What up everyone!
Basically I have been using a journal to track my seduction skill in Africa since here on vacation. You can look at just the fewest here: viewtopic.php?f=15&t=9825
Tonight was similar. Being that I have discovered the hot spots for picking up and the.best time when the girls are open, the set up is much clearer than ever.
Approach #1
a few minutes of warm up let me run through a bunch of people in the street. Mostly girls but a mix of them both. The openness to me and even response to my quick sidetalk boosted my morale enough while pacing just around my accommodation area. Feeling ready, I get on a bike to the neat spots.
At this place there's this wearing a short red skirt and flapping her phone as she looks at the screen. Since she's on the opposite side, I cross to meet her and walk up to her just under the street light. As she stops to cross (obviously because I was the only person behind her) I deliberately slow down, pass her a bit and almost over my shoulder say:
"You seemed like you were lost. I saw you from across there. You know your way around right?
Cool point was the opener I used. Had never thought of that before for use as an opener. I figured I would try using it some more as well as the conversation outlines given on GC.
#2 Appraoach
Just after a few steps, I look across and see this figure walking up a hill. Hmm, let's talk to em. When I get closer, I see muscles and Chest! Ah it's a dude. So I merely banter with him abit and my eyes are sidelooking at this chick nearby. (It's a hot spot indeed. They're everywhere!). When I think I can get a good lock on the girl, I stop the interaction and turn towards her. Since she is coming IB the opposite direction I open my mouth to give an opener and see her raise her phone to her ears like a motion to receive a call...but it's just bullshit so j call her out instead and swallow the opener.
#3 Approach.
Not too far off, I notice a new street and it's not the new look that gets my attention like the figure in three quarter shorts walking up it and swaying her hips like she's dancing...and she really was dancing.
I walk towards her and see another cute girl coMing down the hill. Wow!.instant decision and I let the second girl pass me but I can see her look at me out the corner of my eye. Sorry, following LLE-maybe next time.
okay, i am side by side with this babe and sûre enough, she was listening to some songs.
#4 Approach
Then I got a transport to the nearest shop. While there I walked by this girl and just hollered but she did not reply. Then she walked away. I Waited and sort of knew that I should look at her. She stopped, walked back towards me and when she was within earshot, I dropped my opener and she smiled coyly and said she is about to buy something that I should cross the street with her.
I crossed and commanded her to cross too.
Me: what do you do in this town? School,work or business?
She: Nothing. *we stop at the shop*
*she looks at me so I assume the body language to be that she still wants me to talk to her but she enters the shop and I wait* I WILL BREAK THIS DOWN A BIT.below
about two minutes and she's done and comes out to see me moving to a song beat playing nearby. She stops and I walk nearer to her and begin saying:
Me: my friend told me there are some good places to go to on a Thursday evening. You know any? This street is too quiet and all.
She: yeah there are closing now. You can go to [place A or place B] *.holding her phone close to her chest*
Me: save my number. Then I take her phone which she had handed to me. I flash myself with her phone and tell her we should see tomorrow. She says ok. I find out some things about logistics and her response is vague. This gets me thinking if I could pull her home. Then I challenge her:
"Dont you have drinks at yours?"
She smiles and says goodbye to me. Still didn't get the hint.
I get on transport and call her immediately. She picks and I tell her I'm bored so we should chill tonight.
she says she's on transport and will call me when she gets home .
she calls!
I call back and hear a baby crying in the background. Now here's the explanation:
Most girls in my experience who give vague answers about drinks or food at theirs often do so when logistics is bad for BOTH OF US. I once pushed to know the discrete meaning of her evasive, (as I thought), responses and she looked at me, rolled her eyes and told me her place just was not good. Her uncle is around. This made me to easily avoid the same mistake because with those other persons, the spell got broken immediately.
Anyways, we talked and we have a date for tomorrow.
Points from today!
Don't give up...keep approaching.
Stay calm and be prepared for surprises.
Ask as few qns as possible at the onset. Then talk a bit and handle logistics early to weed out the bad leads.
Till next time.
Enjoy.
