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For some reason part of this post was posted earlier and I didn't know. So ignore that last post. And if possible could one of the moderators delete it as it's useless. Onward with the full field report.
Hey guys, it's been a while since I posted on here but I haven't been out of seduction entirely. I'm still trying to learn but I know that my progress will be stunted if I don't write field reports even if I don't post them. This one I wanted to share because it happened just a couple hours ago and shows what staying the course can do on what was a bad night. This will be a long post as I want to recall all possible details. But anyway, here we go:
My friend who I would usually go out with has recently started doing something called "monk mode" and one key aspect of that is not going out to clubs and things of that nature. So temporarily I've lost my usual wingman and have had to do night game solo (something I struggle with). However, as not one to bitch out from something like this, I decide to hit this college bar after a shitty day at work. I don't go to the local college so I don't really expect to know anybody there. However, I see a friend from high school and we catch up a bit. This was good as I feel it got me into state a bit. Anyway, he's with some other friends so I leave and walk around the rest of the bar. I mingle a bit and I'm honestly in my head quite a bit--feeling like everybody's in a clique that I'm just not a part of. There were a couple sets that I definitely, definitely could have opened. However, I didn't.
I then move onto the dance floor and just observe for a bit. This is where I spot her. She's with her friend.
She is definitely dressed to impress. She's wearing jeans that perfectly accentuate her ass and a black fancy crop top that perfectly shows off her nicely set pair of tits. She's with her friend who is not as attractive but I would find out later is a pretty chill person for the most part. I knew immediately I wanted to talk to my girl (who I'll refer to as Sydney) but I wouldn't do so until much later. I go about the night and honestly nothing else really happened. I simply didn't make much attempts which was disappointing to myself. I just could never find the "right" moment to open or to become part of a group. Which is stupid cause there never is a "right" moment. You just have to take it. And I never did. Well, at least not until later.
Fast forward and the night's about to end. They've turned on the lights and are ushering everybody out. People are carrying the people who did not know their limits out and it's all in all just a ruckus. I thought about bouncing but decide to stay in case there are any stragglers. I'm sitting in the front area of the bar where people are still allowed temporarily and lo and behold Sydney and her friend are sitting right in front of me facing my direction. They're discussing where to eat which was honestly hilarious:
I have a car so I offer to just give them a ride and Maddie says stupidly (shit test I assume)
My car was really really messy so they help me clean it a bit. We get in the car and I start talking to Maddie about her major which is business and try to deep dive a bit on that. Then Sydney joins and says she's a film major. I do acting on the side so this is really interesting to me and we bond a bit over that. We get to the place and we sit in a booth and I make sure to sit next to my girl.
Now we have some nice conversation. I made sure to never fully turn my body to my girl next to me and kept the amount of conversation relatively equal with the amount of time I spend on each girl. At this point I'm really wondering how to turn this into more of a flirty vibe because I knew friendzone could be on the horizon.
It seems my girl was thinking the same thing cause she gives me the perfect opening by asking:
I immediately pounce and go direct, maybe even too direct:
And another time (and I honestly don't know how it happened) but we were talking about sharing fries and they ended up being a metaphor for sex and I was like "You gotta work to get these fries from me. I don't give it out easily" and she said something like "I think I could get some fries".
The night continues and we talk about our childhoods. Sydney grew up pretty poor where there was a fair amount of gang violence. I grew up in the suburbs. And Maddie grew up on a ranch and actually rode horses and shit (I would joke and call her "Hannah Montana" and say she probably has a double life too)
We talked about other stuff but nothing notable happened until when we were winding down Maddie announces:
I held out my hand and she immediately clasped it. And I pulled her into me:
I pay for my share. And I drive them back to their sorority house. I hug Sydney (who both times sat on the driver's side immediately) and sort of dap up Maddie because she was in the back. And the night ends with:
Lesson learned from this is just keep going and you might get something that looks promising. All it takes is one open person.
Hey guys, it's been a while since I posted on here but I haven't been out of seduction entirely. I'm still trying to learn but I know that my progress will be stunted if I don't write field reports even if I don't post them. This one I wanted to share because it happened just a couple hours ago and shows what staying the course can do on what was a bad night. This will be a long post as I want to recall all possible details. But anyway, here we go:
My friend who I would usually go out with has recently started doing something called "monk mode" and one key aspect of that is not going out to clubs and things of that nature. So temporarily I've lost my usual wingman and have had to do night game solo (something I struggle with). However, as not one to bitch out from something like this, I decide to hit this college bar after a shitty day at work. I don't go to the local college so I don't really expect to know anybody there. However, I see a friend from high school and we catch up a bit. This was good as I feel it got me into state a bit. Anyway, he's with some other friends so I leave and walk around the rest of the bar. I mingle a bit and I'm honestly in my head quite a bit--feeling like everybody's in a clique that I'm just not a part of. There were a couple sets that I definitely, definitely could have opened. However, I didn't.
I then move onto the dance floor and just observe for a bit. This is where I spot her. She's with her friend.
She is definitely dressed to impress. She's wearing jeans that perfectly accentuate her ass and a black fancy crop top that perfectly shows off her nicely set pair of tits. She's with her friend who is not as attractive but I would find out later is a pretty chill person for the most part. I knew immediately I wanted to talk to my girl (who I'll refer to as Sydney) but I wouldn't do so until much later. I go about the night and honestly nothing else really happened. I simply didn't make much attempts which was disappointing to myself. I just could never find the "right" moment to open or to become part of a group. Which is stupid cause there never is a "right" moment. You just have to take it. And I never did. Well, at least not until later.
