed and told them I will lead them to a bar (I know the most bars around here). It was me, one guy and one girl. This guy is a conservative saving himself for marriage but a likable, interesting dude with a sense of style and the girl is your typical girl next door (not my type, but fun company). Also worth noting that I had a light migraine at that time. To soothe that I decided to drink. Usually I get some sleep when I get them, but today I was just annoyed by the fact and decided to ignore it.
We come to the bar and drink some beers and shots. I already saw that this night is not going to end just with one beer for me. It's 18.30 now.
By the way, I'm dressed like a hipster today, white tee, white over shirt, black coat, black beanie, black jeans and white sneakers.
We talk, have a good time, then the girl decides to leave to get sleep, it's round 21.00. When she does I turn to the guy and ask him if he wants to meet some girls. He excitedly agrees haha. I told him one time how I meet girls during the day and he didn't believe me so it was time to prove him.
1st set
When we were talking I noticed a table beside us, 2 set of girls, with one I caught eyes briefly. I go to order myself another beer, chat with a girl behind a bar and fired up by this momentum approach the 2 set walking back. I don't remember exactly what I said but I think it was fairly direct. Something in the line of I saw you looking at me and I had to say hi or something like that.
Talked to them for a few moments then said I'm with a friend and asked if we can join their table. They agreed.
Nothing special going on in this set, I made use of cocky humor, had to switch seats at one point to get closer to my girl, did some light kino and once I saw that they're not in a mood and going home shortly decided to take the girls ig. She didn't follow me back yet, but we'll see.
One thing I forgot to mention, during the day I was texting with one daygame lead and was just about to throw the ball in her court and back off as she said that they're going to be at xy queer place and that I can come. I wasn't so intrigued but I had my conservative friend and we wanted to continue partying so I took the opportunity.
Daygame lead, cold approach - social circle mix
We just went. If they're going to be there great if not who cares. They were, in front of the bar.
At first the girl introduced us to everyone and from there we kinda split into separate groups. There were around 15 people. I went with one group who had the chick I liked the most (not my daygame lead). We started walking to another bar that was still open (this one was closing). The groups got further and further separated until we lost each other and there I was with this small group of the girl I liked, another girl and one guy (looked gay). I remember at one point I was trying to tease the girl but came off as uncalibrated and rude. The vibe went downhill from there and later I got bored with them and went looking for the group the day game girl I was with was in.
On my way I also approached a 3 set of girls sitting in front of one bar and one of them turns out to be my nationality. Talked a few minutes, sat with them, but when I realized I have to game them from the start I decided to rather go to my group.
I found them in a club. From there on I was mostly talking to my daygame lead. Here I started thinking actual game.
Tonights target
I decided to move her away from the group just for 2m ''so we can hear each other better''. Then I took her hand and spinned her to see her compliance and start building a ladder. The conversation was mostly on her, like a very shallow deep dive. She mentioned she was in a relationship 3 weeks ago, but broke it off. That was exactly the time I got her contact info.
Background on this, I did a super fast approach in a groceries and got her and her friends ig. From there we texted regullary but couldn't get them out.
Then half of the group with us included went to another room dancing. The dj was playing rock music and I thank him very much for this. I suck at dancing, but I dance great to rock. Imagine a Mick Jagger type of dance... I DHV'd myself with dancing, I was leading the whole group with my moves.
Then took my girls hand, danced with her and slowed down the pace. Getting more sensual and slower at one point I just put my arms around her head, got closer and we kissed. Then continued dancing with her and then switched to the whole group.
Shortly after her friend said that they need to get home. Took the girl, I barely had a chance to say goodbye to her, maybe came off a bit needy then, don't know...
My hypothesis are the following: this friend is the friend I got contacts from, I daygamed them both, was texting with her also. Maybe she got jealous? The other plausibility is she was protective of her for whatever reason. Maybe she didn't break off completely with her boyfriend but was just telling me. Or I came off as too much of a player. Who knows?
Aftermath
I kept dancing with remaining girls then they decided to go to another dancefloor. I realized I'm drunk at this point.
We get to another dancefloor and they're playing shit like apple bottom jeans again and I hate this kind of music so I can't dance good to it... Just pretend, but I'm sure it looks lame.
The funny thing is, another friend of them appears and shes HAWT, damn that ass.... She starts grinding on me at one point but I fuck it up.
Here I can't even say what I did wrong. I'm a complete beginner at this kind of commercial dancefloor game and I was probably too drunk to notice details going on.
I get annoyed by the music and go to the smoking area with one girl from the group. There I decide I actually had enough and head home.
Next day
I'm hungover the next day and am texting my conservative friend. He was with the other part of the group of girl we were with. He says that one girl told the other girls (that group) that I've kissed my girl . Don't know how... I should ask him with what undertone she told that to the group. But at the same time I don't care, I don't feel like getting involved into some social circles drama that's even not my own. Oh the beauty of cold approach!
The other strategy I have in mind is just continuing the texting with this girl and see her temperature from there. Would be nice if I could smash her.
But that's it guys, sorry for the all over the place writing style, but that's kind of what the night was.
DG