Basically I have been using a journal to track my seduction skill in Africa since here on vacation. You can look at just the fewest here: viewtopic.php?f=15&t=9825
Tonight was similar. Being that I have discovered the hot spots for picking up and the.best time when the girls are open, the set up is much clearer than ever.
Approach #1
a few minutes of warm up let me run through a bunch of people in the street. Mostly girls but a mix of them both. The openness to me and even response to my quick sidetalk boosted my morale enough while pacing just around my accommodation area. Feeling ready, I get on a bike to the neat spots.
At this place there's this wearing a short red skirt and flapping her phone as she looks at the screen. Since she's on the opposite side, I cross to meet her and walk up to her just under the street light. As she stops to cross (obviously because I was the only person behind her) I deliberately slow down, pass her a bit and almost over my shoulder say:
"You seemed like you were lost. I saw you from across there. You know your way around right?
Cool point was the opener I used. Had never thought of that before for use as an opener. I figured I would try using it some more as well as the conversation outlines given on GC.
#2 Appraoach
Just after a few steps, I look across and see this figure walking up a hill. Hmm, let's talk to em. When I get closer, I see muscles and Chest! Ah it's a dude. So I merely banter with him abit and my eyes are sidelooking at this chick nearby. (It's a hot spot indeed. They're everywhere!). When I think I can get a good lock on the girl, I stop the interaction and turn towards her. Since she is coming IB the opposite direction I open my mouth to give an opener and see her raise her phone to her ears like a motion to receive a call...but it's just bullshit so j call her out instead and swallow the opener.
#3 Approach.
Not too far off, I notice a new street and it's not the new look that gets my attention like the figure in three quarter shorts walking up it and swaying her hips like she's dancing...and she really was dancing.
I walk towards her and see another cute girl coMing down the hill. Wow!.instant decision and I let the second girl pass me but I can see her look at me out the corner of my eye. Sorry, following LLE-maybe next time.
okay, i am side by side with this babe and sûre enough, she was listening to some songs.
I gradually walk away and see if she reengagez. By the time I look back, she's miles behind me and i am about to talk to the next babe.
#4 Approach
Then I got a transport to the nearest shop. While there I walked by this girl and just hollered but she did not reply. Then she walked away. I Waited and sort of knew that I should look at her. She stopped, walked back towards me and when she was within earshot, I dropped my opener and she smiled coyly and said she is about to buy something that I should cross the street with her.
I crossed and commanded her to cross too.
Me: what do you do in this town? School,work or business?
She: Nothing. *we stop at the shop*
*she looks at me so I assume the body language to be that she still wants me to talk to her but she enters the shop and I wait* I WILL BREAK THIS DOWN A BIT.below
about two minutes and she's done and comes out to see me moving to a song beat playing nearby. She stops and I walk nearer to her and begin saying:
Me: my friend told me there are some good places to go to on a Thursday evening. You know any? This street is too quiet and all.
She: yeah there are closing now. You can go to [place A or place B] *.holding her phone close to her chest*
Me: save my number. Then I take her phone which she had handed to me. I flash myself with her phone and tell her we should see tomorrow. She says ok. I find out some things about logistics and her response is vague. This gets me thinking if I could pull her home. Then I challenge her:
"Dont you have drinks at yours?"
She smiles and says goodbye to me. Still didn't get the hint.
I get on transport and call her immediately. She picks and I tell her I'm bored so we should chill tonight.
she says she's on transport and will call me when she gets home .
she calls!
I call back and hear a baby crying in the background. Now here's the explanation:
Most girls in my experience who give vague answers about drinks or food at theirs often do so when logistics is bad for BOTH OF US. I once pushed to know the discrete meaning of her evasive, (as I thought), responses and she looked at me, rolled her eyes and told me her place just was not good. Her uncle is around. This made me to easily avoid the same mistake because with those other persons, the spell got broken immediately.
Anyways, we talked and we have a date for tomorrow.
Points from today!
Don't give up...keep approaching.
Stay calm and be prepared for surprises.
Ask as few qns as possible at the onset. Then talk a bit and handle logistics early to weed out the bad leads.
Till next time.
Enjoy.