Fast forward and the night's about to end. They've turned on the lights and are ushering everybody out. People are carrying the people who did not know their limits out and it's all in all just a ruckus. I thought about bouncing but decide to stay in case there are any stragglers. I'm sitting in the front area of the bar where people are still allowed temporarily and lo and behold Sydney and her friend are sitting right in front of me facing my direction. They're discussing where to eat which was honestly hilarious:
And I look up from my phone just chuckling and say
I forgot which one but one of them asks me if I'm hungry which I immediately recognize as an opportunity. And I would take advantage.
Sydney's friend (I'll call Maddie) asks
They most definitely saw me in the club by myself so I knew I needed to have no shame that I was in fact by myself. So I just say with pride:
Sydney raises her hand for a high five and says
And I agree. They then ask for my star sign and I refuse to give a straight answer. And I realize how key keeping mystery is when it comes to seduction. They were trying hard to get it and I wasn't budging.
I have a car so I offer to just give them a ride and Maddie says stupidly (shit test I assume)
And we're heading out of there. It was so crazy walking past the rest of the people. A lot of them were looking at me like "How the hell he leaving with those two bitches?" And I can't blame them. I might have looked like a lame in the club. But hey, it is what it is.
My car was really really messy so they help me clean it a bit. We get in the car and I start talking to Maddie about her major which is business and try to deep dive a bit on that. Then Sydney joins and says she's a film major. I do acting on the side so this is really interesting to me and we bond a bit over that. We get to the place and we sit in a booth and I make sure to sit next to my girl.
Now we have some nice conversation. I made sure to never fully turn my body to my girl next to me and kept the amount of conversation relatively equal with the amount of time I spend on each girl. At this point I'm really wondering how to turn this into more of a flirty vibe because I knew friendzone could be on the horizon.
It seems my girl was thinking the same thing cause she gives me the perfect opening by asking:
I mean I don't think I could have asked for a better opening. On God Almighty Himself. And I ain't even religious.
I immediately pounce and go direct, maybe even too direct:
And then we continue on with that for a bit and I find out she's been talking to them for two months--and is occasionally fucking one but isn't sure where the "relationship" is going. And I continue to create chase frames because she asked the question saying that I may be able to fit her into my love life but she has to earn it. And she doesn't really reject the frame. The convo goes like this and then suddenly my girl and I start going heavy on the innuendos:
It's worth noting throughout all this that Sydney would occasionally rest her head on my shoulder when she was laughing at what I said. And her body language was slightly turned toward me despite sitting front facing on the booth.
And another time (and I honestly don't know how it happened) but we were talking about sharing fries and they ended up being a metaphor for sex and I was like "You gotta work to get these fries from me. I don't give it out easily" and she said something like "I think I could get some fries".
The night continues and we talk about our childhoods. Sydney grew up pretty poor where there was a fair amount of gang violence. I grew up in the suburbs. And Maddie grew up on a ranch and actually rode horses and shit (I would joke and call her "Hannah Montana" and say she probably has a double life too)
We talked about other stuff but nothing notable happened until when we were winding down Maddie announces:
Now either Maddie really had to go to the bathroom. Or she finally trust me to be alone with her friend (and my intentions were obvious at that point). Or Sydney unbeknownst to me wanted Maddie to leave the two of us alone for a bit and signaled her to do so. (The "I love you Maddie" makes me think that's an option.) But regardless I knew I finally had a chance to ramp up the action for however long Maddie would be gone. And I immediately did.
I held out my hand and she immediately clasped it. And I pulled her into me:
I make sure that I pull away first. She then drops a pitiful shit test that I handle pretty well:
She then asks me for my sign again and I once again refuse to tell her. Then she asks me for my birthday. Which can tell her the sign. And I don't give her that either. It's hilarious how badly she wants to know. So I then tell her to guess and of course she guesses wrong (never told her) which just goes to show horoscopes are utter bullshit.
Eventually I suggest:
While I'm putting my number in and all that Maddie comes back and things I don't quite understand happen.
After that we decide that we're all done. And we get up to go pay. I agree to take them home after Maddie kinda begs with puppy dog eyes. But first I have to use the bathroom. When I get out something else that might be nothing but was interesting nonetheless happens:
There's a light hearted back and forth over this between Maddie and I, with Sydney just observing. Eventually, we settle on calling her my "Best Acquaintance".
I pay for my share. And I drive them back to their sorority house. I hug Sydney (who both times sat on the driver's side immediately) and sort of dap up Maddie because she was in the back. And the night ends with:
I drive home and debate on whether to text Sydney I made it home and decide to do it as I thought that was a nice gesture. So I simply send the text:
It's now noon the next day so tips on how to proceed would be helpful. Is it possible the friend was cock blocking a bit toward the end? But then I don't understand why she would leave us alone for a bit. Also, if I could have taken it further with her, what would have been the best play? I'm thinking I could have tried to get her to just come with me after we drop the friend off in hindsight. But wouldn't that make my girl look incredibly bad? All thoughts welcome. Hope to be more consistent with my posts now."Home"
Lesson learned from this is just keep going and you might get something that looks promising. All it takes is one open person.
