I generally like going to the small bars by the pubs cause there is music and stuff but you can still talk and communicate and generally you can start drinking with and building connections with the girls you meet and its highly likely you will meet them again throughout the night at different venues etc. and since you already pre opened them the next time you see them they act like your already part of their social group. (well that's what i find) (and from that point i find you can escalate much quicker and often you will get very obvious signs e.g. she will just pull you and start grinding on you etc or just being much more physical.
Even within the big clubs there are some spots where you can sit and pick up as i said sometimes its hard to communicate though but if your in those loud area at least you have an excuse to leave and isolate her e.g. tell her its loud in here so you should go to .... bar which is like two building down. (if she has friends they might tag along if so bring your social group to keep the occupied or if your smooth enough you can make it yours and her little adventure or some shizz)
I haven't done much night game at clubs and bars but I can relate to this. I often found that girls are there to get validations from men and most won't go home with you unless you got your game down real tight that night. Since I live in a small size uni town, club games also become like a huge social circle where the girl is likely to be judged, especially the hot ones everyone go for. so I stay away from clubs now, and occasionally hit the bars.
What i'm interested in this post though is night STREET game. Because I just got home from work and along the way there were a few opportunities that I missed (still kicking myself for not even trying), I have never pick up a girl at night on the street and let along in freezing winter temperature like tonight. The streets were dark, and there were no one else around. So I'm just wondering what's the right mindset for picking up girls in these situations?
For my day game, my mindset is: Ok, I'm gonna go make this girl's day and have fun enjoying our interaction. It'll be Ok even if I don't get her number because I'll already be getting what I want.
But for my mindset in the situation above is like this: It's dark and cold. She probably just wanna get home. If I walk up to her and start to compliment her, she'll start to wonder if I'm one of those stalkers that kidnap girls at night.
I know this sounds silly lol but I need the right mindset so I don't communicate the wrong intention. Thoughts lead to action, which lead to reaction.